Narcissists have had to learn numerous ways to beguile,charm and magnetically spot those they can count on for an ego boost. If you are one of the people who …
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Seems to be getting worse in the workplace. Thank goodness for my new job!
Working with nice people!
Thank you!
I think I'm dealing with a narcissist, and it may be me. However he seems to be the one who is always distant, not consistently around, blaming our relationship problems on me, and seemingly playing the infidelity card. But I do have moments myself that fit this video description. Thank you for your knowledgeable guidance Beverly.
You are wonderful, Beverly =)
Great video with very helpful information!
Damn. Just had a service worker come on to me. It started with him being very nice, then hugs then kissing. Told me how he fought in 5 wars, very rich, bought a home for his parents, but so devoted to his 4 kids he couldnt get involved, couldnt give/take phone number. A week or so later comes to the door Saturday at 4pm. Wants to talk out back (where we were kissing) said sorry I was busy. He left but never said if he would return. He knows where I live. I already feel weird. I am so amazing to this guy but not enough to make a date. Now what ?
Thank you very much, time flies when I am listening to you. You are loving and kind.
youre an angel
Wish you love too! beautiful classy lady!
I really cannot get enough of the wisdom contained in this video. Thank you for all that you do. Strength and honor.
guess I have been walking on eggshells all my life !!!
these people also want to DO nothing. They want you to be a slave to them in their movie about themselves. They want you to come down to their level.
Thank you for your vote of confidence, your strength and dignity (just follow your lead) you are making a difference. The more I learn about narcissism, sociopaths, and psychopaths, the more I watch who I interact with. Jim Morrison was right, people are strange. Thanks for the enlightenment.
Great video Beverly.
11 years late to hear this message. Now paying the price. You are teaching me. thank you. I am being dealt with all that you have spoken To ask questions to this person is like talking to a rock.
So, a person who had a childhood that caused them to learn to please and appease and to manipulate in order to survive is a narcissist and should be avoided? I spent my life trying to figure out who hurt my mother and caused her to fight her way through life. She is hard to deal with, for sure, but she is also worth loving anyway, isn't she? If no one ever loves her — the real her underneath the scared kid that learned to survive — then doesn't that verify to her that she was right all along not to believe in the possibility that they too could be genuinely loved? I'm not trying to argue, just to understand why giving up on someone is best.
Belieeeeeeeeve.
So, so true! I had to smile when you spoke about them playing the hero or the victim in ever situation. I was raised by a Narcissistic mother and later married and divorced a man that was/is. I'm no contact with the both of them, but they definitely played the victim (she) or hero (him). Great video!
THANK YOU!!!!!!
You are right on!!
how does a professional treat these people?
Welll explained…very helpful
Thank you Beverley. Your message is put so gracefully to those who have been the victim to a narcissist. I was embarrassed to think that I could have fallen for such a person, but I realise now that it could happen to anyone. Thanks again Beverly, your videos and work is much appreciated – you have a lovely soul.
Hey thank you for talking about narcissism insightfully!
maybe some narcs didn't necessarily have traumatic things happen to them which made them that way and maybe, they weren't born evil or wrong either. Maybe they just choose to be this way.
It's been six weeks since the one I thought the one broke my heart. It still hurts and now looking back it sounds like he had all these traits.
A narcissist will also want to do all the shopping to control the money, I know had that happen to me.