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28 thoughts on “How Your Narcissist/Jezebel Became One

  1. Thank you so much for another helpful podcast! I am interested in hearing your thoughts on how 3 siblings who grew up in the same (extremely!) narcissistic household have extremely varying personalities in adulthood?

  2. You think there is a connection here with the bible & the narcissist where it says in the last days that the right will be wrong & the wrong will be right?

  3. The weirdest thing to me is how they are attracted to you and hate you at the same time.

  4. Great insights. All the NPD/Jezebel people I have known were to my knowledge abused as children in some way. And I agree, deliverance is the only solution for these people, if they would submit to it.

  5. Nobody explains why one becomes a codependent and the other a narc while both are terribly abused. Everywhere it is explained that the narcs were more abused. I don t think that.

  6. Sorry for the typo on my comment below. Hopefully you can understand it because it will not let you correct

  7. I think too many narcissists done fear God. The Fear of the Lord is the beginning g of wisdom. I know someone who is a narc Jez. After he's been led to understand he's not walking with the lord he suddenly shows a display of "holy spirit power". Hmmm. Well this happens whenever I kindly confront him on stuff. Then he becomes over come by the Holy Spirit. This will last for about a week and then he's right back to the same behavior. Committing the same sins over again. He will act totally convicted and as though he has offended God and he will never do it again, and yet he turns right around and does it as though God never existed. They truly do walk find Amanda flash and the dictates of their fleshly hearts which are darkened. They seem to have no real conviction and change. God shows us this behavior in the Old Testament when he says that men through the statutes of God over their backs.

  8. I've had two encounters with a demon coming to take over me. Both times I was simply trying to relax in meditation. Both times a brilliant, white spirit that I was only able to see as light came and spoke (language foreign to me) to the creature and made it leave me alone. I no longer meditate. However, had I not been a honest-hearted Christian, I fear that the creature would have taken over me; woe to whoever had gotten in my path then.

  9. I really enjoyed the video. Thanks.

  10. this is the vid on this I've found yet! will share

  11. Church made it worse so we are healing like this…bless the Lord for deliverance in our whole entire families for the glory of Yeshua washing our garments in His blood..thanks for this…

  12. got really tired of being compared to his poor exes then treated accordingly…but we do have alot in common

  13. I enjoyed your video,as you probably know I strongly feel that I have the Jezebel demon
    I was wondering, I was saved several time's by Jesus Christ.
    I still cannot but desperately want to get deliverance

  14. Thank You so much for bringing a biblical perspective to this topic. I have searched my heart to understand what just happened to me in my marriage relationship. I had to leave my husband because the behavior became so abusive It was killing me emotionally and physically. So many religious institutions support the narc because they can not identify the truth within the situation. So people like myself sit in pain afraid to share, which brings more power to the narc. It is nice to know this is demon possession. Would like to hear more on how to heal from the horrible demonic abuse suffered in this relationship. I have much to learn at the feet of Jesus. Thank You again.

  15. My former husband of 23 years is a narc/jez. Eleven years ago, he got rid of me in a most horrific way and I never got to go home. I literally lost everything over night. We have 3 adult kids together and this has really caused them problems but for the most part, they identify with their dad. They give him all the leeway (sp?) but I am held to a much different standard. I am no saint, I was abused as a kid as well and I am still trying to get myself together. Can you please tell me HOW I can pray for him and our kids? Thank you and God bless you.

  16. Thank you for putting together this video…it was excellent! First one of yours I've listened to, but not the last. 🙂 I met you around turn of the year on a Narc. Survivor channel forum. As I'm still living with the narc mother, who is verbally abusive on a daily basis, I needed the understanding you gave here to help walk in love and forgiveness. Sometimes I think I do forgive 70×7 in one day! Lol.

    There was a lot of wisdom given here…for me, how the narc is so demonized, they feel "right" and even justified in abusing you, because it feels so good to them. This, in turn, leaves them with no conscience or remorse for what they did. That was driving me crazy, but I get it now. Thank you for your great work on here, brother, and may God continue to bless you! P.S. There were an awful lot of distractions going on around here while I was trying to listen to this, so I KNEW this was going to be good! :-). Thanks again!

