What is the best way to get revenge, and really make your narcissist pay?
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How To Take Revenge On A Narcissist!
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So true
it's perfect too me you got beautiful eyes…your so beautiful
These people will WRECK YOUR LIFE. RUN NOW. DONT COMPROMISE!
I love your post. You hit the nail on the head describing a narcissist. I had a run-in with two that I rented my house out to and it ended up as a nightmare for me. I was falsely accused of things and they did damage to my house and even stole antique furniture from me. Then they moved with no return address so I could go after them in court. But you are right to just let it go and rebuild your life. I don't think they are worth a second of anyone's time. One thing I learned is to recognize them and not to deal with them. Now my life is surrounded with people who are genuine and loving. Thanks for your post.
You are the cutest thing ever! And I see so much life and light in you. I am so glad you got your joy back after narcissistic abuse. I am getting mine back too. Praise God!
Great video blogs and thank you for sharing.
Best revenge is to first educate yourself about their personality disorder and then review your relationship with them. Put together a journal of what you were put through , expose them to everyone as what they are, and if the empath in you feels sorry for them provide the info they require to get help for their disorder. Finally live you life happily ever after. I dealt with a covert narcissist woman for over 4 years and I live away from her during the last 2 and I count myself lucky, I broke up with her because I was just fed up with her gaslightings and lie and deceptions, she put me through her narcissistic discard phase by admitting to me that she had been sleeping with my friend's step daughter who lived next door to her while we were still together and she described it in details and she knew what she was doing and she told that all in the front of the gal that she had started her relationship with, so I felt betrayed, humiliated and she did it because she wanted to harm me emotionally, mentally and then she wanted to put a restraining order on me too. Anyhow because of that I set on my journey to figure out why she played this drama in such way after I was the one who broke up with her. Well, I understand her better than ever now, she is a CNARC, and I even went another level deeper to understand why she was a CNARC and low and low and behold, everything about the personality disorder pointed to childhood parental abuse.. Her parents are from Serbia and her mom is the narcissist , her dad the enabler, they claimed that their son hung himself at an early age which I never bought into it , how can a child understand anything about suicide? I think they played their role and the gal I was dating always addressed her late brother her protector. Now I understand the meaning of her words, in her parents eyes she was the golden child and the son was protecting her from the parental narcissistic abuse and once the brother was no longer alive poor gal most likely got abused in every possible way, emotionally, mentally and sexually. This is a very sad sotry. But I did take the time to learn about her condition and I did provide her with the information she required to get proper help. I feel much better now and I no longer feel; hurt. I have moved on with my soul intact and I count myself lucky.
"Revenge is the Lord's," is the way I calm myself.
It's in the bible, I think.
I just work for God each hour & this irritates some people. My other boundary is that I keep silent. I just say that I will not answer that question.
My other defensive behavior techniques are:
-that I am not home when she is home. I avoid her;
-I started cooking (but she liked it. She started to teach me to make pasta. "Stir it so it won't get burned," she told me)
-I started to do carpentry. She didn't like it, but she's at work so I just put the wheels on the bookcase & ignore her comments.
-Yes, I choose to be happy like you. I keep a serious face at home so she won't yell at me. I laugh & play at the park with our son, his cousin & friends. She hates going to the park so she doesn't see me laughing.
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Yes, she has a golden child.
I have a favorite child, too, because he is polite.
This is a great video.
I also record her when she has a tantrum.
Now she behaves better.
My dad wrote to me:
"The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference."
Well, one day I'll be competent in providing for myself.
Please watch my videos.
My NarcisSister and I would go out and people would often guess or ask if she is my Mother. I am only 2 years younger than her. She punished me severely for this and I had no control over it.
They are blood suckers
will you please contact me. I myself just got out of a relationship with an narcissitic personality and I'm in the midst of writing a book about the relationship.
I want to be accurate in what I'm saying.
odinson11203@yahoo
Two Narcissistic parents , two narc exwives , one acted like my mom the other like dad. Which one was worse?
just endend 3 weeks ago whit a narsisist, still adictiv to him, i try to move one, i know all the advice but for now i still want some answers from him, that what i don't like about myself.
Awesome video !!! U nailed it. Thank you !
I was raised by a narcissist, the emotional abuse has caused me to develop cptsd and i now have a service dog , unfortunately im only 27 and i had 2 daughters before i was 20 …. she brainwashed me my whole life to want children but only so she can take them from me … i have at this point had her kidnap my daughters multiple times and try for custody in different states claiming no prior cases. She has even gone as far as to relentlessly convince ever work place, every family member, and even my husbands and boyfriends i am mentally unstable and well a monster … i have for the last 6 months recorded every phone conversation and even make this video to let her know although she holds my daughters hostage , and is emotionally abusive to the, openly ridicules them to get an angry reaction from me, im not playing the game anymore, .. i even managed to get her to confess to 5 felonies, including false complaints of abuse and knowingly filing frivolous litigations,of fraudulent potions that violated the jurisdiction laws … hear watch this….https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsKWdb0_kZw
Du har så rätt i det du säger!!! Har du flera videon?
God, your eyes are beautiful…
What if he has taken his revenge ? how then i can take revenge ?
