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Wow I wish I would have known. I'm free almost 2 years now but I put in 7 be the first year was soo decievngly great.Thank you James from the bottom of my heart.
just broke up with my narcissist today after dating a few months. I could not take it anymore. He took my goodness for granted and I've been there, done that. I don't want that drama in my life anymore
… Bait and switch …
I'm a dude. I was trapped mentally in a relationship with a narcs for 2 years. I was being a sucker and a punk. Pussy and mouth whipped. I walked away literally. One day I got in my car and drove away.
I feel like I am toxic too… But I don't mean to be!
Yeah – i met this dude from Brisbane, that owns a server … started bragging to me about his on-line girlfriends that his common-law wife didn't know about ….. i think his name was Gregg? Cliff? Harold? Aw. that fuck was so forget-able…. who cares?
I understand that 75 % of the men are the ones who are Narcissistic BUT there are the 25% of the FEMALE population who abuse men too. The females are not addressed in the examples and men are portrayed as the abusers. Just expressing the inequity of the videos here on Youtube mostly by Female targets, not particularly you James
your right on thanks james
My ex wife of 9 so called years. Bipolar schizoaffective narcissist
James, all I can say is this: God bless you! Wish all abused people, especially abused men, will see the light as they listen to your words of wisdom.
I haveing mate any one yet, that have shed a tear for someone else.I' am the only one in my family that have real tears for one of them.Narcs don't play mg with people that trait them like sh_t , they only play mg with people that trait them with respect , (they're punk bullies)!
This is so true!!! People (such as narcs) can only display an act for so long, and either when they think they "have you hooked" and/or they can not keep up the act anymore and they begin to slip, they begin exposing themselves. But, like the point that you made, we want to discount their "bad" or "dark" side because of the initial impression (act) they displayed AND we also want to live in the "fantacy land" or illusion (maybe denial) that they are the nice person that we first met.
Never marry someone after only dating them for a year while they are still able to hide their "true self". This is way too fast!
Thank you James!
The point you make about big-gift giving acting as a lure to blind you to your significant other's toxicity is right on. This has happened to me from 2 ex Narc girlfriends, both of whom were/are Narc-squared. I've found the gift giving ploy to also apply to the family as well (usually $), especially when they wish to punish you for previously going no contact, make you dependent on them, and shame you for accepting the gift. Your insights on the subject are narcissism are remarkable. I hope you write a book! Incidentally, how do you deal with the desire for vengeance? I've always shrugged it off, but lately I find myself ruminating on the subject. Advice?
in Portland, on vacation, my ex just publicly unloaded on me at a dive bar called the Tugboat…I was actually frightened of her. I slept on the floor that night…I didn't listen to the warning sign…I was discarded in Nov 14. Still recovering
yep my narc was nice for that first year. there was maybe one bad day within that time frame. but you are right there were some red flags i was unsure about. i chalked it up to weird behavior or everyone deals with things differently. i had know idea what this person was capable of. stay strong and never back down from someone trying to use or take complete control over you.
excellent video! this is absolutely true. thank you.
Excellent video, James.
He's back! Everyday, I look for your new videos, and it is very much appreciated!
I'd like to see two narcissists meet and start their romance.
Great video, James–pinned it! I had to figure this lesson out on my own, so I hope that anyone who needs to hear this message will find this video timely.
Having grown up with narcissistic abuse, in social isolation, I wasn't able to witness or experience the behavior of emotionally-healthy people, so I had no others to compare my home experiences to, which then made me vulnerable to other narcs. Despite having poor boundaries, fortunately for me, I'm not prone to codependency, so all I needed to know was the truth, and that's when I'd walk away. There have been manyyyyy lessons to learn, but I do try not to repeat the same ones.
When we learn self-love and develop healthy boundaries, we will no longer allow into our lives these soul-sapping human parasites, nor will they see us on their radar.
Seen the out burst and was I like, wow! It happen with in about two to three months. Wish I seen your vids over almost 4 years ago. Yes, they will come back if you let them. Once they find another victim, they are out. Great vid