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Pedophile Narcissist: Narcissism, Pedophilia, and Hebephilia
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this is chilling….absolutely disgusting!!
paedophiles. ugh, but… do you think the age of the partner might be a determinant to sexual attraction?
How would a malignant narcissistic mother who had no boundaries with her son ( touted the wonders of gay men in front of him as a teenager, called girls' mother's and said he cannot date as a teenager, basically kept him arrested sexually ) have an effect of creating pedophilia in her son? I"d say it definitely creates the condition where healthy adult heterosexuality cannot exist, and he is developmentally stunted at a childish pre sexual stage. He has been enmeshed and enabling a very sick mother all his life and has NO autonomy and control over his life as an adult. As it is he is a cerebral narc /asexual type. He blames his sexual issues on being the eternal , un-healable victim of what seems a normal incident with another teen girl . They treat adult realtionship in the same exploitative manner, objectifying their target/
Could it be that the child represents to the narcissist the part of themselves from which they are disconnected ?The child is innocent and open, and represents to the narcissist his genuine self ( unwounded childhood self) which has become completely blocked and inaccessible to the adult narcissist .The adult narcissist attempts to 'steal' from the child what he feels was stolen from him,that is,his own childhood,his own innocence, his own genuine and true self.
youtube suggested me this video after i watched a video done by some hebephile who wanted to justify their chronophilia claiming that tweens and Young teens cant be hurt and that every man is an hebephile ( which is not true Since it is primary or exclusive attraction) . Smart device.
Getcha some of that spoot!
I was abused by a woman, and it has made me like older women.
My son just reported sexual abuse to me at he hands of his narcissistic father… now I'm under supervised visits
Fascinating tot bits of info. The fact that women can and participate in paedophilia is not discussed. The shameful secret not delved into or uncovered
Is it possible to have a vigilante serial killer ? We really need someone to protect kids in a better way…
the scary thing I think is that like Narcissism, it seems biology has inuered us to be A.) Narcissists and b.) at least ephebophiles, which is just a hop skip and a jump away from the more devious paraphilias like hebephilia or pedophilia.
Americans are too cowardly to kill any criminals.
You've been to Bohemian Grove?
As society tries to become more "civilized" it puts a stronger strangle hold on humans' natural tendency to express themselves & be free telling you what to do how to think how to feel how to be and suppressing that human to act like a robot or "perfect member of society" can cause abnormalities in behavior to spurt out — sexual, emotional, cognitive, from the in-authenticity thats encouraged. think Ancient Greece the first "civilized" people who turned out to be pedo's
you can't, they're everywhere, your professors, military, police, doctors the list goes on. its increased %20 since the 70's, and will only get worse, technology is alienating us taking away the one primal activity thats kept humans on a healthy track – regular healthy social interaction [that means face to face, touching, eye contact (something very intimate and almost taboo now a days)] so with personal regression comes byproducts of abnormalities like, anxiety, ocd, and pedophilia
Kill them, just kill them.
when I was like 6 my female cousin tried to play "doctor" down there and I was perfectly aware that she was a sick bitch and I told her if she ever tried to touch me again I would tell everyone….well about 15 years later I just blew up and told everyone in the family what had happened and I told her I forgave her but she of course says she doesn't know what i'm talkng about. what I don't get is why the victim will repeat these acts. If I ever seen a pedo in action I would probably kill them.
do they re offend as y dad did it and i took him police last yr my step dad brought me up from baby found he wasnt my rea dad any way . no one has come forward but i was told that my brother was touched by his mate my cusin abused by one of his mate and another abused babies and young girls by his mates an god knows how many others they all conected and i think a ring in the 198o's . they met in prison for burgulary and
This happened to me, and the woman used me for my money, and everything else. She threw herself at me, with more sex as time went on. She tried to seperate me from my family as time went on. This was a tool to better take advantage of me, and my money. She used me especially by my empathy for her children and to a lesser agstinct her family at large. She was a crack adict, and a felon. She was truly a manipulative and controlling person who went to jail as soon as I broke up with her.
By raping the child they merge with the child, the victim becomes an extension of the rapist, their individuality destroyed. It is an act of ultimate aggression, penetrating the very being of the innocent, desecrating their very persona.
Sexual and violent impulses originate from the same part of the brain. That is why so many get the 2 confused. BDSM for example. It is one of the most basic drives: kill it; fuck it; eat it – they are all the same impulse…
Condescending,secretive,controlling,overcritical,no empathy etc. This sounds like the pedophile in my life.
those narcissist/psychopaths, they have a amazing ability to flip the subject when they are caught in a lie. The sooner you get cut these people out of your life the better.
Speak, the same thing happen to me. They all need to be castrated, eliminated, they are stains on society
Yep, female paedophiles really do exist.
(cont.) And speaking of beans, I must say you really are spilling the beans on these sexual predators. I aught to know, having been exposed to Canada's most notorious pedophiles, serial child rapists and murderers. With the advent of technology, sexual predators have beome quite orgnaized and can be very dangerous. Because children have no money, no power and no influence, the average person tends to minimalize the pedophiles crimes, much to the whistleblowers detriment. Best wishes. GOD bless.
