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Going Mental: How Do You Know When a Sociopath, Narcissist or Borderline Is Lying?
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No accidents…pay attention. Once I went to Sherri's with my ex to tutor him and the UNIVERSE was trying to communicate with me directly. 1. First we are waiting to be seated…the waitress mades us wait for 10 minutes. In that time a female stranger comes and starts touching my ex 'Didn't we do drugs together' etc. He allows it. She comes to me tries to touch my hair…I told her right away 'Don't touch me'. 2. One of his stalkers were there. His body language was clearly saying 'Abuse me, I'm a sucker'. I asked him not to touch me when she was looking. 3. Some random drunk person picks my ex out of all the people in the restaurant to ask him if he could assist him with his pants. My ex is about to go along until the waiter comes and asks the man to leave. During that time there was like a shadow that fell that told me to 'run'. This situation is putting me in danger. Sometimes when the circumstances are STRANGE like this…it is time to pay attention and run for your life. It is clear that he was bringing danger to himself and by PROXY me due to his lack of boundaries. Those people are bullies and are equally dangerous. Like sharks, they smell the blood of a weaker, dependent person. <-get away from these people they will get you killed. They will attracted danger and bring it RIGHT TO YOUR DOOR! He also had another stalker that we had to 'tolerate'. <-madness I threatened to call the police. This person almost got me raped because he hangs out with riff raff and future criminals and sex offenders. He/She will bring danger right to your door. Before this person got into my life, I didn't have these issues by proxy. I am a confident person that doesn't attract riff raff but people like this will help others violate your boundaries and they have the biggest mouth ever. He is a social whore…nobody knows about the lies he told attacking your character or creating a smear campaign.He is a sheep whose closest are wolves in sheep clothing. He is a breach of security…a trojan horse. <-Danger..he is the FIRST one that needs to go. He's the problem…they can infiltrate my life through him. So sh*tbars, who ordinarily cannot access me can do so with this doormat, enabling idiot. There are some vindictive psychotic bar whores and a male psychopath…these are their friends…jealous people who have no friends. They are a heart beat away from ending up on that show 'SNAPPED'. I had to cut off ties block my ex and his entourage…he got a job near my house but I don't go in. I don't look at him, talk to him or acknowledge his existence. That is what works. I've done this before..SILENT TREATMENT..can be a way to navigate. When they are talking to you words are meaningless…it is the emotions behind the words that you pay attention to. Those words say 'Abuse me, I don't have control over my life. Bully me, I will put up with anything because I am afraid to be alone. I attract bad people that I make excuses for.' :-/
You better run. I actually got a warning from the police about this narcissist borderline I used to hang out with who was a friend of my ex. I tried to report a lie that he told about a shop keeper because this asshole is a pathological liar. The police told me he was a liar and to stay away from this person. Damn, when the police have to tell you…this asshole is insane. He actually BIT me in the neck and he slashed my thighs with a pocket knife when I was over. He had several surgeries so I was just hanging out watching movies because he was drugged up. When he bit me, I screamed. I wasn't what he was looking for. I wasn't that low self esteem girl with coke addiction and anorexia. That is who he usually preys on. He told me 'You're hard to read' as in MANIPULATE. They are looking for victims not confident people. I figured out how to stay off their radar, engage the left brain or the logical side and refuse to be swayed by emotion. Besides, they will disappear when they find out you are healthy…though they will try to groom you. Everyone you talk to will tell you that they are an ASSHOLE and that is correct. Users, assholes, don't engage emotionally! That is their fuel! Emotional regulation bullsh*t…force these people to seek professional help by removing yourself and going NO CONTACT. I can't stress this enough. Don't make excuses for these assholes. People keep making excuses for them this is why they appear calm…they are getting their supply. Watch them when you ditch, they go apeshi*t. This motherf*cker was impersonating a police officer, and a DEA agent and he called the cops on me cos I hung up on his ass. Seriously, this guy is dangerous. He made a threat to blow up a building which I had to report. <– WTF! Run the other way and then stay in therapy. I've been single for like 3 years JUST so I can disengage and learn more about the DYNAMIC of the f*cked up UNDERLYING EMOTIONAL DYSFUNCTION. I've been doing self help on and off for 20 years because my FOO was fubar! Don't stop learning and remember surround yourself with HEALTHY, POSITIVE people! Listen to that inner voice…you will feel this horrific thing wash over you. That happens when you suspect they are lying…that moment when you know they MUST be lying. Also, pay attention there are no accidents.