Bcz m hurt too badly … i can't breath thinking all this…
How do you react to his verbal rage attacks when you are in his presence? Do you ignore him, turn away or walk away from him? I am unsure how to react when this happens to me with my female relative. The rage occurs so suddenly and unexpectedly that I freeze up while she shouts at me. How can i react differently to protect myself.
Hi I have just learnt that my husband is a narcissist and it is very heard.
All narcs are like twisted cruel children. Their emotional development simply hasn't completed and they seem to be stuck at the level of early to mid-teens.
I'm glad I'm me.
Excellent post; Thank You..
are you done making videos?
Word for word my husband and his mom. Thanks for mentioning the smear campaign…MIL lied a lot about herself, me, and husband covers for her.
Fra et amerikansk norske Takk! Og lykke til deg. Slike En vakre kvinner .. ;-)
oh wow…..very intelligent way to describe a narcs "auto pilot" way of thinking.
Great vid, but 9/11 was an inside job. US government = ultimate narcissist abusers.
the only revenge is to leave them and have no contact . They get the message then that your not taking anymore crap. If they threaten get an EPO , document everything, if they are suicidal call 911 if you know where they are , or call a family member of theirs. But most people that are in a long term relationship with a Narc end up in womens shelters or hiding out somewhere. Once you get mixed up with a Narc, they think they own your soul or something so I think they need to have a witness protection program for Narc victims!!!! Move if you can , do whatever it takes to get away, if you have a supportive family it can really help . Stand up to them but be nice about it. Its ok to defend yourself and stand up for yourself, but do it with dignity and respect. Cussing, and yelling only amuses the Narc. Crying humors them even more. Be assertive , state what you want in a relationship and be gentle about the fact that they cannot meet those needs. Getting angry at someone so self righteous, and delusional can have tragic outcomes. Be brief about why your leaving, blame yourself if you have to , to the Narc. But my point is leaving them is the ultimate revenge, they can no longer control you!! But will still try to hurt you!
u are the most beautiful thing I've ever seen…
this makes me so sad to know i cannot fix them my mother is a narc and i am 48 years old and have just let go of her, she is 77 now and still the same i was chasing for her love for years, she has killed me in side ,i am now learing this is her stuff and never mine as she made me nuts thinking i was mad from a little girl, so when i grow up i had a son who was the love of my life and when he got to 17 he changed he is now 29 and is the same as my mother a narc. i have been running around him to get his love and for him to love me back ,im repeating the same as i did with my mother. i now have to cut him out my life as i did with my mother but this is so painful , but i have to love me and put me first . my x partners where narcs but im now married to a lovely man and feel blessed to have some love back in my life. for years i wanted to know what was wrong with my mother and thank god for all the stuff we can get on youtube. today im getting help and healing. and yes your right when we cut them out they have no power to plug their hate in to. god bless to all who have been abused by narcissist.
my ex husband is like it too, I think my father had lots of traits, he was very curel to my mum, but he passed away a very long time ago. he did spoil my youngest sister she could have a do what ever she wanted and learnt how to get control over others, if you don't allow her to have full control of anything even when it's not her business, this personality shows itself. she will bad mouth you to anyone who will listen. im looking on how to cope with this personality she has, or others if you find yourself in the same space. x
I really hate my narcissist husband. He lives for payback, is incredibly vindictive, a good liar and he loves the "game" (to him) of how many lies he can get away with and how much he can manipulate my emotions. He loves to see how much he can make me stay with him. If I leave him, he's already shown me what he can and will do to pay me back. I will be destitute. Homeless. He's old now, but having to wait for his death to have a meaningful relationship with someone else is just wrong in so many ways. I've been forced to give this fuck head 30 years of my life. He can say the words "I love you", but it isn't' real and it is only for others to see. He just thinks he's getting away with it. I finally told him to stop giving me stupid lovey dovey cards for birthdays and whatever, because, I told him "If you cannot actually say these words in this card out loud to me, I won't open it or read it. The last time he gave me a card, I didn't even open the envelope, I just reached down and silently put it through the paper shredder while he watched. He's a genius at putting on a good show to others that he's a prince. Trust me, he's not. He's really smart too and can figure out really convoluted ways to pay me or others back. He's very patient to wait and figure out the payback and he waits until you're at your lowest of the low, then hello – here comes payback and heartache! I don't understand this kind of person at all. I haven't left because he has promised me (and I believe him) that he will hide the money and tell lies about me so the kids will believe him against me or at least doubt me. My daughters will never take his side, thank God. I have a special connection with both of them. They are also in agony about his tormenting me. At this point, I'm just marking time before either I die or he dies. Lord, I hope its soon for one of us.
my sibling treats me like im the worse person in the world so i cut off from her because of her abuse towards me. she has threatened to wreck my life I did get very poorly, I have no contact at all, shes has told people how awful i am, she writes some awful comments about me that are not true and if someone defends me she becomes nasty towards them, im not even allowed to defend myself through her eyes. i have her block, i also got her blocked so she cant even text or call me. , I m going to see a David Bowie tribute band next week and I've recently found out she will be there. once shes had an alcoholic drink i get the dirty looks, i did ignore her last year when we both was at the same wedding.
knowing they are sick gives me comfort…thank you♡
im very lonely sometimes due to the damage that was done to me by a friend Narc. ..I cant trust. so I isolate and have hard core anxiety attacks…im healing because of vids like yours. .you have no idea how much I appreciate you sweetheart. (((((HUG)))))
Great video :)