The core of Narcissism presents as a dysfunctional cycle. In this video we go in-depth with a little help from Christine Hammond’s wonderful article: …
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The Narcissist’s Cycle of Abuse in 4 Stages
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my glass is getting full he used to say and i or my son was creating the problem, its your fault always, i want my son to recognise this and thats what is behind this eduction. ie, they make a problem with you, its you thats doing this and they bait you into thinking being with them is a benefit, you want control and their negative emotions put on YOU. They look for a rise out of you to give them satisgaction, by blowing up they blame you for reacting to the humiliation, put your back against the wall and restrict you every way they can then say you have issues. SELF VICTIMISATION INFRONT OF AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE , DESPITE THE FACT THEY WERE BULLYING FOR MONTHS, THEY ARE DISGUSTING NARCISSISTS THE WORST INHUMANE BEINGS POSSIBLE. ACTUALLY ITS A SOCIOPATH I DEAL WITH TRYING TO SAVE MY SON.
Do you notice how much physical and aesthetic beauty appeals to them, even themselves they have a routine of preening themselves to the max. Is that a narc trait i wonder, I also think thats why they hate when you start looking well when they discard you. Ive had sabbotage by flying monkeys to undercut my appearance from cutting my hair to changing it to brown, to stop dressing in classy clothes, its pathetic, i gues i should shave my head and wear dungarees and trainers with no make up. I love my clothes and stuff as i lost all that to narcissistic abuse for soooo long.
I admit to being a dark triad sociopath, I'm high functioning, do work but limit myself from people as much as possible.. Its better the life of a hermit than hurting people..
SO ACCURATE! its when i started researching into this side , i got so much clarity on why my relationship was a maze, confused , doomed and crazy. which is when i finally could let go knowing that it wasnt my fault or even normal issues , it was him all along and i couldnt see what was going on !
brilliant, as per usual. thanks.
The delegation of emotions is a pattern I've seen too, whether it is negative OR positive emotions, whether it is anger, sadness or elation.
I came to the same conclusions as you on 99% of issues. I really appreciate what you do, I just tumbled on your channel…
Really, you're epic
I have allways been very much in touch with my feelings, the doubts and the vibrations i get close to him. True, when I hit bullseye on what he was upto, he gets very angry overyells.
Boy this is right on. Once I can recognize all this, I don't have to follow the craziness. So so right on who they are. I agree you can't contain them or get them to feel sorry for ANY issue.
yup. drove me to a crazy state until I punched him in the face. felt good. no regrets. my fault for enabling control, and all types of abuse.
Please give examples.
you left us angry:(
you left us angry:(
Does people like this really go into situations knowing they are doing this? Also is this condition learned or innate?
I am finally extraditing myself from 40 years of marriage to a narcissist. Your videos have been most helpful. The cycle you describe is most familiar to me. Thank you so much for shedding light on this matter.
One of the cycles of abuse is going in another room and talking bad about you on the phone
"A Narcissist is always taking stock of what bothers you." Absolutely True! It is especially eerie that they can take stock of what bothers you even with information that you know they can't know about you (Mind Reading) this is where psychological explanations alone may been inadequate, and a more metaphysical explanation may be needed such as reading your stored energy in your Aura, or their being possessed by some kind of dark entity. With Narcissistic women, I will tell you what threatens them and makes them act out the most is fear of intimacy, especially physical with true love involved. As you have said, it is just underneath the radar that these people have suffered from sexual abuse in their childhood. So, to all Co-Dependent Enablers like myself out there, keep getting better. Ironically, the only person you can save, and should save, is yourself!
I wish I would have known this a few years back. I survived this cycle for years and I did not know this was happening. For years I thought I was losing my mind, especially the denial-part….
But now I recognize the build-up . Thanks to some very passionate police officers I managed to escape, for I did not see this pattern. If I would have stayed for one more cycle, my ex would have murdered me. It sure wasn't for a lack of trying that he did not murder me.
Hi, I was wondering, could you possibly tell stories with the specific Narc trait being described? For instance a while back I dated a narcissist that would start yelling out of no where and start saying things like, (Name Calling) "You're acting like such a little boy!" because I would never stick around when she would yell. She tried to convince me that a man that walks away from a woman yelling is behaving like a child. Let's be serious, we already have enough non sense on Facebook with sentences that start with, "real men do this…" which it's sadly impressionable on young men.
If you confront them, and make them see their actual problem they have, can psychological therapy could help them change, get cure ???
It IS that simple. Thank You darlin'.. You're still Mr. Awesome Sauce xoxo
Ps in reality, they're cowards which is another word that will make them go away