Really? BPD do not get a degree of high when they "lie" which they really don't, do not catagorize BPD's with Sociopaths, they are not the same people.
I called my X's smirk the Cheshire cat grin.
Worrying about 'catching' women like this in the act feels like way too much effort. It's just ego. Do you want to be healthy and sane, or do you want to be right?
Just note it, keep your suspicions to yourself, and nod and smile like you're the most gullible chump in the world. It'll come as an even bigger shock when the day comes that you block every method they have to contact you. Tell them you're moving to become a banana farmer in Guatemala first. Surprise!
Dr Tara has this spot on…follow your gut!
thank you for this video. my bpd ex got so angry that i violated her privacy and caught her lying about shit. and cheating.
the pain will be greater than the lost is the key statement I heard that hits home to me. thanks for the video please keep them up. I learned so much about both sides ( women and men) thank you!!!
very interesting
There we go: after the first step hope about the spiritual war ( psycho vs empath) and there we go again.
After having our attention and trust they start with the confusion.
Addiction and ego comes from a survival instinct to the powerful wizard of oz and his flying monkey. Remember a psychopath will drains you to death and will have you poisoned so you will seek legal medication for a real condition but they will start to slender you with addiction. Mainly the psychopath has no need for substance expect the the thrill of killing slowly the victims like a snake.
All human have to cope with them but empath have to fight them, many empath are edonist or shamanic so the addiction agenda is a good give away the psycho are flooding us with their dialectics.
The scumbag smile! OMG. I am (as Dr. T put it), responding from the island of reason and stability now and would like to mention how I have began the journey of healing. After having being involved fro three long years with a very disordered chaotic man (his mother also), I am happy learning how great life is discovering myself. No more abusive relationships. This last one was a growth opportunity, and I have three words that sum up the relationship. "Thank you asshole."
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A bit boring this video is, thumbs down!
Paul dose not realy get it
interpersonalily intelegent people ( people with soul ) who make the mistake of joining the army come back with borderline personality problems. It is a abuce thing. Some people have a lesser limit for abuce and it will twist there personalitys. if abused over a long time You guys are still just scratching the surface of this subject. I know a couple of borderlines and am one myself and we all have verry legitimate resons for being damedged. You guys come off a bit hateful your show would be better if you was a bit more understanding that lots of borderlines look at this when Thay are looking for help and advice on the problem that is ruining there life.
Got a problem with the duping delight thing. When I'm arguing with someone who dosenot make a sensible argument I do smile but it's a smile of pity that they cant make a good point. The smile is because the borderline has looked at every argument you can possibley make and knowes he has the stronger argument ?
Shit gas lighting is what my parents do to me. They are abuceif then say it's me making it up
Why won't someone with NPD ever come clean about lying even when they are caught?
Yeap, checking his email was the way I found him finally lying and having all my doubts cleared … then he explained we broke up because I was too unsecured and he was not lying to me but his friend… follow your guts in the right timing is my advise, instead the smirk this guy put a frog face like "I'm not happy, I don't like this" a little gesture of not convinced in his lips, days after and weeks after I received more information… stay away from these people they are highly toxic, they will never clear the mess they left and they just simply dissapear… 3 months later I am still healing. Keep strong, better to be alone than with a jerk!
