Addicted to the narcissist, empty in his absence, craving a spike.
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Addicted to the narcissist, empty in his absence, craving a spike.
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subscribed! one of the best 45 mins of my life. Man I wish I can become like you one day. Light and love
The Cell is a great film.
Am I correct in thinking you're back in the UK?
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Richard I'm confused. is this video about being addicted to the narc? Also I am truly greatful for your videos. They are helping me save me. But on a side note….are you aware that you tend to ramble on a bit? lol
There is definitely nothing wrong with "telling someone everything about ourselves", in this context. Not in the context of the capitalist countries we are in. You can break away from it, and not hold onto it. It's not even so much about "moving through the forest because he has his hooks in you"; it is, but I don't think people are "dummies" for trusting someone. For instance, is it stupid to sit down in a chair without inspecting every bolt first? If it collapses, were you a dummy for giving it your full weight? Trusting an untrustworthy "child" is not condemning; you simply have to realize that those who are emotionally blind are incapable of seeing the real you within the context of these messages. It is no different than someone who looks at you and sees nothing more than a horse for labor; it happened to the black African slaves. Does it mean that they were supposed to stop existing? Revealing who you are with your language can be peered upon objectively, rather than with love—by a "narcissist". They see only words and never the big picture (love). It does not make you a dummy for being unable to understand another's blindness; you simply have to begin to accept this blindness, and understand that there is nothing—not even taking them to church—that will give them sight of love. You let go, not because it was a lesson—or you revealed too much, and now you are in danger—but because they cannot see; their "knowledge over you" is nothing. It is a petty misinterpretation at best, like someone who sees a donkey and thinks it is a horse. It is simply untrue, and there is no amount of loving them, educating them, praying, obsessing, hoping, feeling, or "card playing" that would have protected you nor will it fix the situation. The best you can do in life is continue to be yourself, and let go when another person does not love your nuances, calls your neurotic, accuses you (playing the devil), and so on. If they cannot see the light of love, "revealing your cards" means nothing—because we seek justice, love, co-existence, co-creation, and good peace—not rivalry.
Hi Mr. Grannon, just a couple questions. In your opinion, is it possible for a patient to exhibit Cluster B as well as Cluster C personality traits at the same time? I'm not sure if that makes sense? In other words is it possible for someone with Cluster B traits to also be clingy, insecure & almost smothering at times? It's often very draining around this person & I'm trying to figure out how to cope with it. What would you suggest? How can I make him feel more secure in the relationship? Thank you so much for making these videos!
thank you :0)
this guy knows exactly what he is talking about– a Professional!
great stuff
loud silence! so true.
my guess is they are experts at gaslighting? They push you to the limit of explosion or insanity and if you say something about it, they flip it around and act like you are the crazy one.
Richard, thank you.
after getting educated on youtube i feel my husband is a borderline narcisist,the time i left i was near suicidal.now i am goin gback,i feel im already dead inside.
I know the hooks all too well. My ex husband always finds some stupid reason to text me. He can't stand the thought of me forgetting about him. We don't have children so he has no reason to contact me. I normally respond because he is an alcoholic and he knows I will talk to him if he wants help getting sober. I know how dis-functional that is. For the first time in 5 years or so, I completely ignored his attempts to start a dialogue and I had no panic or anxiety when I ignored him! Thank You Spartan Life Coach
you just saved my sanity,thank you JB
Great video, turn up the light, thank you for sharing!
Dualistic game of them vs. me – pure illusion.
You are an amazing man! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us! Enjoy your demeanor too, so real and genuine :)
thank you.
Amen!Amen!Amen! Thank you for talking about the silence!!!!! This loud silence is what has been hardest for me to deal with and am crying because somebody else understands!! So grateful the silence is being addressed!!!