Borderline Personality Disorder vs the Narcissist and the Sociopath. BPD’s typically attack internally via self-harm, in contrast to the narcissist and sociopath who …
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BORDERLINE RAGE vs NARCISSIST & SOCIOPATH
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he would plan the chaos at five oclock fridays. it was rather depressing. and what really bugs me is that you don't want to tell people because you feel stupid for getting sucked in to being with an asshole and on the other hand, you are trying to plan your escape. All that and have to listen to them bitch and complain about evertthing and be the center of attention. AHHHH!!!!! And they are BORING. They have no insight or spark. it's like a broken record of boredom. And, you feel like you are the parent of a sick child. What happened to the man??
I have BPD, I'm 17 and I'm scared.
I'm trying to get as much information about it as possible so I can not turn out to be terrible.. I don't want to hurt anyone.. I just want to understand so I can't get better. :(
Mine would attack me until a couple of days after I "saidsomethin". What an assclown!!!!
i wish i could announce the name of the a hole! Hmmm……..
i think no delay sounds like my former friend, whereas i am a narc
unfortunate yet great. my scapegoat son has a lovely girl, but but but she has borderline diagnosed. she sees the picture with relatives. he has serious abandonment issues. yikes.
RIP headphone users.
Please don't scream.
I have these borderlines in my family and the last rage was three weeks ago was so bad and so SAVAGE I called the police. That particular one has done these rages all her life, is a complete control freak and never knows when to stop as she has an endless supply of lies and hatred she saves for these outbursts. Another one (again borderline) starts her rage with a loud roar, she changes physically into something very scary with her neck occillating from side to side and eyes on fire while screaming abuse and lies. Something big has to happen to stop the rages, they do these outburst in front of elderly, young children, in restaurants, supermarkets, anywhere, it's very shocking for any bystander and if you are the target it can leave you with PTSD.
I think we need to discuss more about the borderline's personality disorder since now I am just learning they are worse than narcissist and sociopath disorders? Rage? Can't be much different (just in a different light) compared to the narcissist and the sociopath. All three, destructive personality disorders. You know Sacha, we are learning all the time, 24/7. Maybe one disorder is worse in one way and another is worse in another way. Peace, I love your videos, endless education.
I'd bet on the narcissist in this fight. Borderlines are more abusive, than manipulative. They can sure kick a narc ass in the short term, but the end card belongs to the narc, who can play along long enough for the bpd's feelings to develop and one day just get up, discard and leave, which is worse than death to a borderline. Both are predatory and it's great fun watching them go at each other :)
Very much agree
I have been diagnosed with borderline traits. I am generally very kind to people and the anger only comes out when people do me wrong. And I don;t mean petty arguments, but injustice. My ex N covert did a good job of hiding his behaviour from me however I got him by the proverbial cojones after he tried to take me on…because I am a clever girl and I did not stop until I found out about his secret sordid life and I kept evidence of everything i found. Everything. And those files are going to remain in my vault because I do not, and will never trust this man. & not only this, I found one of his secret romances, who was oblivious to what a liar he was , also. She and I made quite the team and unfortunately he got exposed. And guess who is playing nicely, now? Yep.
Please make some more video about BPD and Narc interaction :D
Sashca, is it wrong that I find you attractive? ;)
You thought borderline rage is bad? Try schizoid rage. Schizoids are colder than narcissists and psychopaths. Schizoids are known for their emotional coldness. If narcissists and borderliners rage against me, then I will just let their asses be put in solitary confinement. And if they hit me, then they should be very happy that they wake up in a hospital after that. I do not care. I will sleep very well at night.
Interesting distinction. Thanks for flagging this up.
great video, thanks
i so wish i was a temp boarderliner, so i could clean the room with the narcs's assssssss
who cares? After a BPD or an NPD or an ASPD has gone gorilla and batshit crazy on you – who cares if they regret it or whatever? Do you have research to support this supposition? Let's put them all together in a Thunderdome and see who comes out alive. Very strange comparisons. Whatever empathy a BPD has, it's transitory at best, and immediately forgotten on their own self-absorption.
