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Narcissist: No Sex, please, I am Cerebral!
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Thank you Sam, this explains so much.
Do you offer personal counselling?
Bingo — dated two narcissists — one withholding cerebral (predominantly) type, one somatic type. Cerebral guy was sexually withholding, porn-obsessed and admitted to occasionally cross-dressing. Somatic (predominantly) guy soon only wished me to watch him masturbate until climax. I spent several years with cerebral guy, only a couple of months with the (less narcissistic) somatic, having recognized the NPD patterns and left the relationship Somatic guy was very handsome plastic surgeon — vacillated between cerebral/somatic — worst of both worlds.
high functioning autistics both sexes are often mistaken for the narcissist.. Most are single or in chaotic relationships, often never settling down.. Love is the only way
I am amazed with the accuracy of this information. Thank you so much, Sam! YOU ARE BRILLIANT!
If I were her and she was him we would go and fuck ourselves again and again
Life is very dangerous and it wants to rearrange us like your friends, like the end
Show me into Target and I'll show you how I bought it with my mind on my mind
Touch it out in the parking lot, fuck me while the whole world watch us waste our time
Wow, wow, wow. WOW.
Sam you deserve the Nobel Prize for this video.
Story of my life Sam.. both my husbands.. I am blown away by the romance at the beginning and ignore the lack of sex..Then I go insane with neglect and depression. They both have tricked me into thinking they are superior for not needing sex, that men who need sex are "inferior" in some way.. its so insidious. I no longer exist and should be happy to be in his presence nothing more. I am sick of this. i'm getting out! Both highly educated men.
thank you. you've made my clarity on my husband so real.
Sam's insights are astonishing. Listening to him speak affirms my sanity at times of confusion at the hands of a cerebral narcissist who I loved deeply. For that I am grateful. You've kept me alive and with hope.
Wow Good bless you!
You have described this aspect frighteningly accurately. The emotionless and sporadic chore-like consummation was the worst. The inability to reach climax except through masturbation, was a red flag for me. He went to a sexologist, but I am doubting he expressed any of his dysfunctions to her. The fluctuation from hyper sexual to asexual has also been difficult. The claims of a low libido or no sensation at all. I wondered if it could be hormonal or a thyroid issue?
I love masturbation..I cannot even kiss a man.in not gay…I just feel others cannot get me what I need sexually.men like me..a lot..so do women…the only time I have sex …randomly.I practice safely..but I am craving to be submissive but hell…its hard to make another dominant
Sam, can unusual eating habits go hand in hand with cerebral narcissism? My cerebral narc would regularly go days without eating and would be very proud of this achievement, saying he didn't need to eat. In doing this he would shame me for needing to eat.
Im writing an essay on cerebral narcissists and wanted to know are cerebral narcissists afraid of getting close to someone and do they avoid relationships and do they play mind games
What about buddhist monks?
Are they really a-sexual ? I think they're closet homosexuals/
I never understood asexuality until I started watching these videos correlating it to narcissism. It kind of makes sense now. Interesting.
I wonder what more positive outcomes come from cerebral narcissism with regard to it's focus and obsessions and possible inventiveness. Does history have good examples. Could say Mozart, Picasso, Bill Gates or Steve Jobs fall into this kind of category. The domestic and intimacy realm appears chaotic and unsuccessful but much of the inventiveness of humankind also seems to originate with some rather strange characters.
so If I am more in to intellectual conversations than sex, does that mean I am a cerebral narc? I do believe that acting on impulse is predatory, however the real reason I avoid sex is not because it's animal like or weak, but because I don't want the partner to get emotionally attached or cry because I had to go after words. So does that make me a Cerebral narcissist?
very insightful
yup.
Narcissistic assholes!
This also applied to my past relationship. These videos are helping me tremendously by letting me realize that it really wasn't "me". This behavior he displayed toward me made me feel ugly, unwanted and undesirable. I'm happy to see a video on this subject. Thanks
…relationship for a longer period of time through sheer will, knowing that if he abandons his partner, she will likely leave him. Is that simply too draining, or do some manage that? My former spouse was also a pornography addict, although I now see that as a side-effect, not the central problem.
This video rings so true as a description of my former spouse. I do not find the descriptions as true to how I remember him unless it is specifically the cerebral description. He wasn't one to loudly blow his own horn or even to get overtly angry. Everything was simmering below the surface and I felt silently judged. Sometimes, if I made an off colour joke at a party, he would scold me afterwards. Now I realize I was supposed to be "pure". My question, is a narcissist able to fake an intimate…
I have heard that about 75% of narcissists are men.
So pretty much N's use their girlfriends/spouses as a beard so that people think they're sexually active, but really they're abstaining and creating tension in their romantic relationship. Interesting. I've also seen the severe and rapid mood swings N's go through cause their wall of fidelity to come down after awhile which is when the chaos is unleashed. I do believe N's live for that chaos because it allows their Narcissistic rage to be unleashed.
is it possible that a narcissist/borderline purposefully or maybe subconsciously make themselves sexually unattractive to their partner? with the aim of ending the possibility of intimacy? is it possible that narcissist/borderlines can drive the partner to a form of asexuality?
is narcissism mainly/only a male thing? that's the way it sounds here, but is not specified…