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Narcissist Uses Money to Enslave, Bribe Victim
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Indeed. Thanks for the vid.
More eloquently put than my personal quip: "A narcissist's gift always comes with a turd attached by an invisible string".
This is why he was so "generous" His munificance made it easy for him to avoid intimacy. I loved him and wanted to be near him again like when we were young. When I think back to those days, I am sad to realize what it was really.
great video video I absolutely agree two thumbs up!
This is my dad. I need help. Please contact me
I actually can't believe how accurate this video is! My Aunt is a Narcisst and she has used this exact same tactic on alot of our family members. I was a victim of it once too until i broke free.
Sam your videos are amazing. Keep them coming :)
so true again Sam!!! i am supposed to be greatful for a tiny handout now and then, and in the mean time he is out spending all the damn money on alcohol, gambling, new clothes and whatever else HE wants.. Time is his, money is his and EVERY DAMN THING IS HIS. HE IS SICKENING and i am sick because of him. This is really unbelievable!!!
this video is very helpful! 'bizarre attachment to money' is a great way to phrase this! the money gives narcissists power and validation! it is like dangling a carrot in front of a rabbit! accepting their money over and over again is like selling your soul to them!
I was married to a narcissistic man..everything describe about them is true, I really thought I was the crazy one, I now know how to deal with him and quite frankly ..he can not handle me …why? Because with the same force he pushes. I push back harder…so he either fights or fly's… It doesn't make a difference to me..why? Because I learned to not give two craps…I have learned to heal…I'm happy.. God has been helping me…mainly stand up to him…I am not alone what can man do when God Almighty is on my side…thank u Sam for all your videos…
Thank you for your work!
No one is a victim. We all cause our realities.
Remember the Trojan Horse? A classic narcissistic gift. Think of poor Helen excaping her Narc husband 3000 years ago and him bringing an army to recapture her..
Think of a baited trap or baited fish hook with a nasty sharp barb inside, more classic narcissistic gifts.
Sam, you should try analyzing Steven Seagal, he is definitively a candidate for NPD diagnosis: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRhom3EEi40
All Narcissists are different. Hey guess what. If he's manipulative. An asshole. Abusive in any way. or blah blah blah.. hey guess what chick.. you've found one. RUN C:> lol Thee end. Or if you have a giant baby with daddy issues, kick 'em where it counts and tell him to grow up and/or get the fuck out! Most of the time, they fear everything, and that's why the must make themselves believe they are the GOD by abusing others, intimidating, or causing others self doubt. He is a bitch. Make him YOUR bitch C; serves the no brained pot smoking bastards right XOXOXOXO
Wow! Great video
03:13 …The primordial goo of NPD :-p
Sociopaths, indeed. This describes my parents to a "T."
Father died from prostate cancer, after a lifetime of being a Satanist, violent, murderer, rapist and pedophile.
Mother is still around, manipulating with money, as her six children struggle with the aftermath of unimagined abuse & sadistic torture. We are prone to autoimmune diseases, addiction, and mental illness.
Until I became disabled, I'd had successful careers as a scientist, business consultant, spiritual minister, and psychotherapist. I was lucky.
But now, I've had to ask Mother for help, because the sociopath corporation work disability I'd paid into forever, decided they didn't want to pay out anymore, after two years, and now that I'm terminal, too weak to appeal or get help.
God bless everyone!
And to think, that ONE person; one single human being, has caused so much pain and sorrow. When the economy went "south" I really lost out, and do you think one of these "banksters" gave a damn about all of the pain and sorrow they have caused; stealing and destroying the economy of America? No! They are narcissists too; so the damage they cause others is "collateral", and I guess that makes it all right? It is a domino reaction; what one does can affect so many. Right when I had hope to escape, Henry Paulson got up there and put on the performance of a lifetime. I am up on it all; I know what these rats have done. Little do they truly know how many lives they have ruined. Now they get up there and speak against "domestic violence." Heck, their policies have destroyed families and opportunities and really good people. Has there been any justice? No! Birds of a feather flock together, and they will flock until our country is completely gone, if we do not stand up and defend it. And that comes down to our families and how they disregard the structure of a family unit. They don't care; they are narcs too, and they do not "wish" to be bothered with such trivialities of a family matter; after all; it is "collateral" damage." Isn't it just great to be considered "collateral" rather than something that means anything? Godless Bastards!