I had to remind my narc of the legal consequences, and he turned it around on me. I tried to calmly and candidly tell him HE created the situation. Now I'm concerned he'll retaliate against me. Even if we are miles apart. He can't be trusted and everyone will believe him. Right? I don't want to hurt him, even if I could hurt him with his job. I don't believe he cares about anything but how it would make him look. Our family wouldn't believe me until I was dead. And my closest friends would be my witnesses.
An excellent analysis! There is no rage so dramatic and utterly terrifying as the borderline. All consequences seem forgotten in the moment. I would add, when my BH threw a rage at ano Narcissist whilst the N got overpowered being grabbed and screamed at, the N then went on a relentless and lengthy vendetta against the B calling the Police and going on a massive smear campaign to wreck the B's whole life and reputation. This continued for years. Overall, I would say the Narcissist did the worst damage through cold calculated revenge, but the Borderline rage is truly a wonder of the world, and, could be deadly.
They will clean the room with your ass! Lol!!!
In my opinion I was in a year long relationship with a woman who was Borderline. Yes, the love phase is intense and hopefully somewhat genuine. It seems as though the Narcissist may just use it for manipulation, I don't know. However, BPD's are still Narcissistic. All their talk is self referential. They will emotionally abuse, and eventually devalue and discard you. They move on as though they never knew you. I don't think their capacity for empathy is the same as a normal person, though they may be more tenderhearted overall than the Narcissist.
I agree with what you said about borderlines being the only cluster B personality disorder that has the capacity for love and empathy but also have the scariest rage anyone can imagine. Check out my video about my story of Borderline Personality Disorder when you get the chance 🙂 https://youtu.be/lPyZu3AXTaA
I think I'm traumatized just by watching this.
Thank you for this video, Sacha. I've had some bizarre encounters with these types. Seems (until just now) I was encountering a lack of info on BPD and how it affected me as someone who does not have a PD but who's been put through hell by people who do… I discovered PD 10 years ago and, for the first time ever, through this video I am hearing someone else talk about the violent, psychotic break I know from experience BPDs can have… again many thanks for your insight :)
not just cluster Bs only but any kind of victim of abuse and the biggest threat to a narc is anyone who will stand up to them they will back off immediately!!!
the narc lives very dangerously because the narc pounces unmercifully on these types of people but they never expect them to fight back or turn on them certain types of people really hate to be comtrolled…
You just jumped my healing ahead by lightyears. After 8 months of comparing myself with my replacement and feeling like shite because I cannot compare to her much greater narc supply, I am gratified to realize she has all the markings of Borderline PD. Sweet revenge on my narc. They can have each other. So glad to be clear of them both and that I did not let them trap me any longer in their triangulation.
excellent…
AMEN GIRL……. <3 KUDOS TO YOU BRINGING THIS ALL INTO THE "LIGHT" GOD BLESS YA :)
tool should say weapon.
Sacha Slone, you are spot on BUT, hopefully you know that the manipulation is not premeditated, nor used as a tool. Plus, with enough DBT the rage (not psychotic as that's very insulting)(which btw is horrific for us to experience) is 85-90% avoided.I think I manipulate as a coping mechanism for never having learned how to develop in to a productive adult. So if I feel intense fear, yes I use my intelligence to remove that feeling. If you were on fire, wouldn't you jump in water?Your video is great though & made me realise why I've had so many bad past relationships. Also, you know I imagine, how traumatic it feels when our love bomb disappears & reality sets in?It's like having a dagger to the heart.It's easier to be single in a world full of people waiting to exploit BPD people.X
Brilliant!!! brilliant brilliant!
5:55 NO they do not feel any regret, they feel regret that they got caught. My borderline ex was her most happy and positive at the most extreme levels of disrespect and betrayl. This was because I hadn't discovered her at this point. When I did, of course she was crying and sobbing and tears all over the place and her saying she's so sorry she fucked it all up. But I already had it confirmed to me that there could be no possible way that this was anything other than tears for herself, and not regret from hurting me what she felt for me was only more loathing and hate because my negative emotions were making her feel bad. So I don't believe for a second that they feel compassion. They will insist they can, but that's because they don't know what actual compassion and love is. If they did, they could never do such horrendous things with such lack of regard for people.