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That is how I feel too, that those believing they are above getting abused by another narc are misleading themselves. The next narc will most likely be very different from those you met before – atleast by appearance. And it's easy to feel paranoid and instead brush off some odd feeling you have. Often that feeling later on turns out to have been very accurate.
You're absolutely right nobody deserves a narcissist… NOBODY
And after all of this, they're still missing the points! I did not and do not have a masochistic cup that's in constant need of filling! The two points that matter most are: 1) I had no idea people like this existed; 2) I was duped. Predators count on both of these to entrap and manipulate their targets. They depend on the fact that we're ignorant of their existence and this ignorance makes it easy for them to fool us!
It is my contention that no one EVERY falls for or has even met a narcissist. We're never approached by a narcissist. We're approached by a "horse with no name!" If we had, for one second, been approached by a narcissist, the very last thing we would have done would have been to befriend, marry or even consider them human beings! We'd have backed off immediately without hesitation had we been presented with the monster we encountered later.
wow, great compare and contrast, and your many points do make a lot of sense Id love to hear you go toe to toe w Sam on this topic.
I gotta continue to think abt this because every thing Sam said is how I've always felt.
Im beginning to wonder if I pathologized. (Takes two to tango) myself unconsciously ? Wow lots to ponder, great vid! .
You did make a lot of sense. Of course people are amazingly not alert about allowing V to be an expert on mental health. I have analyzed his system as a whole, and it leads back to a reinforcement of narcissism, not an escape from it at all. A typical narcissist, he derides all avenues of escape as signs of immaturity. To comply, to conform to authoritarianism is deemed the only mature response. This shuts the door to independence (real maturity) and to thinking for oneself.
Yeah, isn't it interesting how whenever you leave a situation that is sadistic, the sadists are totally taken by surprise? Oh, no, no, no, there is no such thing as masochistic supply.