Men and women are different; we are physically (obviously) born to carry out different requirements, but when a "man" (???) does not fulfill his duties, the woman becomes the man. She has to carry the entire load; the children; home; finances; relationships; and if she can, work full-time, on top of it all; every single dealing with anything; but the narc will go to work; get "adulation" from co-workers, and then come home to abuse and use. Perhaps, that is the only reason I ever existed, was to warn others! No one can handle all of this; no one! And, when his dad had a stroke; he left his sisters with all of it, and rather than caring, went and "took" a tool his dad had, worth a few hundred, and now his dad is returning home after a miraculous healing. Wow–now he has to find a way to put the thing back he "took" way before his dad ever died. What a man, eh?; or is it just a common thief, who thinks of nothing but himself when is "dad" is on his death-bed? I cannot stand him one more single day–God, get me out of here!
All of my life I have told people this: "Money is a toolbox." "It is not life; living; caring; sacrificing; enduring; participating; it is a "tool." Too many people use "tools" to hurt other people; a tool is supposed to help you to manage your life; it is a tool; not life, but to a narcissist that is their entire world; the tool to use and hurt other people; to betray, and in the end, walk away! That is, after they are done with you, once and for all, and then you are left with nothing; maybe some "food stamps" and a trailer. That is what a narc will do you. And to think, that at one time, you had a life and peace. WARNING; Do not get involved with one of these deranged people or you will lose everything; do not ever lose your independence. Don't ever believe that any dependency on another person is okay; it is not; and they will do anything to make sure their "tool" (money) ensures that you have lost your identity; you have become a part of them, and you have disappeared. (They try to purchase you as though you are an object.) That is what will happen to you. I have not disappeared; he just thinks I have, but I admit, I am so tired and worn out and so sick of trying to escape that I wonder sometimes if I am just wasting more of my time ever thinking there is any hope. Women's shelter are full to capacity; there is no way to find a job; there is no easy solution. What God gives you; don't throw it away on an impulse; "meeting such a nice guy." Do ever watch the ID channel? It is all there, and in the end, that is what narcs do. It will be you next if you do not get out! They use fear and money, and they will do anything, anything, anything, to make it all happen for them" when all you ever wanted was just to be loved and have a family and a decent life. These people are snakes; something is missing; something HUGE, and no human being can truly help them, if they are that far gone. And, most of them are, worse mentally, or caught, after a lifetime. Sam is right; they cannot change! Get out! Do whatever it takes; don't surrender your soul to a monster, and that is what they are.
The bottom line is: Narcissists live to receive; they never give, unless they will receive from giving. It does not matter who you are; wife; mother; father; children; grandchildren; friends, co-workers; they live to receive, and the only thing that matters to a true narcissist, is what they are going to get. The details are endless living with a narcissist; and Sam is once again incredibly accurate; money dominates how they will continue to receive, and they use money to trap, use; manipulate, and gain, in the end, for themselves. It is always about them. And because of their behaviors, they end up broke, alone, and their dependency on others giving to them, endlessly, renders them alone, in the end. Even if people are sitting right next to them, they really never participate as a true person, they "pretend" to be involved, but even at that point they are scheming about how to continue to receive and convince other people that they are genuine. It must be exhausting for the narcissist, but the victims in the end pay a much higher price. So accurate Sam!
NEW VIDEO Narcissist Uses Money to Enslave, Bribe Victim https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3dKYMzpybs
https://archive.org/details/victimmoney
Twenty-seven years after we married (he was a warehouse clerk) he inherited from his father and I was GONE. Kids GONE. Girlfriend IN. Can't you be wrong with one of these tapes, Sam?!
My narcissist once told me that everyone has his price.
Imagine narcissists who run multibillion dollar corporations, their massive wealth make them almost immune.
sounds a lot like some traditional societies operations a lot of narcissism descriptions remind me of such dynamics.