  17. I feel they do know what they're doing, because they must lie cheat and cover things. I think the feel people deserve what they do, because they lack empathy

  18. Very good stuff. I listen to alot of info on YouTube. And I find things from God's word, helps me so much more. Because this is such a bad, place to be in . So I take comfort in what his word and truths say. lots of prayer and being lead by the Holy Spirit. Thank you

  19. One other thing I noticed! Is that they rebound like crazy! Sex partners after partners! They can't stop and come to Christ and get healed! They can't stand the pain! So they become empty totally! And then the leach comes out! Give me! Give me! The old me, myself, and I. The other thing you were saying! God forgive them for they no not what they do?, but we know the these narc/jez knows what they are doing! Just because they killed there conscious! And can't or don't want God anymore so God gave them up! That is going to be the hard truth to except for us! Once the line is crossed there is no hope! For the lord has made all things for his purpose Even the wicked for there time of doom.

  20. SO……….Who can we speak to about this ? We can't talk about these things with secular counselors. Not even church pastors.

  21. One other vers that shows what you are saying about the twisted conscious! Bad, for good is Romans 1:18-32.

  22. Thanks! Again brothers! Your right the church isn't doing the right thing here! They not all are pushing all these 12 step groups in the church, along the psychology, and some even have psychologist ! On staff! But! Mans way will not work! They need to call on Jesus to save them! And come inside and cleans them with his blood, and restore to the glory of his salvation! I know it a lot! But! Really it's not! Once you hit that bottom, for me it was that way! I've been through that 12step area, and got abused by a sponsor! Jesus! And the father is the only one I will ever trust! A long with a few! Of us who have been through that pain. Thanks much

  23. You're videos are the most helpful and accurate I've seen on youtube and I'm subscribed to so many different channels. I've been a Christian all my life and when I met my npd I knew in my gut and heart that there was something wrong with his soul. I fell for his charm though and it did cause me to sin a great deal but as I spent more time with him I learned that he was raised by an extreme npd father who abused his mother so much that she couldn't take care of herself yet alone her kids. she was also an addict and alcoholic. I cared so much for my ex npd because I knew he wasn't raised right or taken care of as a child and it made me so angry that his parents did this to him. Now, even after all of the damage he has caused in mine and so many others lives, I still care for his soul. Im not excusing his behavior in the slightest but I still hope for him. I know there isn't anything I can do but pray for him but I was wondering if you could explain what a deliverance would really consist of for these people. like as far as the actual demons being forced out. I know with out a doubt that he is possessed by demons. I've literally seen it in his face and heard it in his voice when he had been heavily drinking. He would say THE most messed up things (some of which sounded like demonic jibberish and snickering under his breath) and it was like it wasn't even him that was talking but someone controlling his brain. I was also wondering if you had any insight as to when these people become what the Bible calls unredeemable reprobates. I guess only God really knows that and it probably goes case by case but I hear different things on the topic and I'm not sure what the truth is. I'm sure it isn't as simple as "resist the devil and he will flee from you" since these people are clearly already possessed. Also, I'm currently struggling with the aftermath of his abuse in my life. I sometimes wonder if I'm a narcissist now because of the extreme anger and depression I have as a result of being used and abused by him for so long. I do pray about it and I have been asking for forgiveness but some days I'm just so angry that I wonder if my own traumas will ever heal. Anyway, thank you for every single one of your videos.

  24. Excellent video! You are right on, 100% Even for a non-Christian, just plain spiritual person, non-spiritual, whatever, this has perfect information and is dead on. And it doesn't matter what way you look at it, a "spirit" comes over people based on the events they go through. There is a reason these same people even in my personal experience always have VERY dark or negative vibes being carried with them and it keeps them tied to "hookup" culture for their entire lives. Many of them can hide this negative inner spirit through attempting to put on a very positive exterior or falseness, but it ALWAYS falls away through time. Watch out though, they'll lure you in by idealizing you and showering you with compliments, sweetness, etc until they have you hooked. Then it's time to devalue and then discard, leaving you broken. It's their way, like a spider in a honey soaked web…

  25. OK.. so you say that abuse contributes.. test encourage us to spank. sorry. that is abuse. Hitting causes fear. There are ways to discipline a child without hitting. Only a handful of times did I SWAT a bottom. We were poor so my children did not get everything they wanted.. However they were called Prince and Princess.. I always encouraged healthy self esteem. I agree with everything.. but that.

  26. thank you thank you for your videos. brilliant videos. I recently had a situation with a narcissist with lack of empathy , selfish etc…….THese videos are brilliant. thank u thank u thank u. God bless u abundantly. I was deceived but Christ gave me big time victory and these beautiful videos are so amazing

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