Thanks (once again) Sam for your insight. At risk of feeding your ego, I will (once again) commend you for your fine work. If only other psychiatrists/psychologists spent the time and energy to explore these subjects, the world would, indeed, be a far better place. Instead, we endure a world where so-called 'mental health professionals' push psychotropic drugs like just so many jellybeans, disguising the true etiology of dysfunction. The video "Psychiatry:Industry of Death" elaborates further.
I still don't understand why pedophiles get sexualy aroused with children. Wouldn't they also get pleasure from just being sadistic to children or anybody who is sufficiently submissive and scared? Why does it always have to be through sex?
I have no interest to have sex with children.
however I prefer sex to bet treated like handshake or good meals without any emotional content. of course you are free to disagree but if I had children i would prefer allow then to have sex any time they like.
I wonder how I should think about myself, since mentally I am somewhere puberty and plan to stay there forever and I hate adults. But my body is getting older it is not easy to find grown up woman who is at same mental age.
You sound like a NAMBLA member. Examine your issues and set yourself free from emotional derangement, really. Children are not sex partners for adults… it is serious abuse. All abuse of innocents is wrong and should not be done nor tolerated.
I don't say that child abuse should be allowed, however it is stupid to make one form of abuse punishable by nearly death sentence while allowing other kinds of abuses to be free.
also people completely ignore consent of children, even if child want to have sex nobody is allowed to help. adults do whatever they can to restrict children from having fun. I agree that it is inappropriate to have sex with person who depends on you, but anonymous chat on internet cant harm anyone.
Any adult having sex with a child is sexual abuse; it gets unclear when it's someone say 21 having sex with someone 17. It's a matter of consensual ability and taking advantage of innocent children. The psychological & physical damage pedophiles do is why it's a serious crime. And you're talking about an emotionally ill adult burdening kids with problems in a damaging way, so yes that's abuse. Because there are other ways of abusing kids, it does not excuse pedophiles' crimes. It's all wrong.
Oh sorry. I got confused. Yeah, I'm only 16. This seems like a weird disorder though.
what you describe is rape not pedophilia.
I do not say that child molesting should be legal, but it should be considered less harmful than other kinds abuse like neglect beating or using your child as weapon.
talking to child about your problems and making child feel guilt about that is heavy abuse because child will have lots of problems later.
there is no way that we will going to live in peace at any time, things are getting worse each day. Pedophiles are just scapegoat for all problems.
probab;y you are joking, of course WAS kid like everyone else.
I don't see anything meaningless about a small child being raped or a boy being butt-raped by a man…I'm crazy that way, I see it as a serious crime, damaging to children and society. Talking to a child about life's problems is not abuse if done responsibly. All abuse of innocent lives (including animals) is wrong, of course, we need to get a handle on it and stop it if humans are ever to live in real, lasting peace.
Wait. You're only a kid? Damn. You're pretty smart. haha.
I am just speaking from my personal experiences, how changed during my life.
I believe same way should be applicable to everyone.
I am very disappointed that people are so much concerned about sexual child abuse while I and other children had to bear much worse things than pedophiles.
Oh. Are you some kind of psychologist?
It depends about what kind of pedophilia we are talking: I think everyone is pansexual what includes attraction to children, but this attraction is inhibited in some way. once you remove your inhibitions you can put them back.
If someone is hard pedophile, he can be cured by removing other inhibitions that prevents that person from linking other people.
If we talk about child abusers, sexual abuse is only one of many kinds of abuses that exists and are completely legal.
the problem is that you see sex as something significant while for child sex is completely meaningless.
it is just same as peeing or eating and it gives some pleasure.
real child abuse is psychological, even without sex it is possible to make extreme damage to child and get away with that.
for example what if mother is talking with her son as with her boyfriend and makes him listen to her problems at work?
Hmm… That makes sense.
I have a question though. Is it possible for pedophilia to be cured?
When I was child I has enormous interest in sex but there was no possibility to do in in any way than with myself. so if some women had interest to have sex with me when I was 9 years old it would be great.
unfortunately sex is denied to children, and now I hate all humanity for denying that pleasure to me.
society wants to brainwash children into breeding machines instead of people who live to seek joy and happiness.
women pedophiles are widespread, but they manifest in different way. Instead of using her child as sex partner, woman turns boy into her surrogate husband who must take care of her emotional needs. this is way more damaging than sex play, but it is completely legal thing to do.
women seem to have low interest in raw sex, they just use sex to suck man into emotional contact.
I dealt with these twisted monsters in my career
they cannot be rehabilitated
communities have to be protected from them.
Males have a stronger sex drive, which is the reason why almost all pedophiles that we hear of are males. The number of pedophiles in existence are a lot more than we think. Fortunately, the vast minority do NOT molest children.
Didn't say it couldn't. Women are just as rotten but many are content being "kept" objects according to their perceived status, as it absolves them of adult responsibilities, as possessions, not real adults. So tyranny in women has been more them getting others to do the brutal deeds, like the status of wearing animals' fur obtained by men. It's still more unusual for women to be pedophiles or sexual predators, due also to the anatomical difference of being the one "done" rather than the "doer."
Another point @samvaknin, it could be the youthful vitality and purity of prepubescence that attracts pedophiles. In ancient china there were a few who believed that immortality could be obtained by having sexual intercourse with a girl just before she reached puberty.
Exacute these sick perverted weirdos.
@fancyfrenchy Have you finally left him, or at least reported him?