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25 thoughts on “A Narcissist’s Favorite and Most Feared Word

  1. Nope. The number one word is to imply they lack "appreciation" because the whole time they are trying to get you to appreciate which is really brown nosing but they want you to be modestly realistic not just flagrant appreciation. Huge trust issue but they don't trust themselves yet. Check out Demi moore in Dead Right. They are both narcissists and they both die. Funny too

  2. My narc doesnt like the word Bully

  3. Have been dealing with my situation for nearly 7 years now. I loved him dearly. I have allowed myself to be hurt deeply…I am watching these videos and learning, learning, learning. He has finally destroyed all love and respect I had for him. I am much stronger, knowledge is power.. Building up to leave soon. In the past I had an upset with him and he actually told me I was crazy and something wrong in my head.. I told him he should look in the mirror at himself.. Thank you for this example..

  4. I have listened to several YouTube "drs", well, most said they had a "degree" in counseling that said the narcissist will come right out and tell you they're crazy and to listen to that… that they are being openly honest about it even if they say it in jest… you are the first one to say a narcissist hates that word… or did the others mean the overt narcissist and not necessarily the covert narcissist? One word they all say a narcissist hates is "sorry"

  5. Anyone ever experienced a french narcissist?

  6. What they fear the most is loss of control. The "crazy" concept can be narrowed down further to the fear of loss of control. This is ultimately what causes all suffering. Even expectation is about control and stability. Humans are addicted to stability. Those  of us with the deepest fear of the unknown are the ones who develop psychoses. I think narcissism is like ego sickness. Paranoid schizophrenia is characterized by inability to cope with things that you perceive as threatening, so it's ultimately fear of the unknown, and fear of losing control. Those who are able to cope well with the unknown and live with the knowledge that expectation spoils are the ones with the most stable minds. People with enough intelligence and mental stability and discipline never have to fear losing control of themselves and therefore don't try to control others or dominate every situation.

  7. He always tells me I have anger issues and HE is the one yelling. He tells me that I am such a disappointment to him.

  8. The "evolved" ones will admit to being crazy, gets their target right between the eyes to have such a stark admission!

  9. The word to me when considered seriously means "fragmented", "broken", disorganized & disordered.

    Like a "crazy quilt".

    So yeah, it makes total sense that they'd hate & fear it!

  10. Spot on upload. When they are critically ill from narcissism, when they are caught doing horrible things, they become abusive physically and will even destroy hard evidence against them. If they are parents, they will use the mentally ill card against their healthy, yet suspicious spouses, in a sick and vain attempt to seek custody of children, of which, they shouldn't be permitted to lay eyes on, let alone raise. This is the most underrated mental illness out there. It will come under further investigation as the medical community becomes more educated about it as they will come across many more broken children and adults, and will be forced to deal with this illness properly. Narcissistic personality disorder is not much different than schizophrenia only it's much more dangerous because the Narcissist functions in society and is generally well-trained in drama and lying. True experts at killing people without shedding a drop of blood.

  11. I think the word they dislike the most is "No".

  12. Spot on w/ their neurosis about there has got to be wrong w/ everyone except them… And how they are able to attack that inner core… One thing I learned is they can only attack the core if the other person allows it… Otherwise setting up the boundaries to say no and don't equate or rest one's self esteem w/ them because that's how their shitty manipulative tactics starts… the word NO can make them hostile. And they use the word SENSITIVE as an issue that the person is "abnormally unstable" making them ill at ease…

  13. And I actually felt crazy at one point in time.

  14. oh my ex husband used to call me crazy all the time.

  15. omg….you have no idea how free and normal I felt to learn that I truly am normal and sane, and that it's actually the family member who is a narcissist…!!!!
    all my life she put me down and would tell me how I'm crazy and something wrong with me….if I was sad and crying cause my feelings were hurt, she would be so angry and tell me how I'm not normal and too sensitive…she would drive it into my head how something is wrong with me for ever mentioning my feelings and emotions….she had me feeling to end my life many times……and just today I see and realized that my mom is a narcissist. ..!!!!
    it's just now sinking in how normal I am and how it's her with the issuse……I feel so liberated to learn this info…!!!!!

  16. lolol.. I love it.. its so true. I am going through the worst time. He would regularly tell me I have "multiple personalities, bi-polar,".. and every other mental disorder there is, and actually had me almost believing him. I feel so low, and need support getting through this. I have wasted three years of my life dealing with this person and it has been the most abusive situation ever. I had no idea, what narcissism was until I googled a simple phrase regarding a behavior that he kept displaying, and stumbled into these videos. This is some seriously dangerous, deadly shit, and I think it needs to be addressed a serious issue compared to HIV AIDS, or any other major illness. I need help coping.

  17. Thank you for this video, it's really such a relief for me to understand what goes on in my mother's contorted mind. Hope it'll help me get my life back in track.

  18. I was physically attacked and hit in the face for calling a narcissist crazy. I can vouch 100%.

  19. Favorite phrase was not just 'crazy', but "bat-shit crazy." Plain old crazy wasn't good enough.

  20. I think it's "sorry"

  21. the problem is they believe everything they say.. even if there is no investigation.

  22. Wow.. So many doctors on youTube. Amazing.

  23. its true they don't like to be called crazy, especially the theists at least this is my experience thus far, wooo get away from me meltdown momma.

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