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I know a Narcissist at my workplace, the Narc will always try to make me look bad or stupid.. They will play the game crazy eight's by trying to make me look crazy, the Narc will always play King's & Queen's by giving the appearance of being much better at their job than they really are by upping their achievement's that are really quite small or non-existent at all, they are extremely two faced they will talk smack about people behind their back. I once asked the Narc, why they seemed to dislike a certain colleague so much the Narc dismissed my comment. The Narc has now been redeployed to another section of my workplace ( much to my joy ) this means i can have as little contact with them as possible thus making it much easier to do my job. I've heard that the Narc is seen very curious about everything in their new environmental space & I'm thinking yeah so they can do the same thing over and over again
I am sure you've met my boyfriend.
Thank you, mfromcanada1! You have just written my mother's autobiography.
Everything here is spot on, my narc nearly drove me insane and almost to the point of suicide. It was pure hell, and the bad thing about it was that I knew exactly was she was doing, but I allowed myself to get caught up in the love bombing and gaslighting. I lost my sense of reality, these people have ties with the devil, and there is a very special place for them in hell when they leave this world.
new evidence is proving that there are as many men as there are women that are narcissistic
are they all so textbook. never have i had a relationship with a man like him but now that i have some support and i start to realize this isnt uncommon it seems like they are all alike.
exactly
The missing word in most of these threads is SHE ;)
So true… I've experienced them all… May we all find enlightenment and move on with our lives that is the best revenge for the narcissist they are locked in a limited pointed of view where all they see is no one except themselves.
Could also tell by the sarcastic and patronizing tone of her voice, especially when she reads a part that particularly applies to her. Listen to the way she reads "liars poker".
Can be a man or woman.
what is with all of the he this and he that, women are far worse or at least just as bad for being narcissistic, there should be he/her or they and their
Humans are so extremely narcissistic, individually and collectively, it’s a trance of such selfishness of such magnitude that the other species and the earth are just back drop.
Its like trying to talk to a total prima donna lead character in some major film production about some aspect of the set. They look at you annoyed you are even wasting their time with such trivialities.
‘’Excuse me, but the set is on fire, all the other characters in the play are being tortured horrifically and its because you’re such a prima donna all you’re interested in are your human dramas, your fineries, your pleasures comforts and conveniences. Don’t you think you’re being completely evil to destroy all life on earth in the cruelest way imaginable?’’
If they say anything at all in response its totally insane.
Today someone shared a comment from a non vegan on Facebook. Along the lines of… ‘’ I really don’t mind people being vegan, not torturing and killing and destroying the whole world, but when I’m sitting in a restaurant enjoying tucking into torture, having a family gathering where I’m giving my children torture and pretending it’s the most innocent and wholesome thing I’ve ever done… and a bunch of vegans come into that restaurant to share their opinion…in front of my children!! Now, I know why people hate vegans.’’
LOL!
Yet while preoccupied exclusively with the human drama, non vegans only concern themselves with those humans who they personally care about, not the 7th of their own species who are dying of starvation right now because of these animal abuse industries. I mean…would it make a difference if the billion people who were starving were in UK, France or America? Imagine the outcry if poor African countries had all the power and were feeding our food to animals they tortured from birth to death for pleasure.
But the narcissists see nothing. The animals and earth, the starving people….what’s any of that got to do with them? They are too busy starring in their own favorite show. Themselves. They have the bible to preach don’t you know….. far more important! They have an evil elite to expose…. those bad guys who are doing all that is wrong in the world.
Prima donnas, in the face of being told they are torturing and killing on such a scale they are destroying the earth, need a scapegoat to project their own evil onto. So they look to those who are most powerful among them, who do a bit more killing than they do….and blame them.
Yes its the evil elite who are to blame. That way they can continue to play the hero, victim, rebel, revolutionary. As the whole world gasps its dying breath, as the last animals screams go unheard in the prison camps which are kept far from prima donna's eyes… the prima donnas are playing ‘good guy’.
In their final hours the prima donnas take their narcissistic psychopathic duplicity so far that some go into a fervor of religious zeal. Proclaiming far and wide that if people would only believe in Jesus then once you’ve destroyed this world you will get a free pass into eternal life. They develop ‘New Age’ spirituality where they smile a lot at their fellow animal abusers, perform a surface act of peace and calm, never say a bad word and claim that if you just do this, then you are living from your heart.
They describe this New Age so well, talk a good game when it comes to this concept of love, but when you ask them about the animals, the starving people, they look at you blankly and give their victims no more consideration than a piece of rubbish which happens to be cluttering up their penthouse suite dressing room. Act like a king who has been asked to clean up his own castle. Utterly indignant….how preposterous! They order up another killing, and tuck right in.
HUMANS
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mko86ATE-Js
This is a great video full of information. Thank you!
I had just all renovations and nursing my narcissist wife back from her heart valve transplant (mechanical) when my son from a prior marriage was kicked out needing a place to stay. My narc wife then threw me out and said you really felt like part of the team. She brought up one night a year prior when I had told her she was a benevolent dictator and 3 years prior I was late to pick her up on her birthday. I told her she was switching to the wrong team when she told me she wasn't a team player, with a laugh. This woman coerced me into marrying her and I couldn't understand why she seemed so surprised I sould marry her with her heart problem. Five years of abuse and hard labour for nothing. My first she was narc was when she hoovered me back she was very cautious that I may try to blame her for something. Even my mention of menstral issues possibly being the trouble was a threat of blame to which she assured me she would run from. Second clue was when she projected her crazy on me and told me to learn about narcissism. Third clue was when every video I watched described everything I had been through with her.
Wow I always heard of narcissist but until my marriage to one I would have never believed it. I had a 10yr anniversary and 2 weeks later was being told she wanted to leave me, and I found out she had someone else it's been a nightmare since, I loss 30lbs trying to deal with the shock of it all these people are dangerous.
THIS IS SOOOOOO REAL IT'S SCARY!!
ONCE YOU REALIZE THESE THINGS, IT'S A HARD PILL TO SWALLOW THAT YOU HAVE BEEN LIED TO FROM MOMENT ONE! WoW!
my sister is a huge narcissistic sick twist. She has made up so many lies about me, tearing our family apart. she only dates married men & causes divorces. My husband is the only man she couldn't get. She fought for him, even telling everyone our first child wasn't his. She's had 2 abortions that I know of. Every friend she's had she slept with their husbands/ boyfriend & has my family believe Im the bad person. She hates me because Im happy with the man she will never have. Now she's older & aged horribly my husband and I sit back and laugh at her. Im going to live my life & continue to be happy-go-lucky & laught with my man, because it makes the evil bitch misserable. Growing old alone as I sleep in my husband's arms & we plan our future & enjoy life.
I really like the presentation. It is by far better than other stuff I saw here on this topic.
thank you for your succinct summary of life with these adult shrieking babies. I love the way you get the co- narcissist to see their part in their own lives. the narcissist WILL NOT CAN NOT DOESN'T WANT to change. the only way out is when the co-narcissist changes
Amen brilliant
The bests narc's play off the anger :w
Please replace 'he' with 's/he' in the text.
I've known quite a few narcissists in my life. From the time I was 5 years old I've been an opponent to somebody in the game you call "cat and mouse". It is because of that game that I am now incapable of bonding with people. Narcissists will scar you if you let it go on too long. For those of you who are parents, keep in mind that children are just as horrible to each other as any hardened, jaded adult might be.