What these people don't realize is that the truth is the easiest thing to use against them to play against their own weaknesses.And by the way I am a certified Narcissist
relationships are mine fields
children always suffer because of splits divorces etc and some never recover
male or female your history has permanent effects on you and your future
personally i feel safer single
I have been in relationships but it ain't easy …
ok i don't have that i am the luckiest man in the world
you know the feeling you are floating on air
but actually looking at my life right now in reality i might be . even luckier single
Safest for neurotypicals to always assume they're lying.
Did he just say Doctor T Bag? Hahaha
Everything my husband did, does or ever will do to me. Is my fault. Whether i know about it or not. Whether i realize it's my fault it's my fault. It's my fault for not knowing that's it's my fault. How confusing is that. It's my fault if i catch him doing something dishonest. Because i was coming up behind him looking for stuff. No i was doing the laundry. Sorry i looked in your pockets. I gave up trying to figure it out. But sadly that's what he ultimately wants me to do. Give up lay down & let him walk on me.
I sometimes think about apologizing, , Confrontatioa situations really upset me . Then I have to give myself a shake after having had my self esteen beaten to a pulp by these evil entities. I am really sorry for the mess they create, but not pleading or going to apologize just to appease to feed more to their twisted overinflated monstrous egos. They already caused enough grief to last ten lifetimes
This video does not live up to its title: "How do you know when a sociopath, narcissist or borderline is lying" It does NOT tell that much about How To. The only "how to" I saw was to look at long term patterns. Surely there must be more ways to uncover/recognize lies? I've figured out several that an ex- did to me, which I had no idea about when we were together for 9 years. It took me over 30 years to rationally look at his history with me. One was: he didn't give me any sex, for over one whole year. And rarely the rest of the time. He was very sexual with me for the first few weeks we knew each other. After that, he cooled off. Another was the he'd suggested to me and another couple that we have "open marriages." I declined — but I suspect he went on with cheating on me. He told me he'd slept in the same bed with a lesbian woman: "but we didn't do anything" My guess is that he was trying to change her out of being lesbian, teaching her how great sex was with a man. I actually found that hard to belived at the time, but was too insecure myself to break it off with him. Plus, I was afraid if I did break up with him, he'd commit suicide. (He found another wife 6 months after I left him!) Another form of lie is t hat he had every opportunity to cheat. He was gone for over a week at a time because he was a commercial fisherman. Another is that he told me and a friend of his that it was okay for me to have sex with the friend. I did, and it was a bust because that friend started a relationship with another woman too. That bothered me — but Why, I asked myself. I'd set myself and him up! That ended that, and I never again had "two guys." All of these point to him lying to, and cheating on me.
the telltail smirk …gotcha SUCKA scumbag smile sounds good…douche bag smile?
they just lie and know it-they will lie and when caught and confronted they make up another-
it's really pretty easy when you know a psychopath has no concience-feelings-they mimic and copy you so bad-just tell them like gosh i hate that program on tv-they will agree and next week on the same show say-gosh i love that show-they will agree-they really have no feelings of their own and you soon find out they have no shame or guilt etc-im married to one but it took me years to wise up and know it.
They don't ever tell the truth. Everything they say and do is for their benefit, not for yours. They do not know they are lying, it is all true to them. My father is a narcissist and my ex-wife is border line. Good luck to all of you, however we like what we like. We are attracted to these people. Get help making different decisions. Break the cycle. We are like alcoholics. We are addicted to these personalities.
Burn all the WITCHES you sissy bitches!
omg she keeps interrupting him. But yes, they are AUDACIOUS liars.
I'm a sociopath and I have borderline personality disorder :(
the so called micro expressions and eye movements are different for every one looking right is supposed to be remembering well its opposite for left handers or people who were forced to switch hands. i have pain full teeth on my left and sometimes i tighten my mouth against those teeth and then i get accused of smerking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i get off the chart angry when someone accuses me of something i didn't do, especially if its an accusation of cheating in a relationship
my gut doesn't work
Inner SCUMBAG!!! love it yep!!
This video has made so much sense and so informative and My partner is all of this and more … I felt I as going crazy for like 7 yrs but The last four this is him … I am blown away by how much this is accurate like a science .. Thanks so much for making this video…