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Every Moment with a Narcissist is One BIG Lie
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we're like alligators the narc flip on it's back and rubs its belly to make it sleep…until we unmask them….
Sacha, the one I was involved with and married to for a short time would be sitting 2ft away from me face to face and he would start talking to himself while staring straight at me. It was the strangest thing that I had never experienced before. I just thought he had a really bad ADHD, which he probably does, and it was usually something really personal that I was sharing with him so I thought he was disassociating because that's how he dealt with his own pain. Of course it's no surprise that our first year dating we would sit on my couch night after night for hours talking and bragged that we never watched a movie our whole first year of dating. It was probably the main thing I fell in love with and by our fifth year together before the grand finale, I literally felt like he never heard anything I said in passing or in conversation. It made me feel crazy and then I felt bad because I knew he couldn't "help it".
Should read counter stratergies
live your videos….keep them coming! Can you do a video or explain the complexities of keeping your job when narcs go out of their way to make you look like the manority group which I am. When most of the triangulation goes on behind your back to boss and work colleagues sorry it sounds paranoid I know! But any country strategies to stop get back stabbed and out manoeuvred by their propaganda hate machine by narcs?
thank you for sharing.
Yeah, that is both mind blowing and creepy.
Everything is an act. You should make a video about mimicking.
This makes a LOT of sense to me, I have seen the vacant look on my ex gf's face many times. I think a lot of the dialogue with narcissists is premeditated or rehearsed. As an example; I met with my ex bf after we split last summer in a bar, I arrived early and found a table and bought a drink. when she arrived, the first thing she said was 'we will buy our own drinks.' It was rehearsed, I already had a fucking drink! I agree completely with the statement they are hanging out with themselves and objectively seeking some gain or supply. Thank you for making me think!
The silent treatments……….sometimes for months on end. The only way he would speak to me in the end was through fb private messaging…him downstairs and me upstairs. The most mind fucking relationship I have ever been in. NEVER again!!!
And also yes they are one big lie because their persona is only a false self the person they appear to be is only a mask of sorts that is an idol they are enslaved to they will die to protect it…
yes and duhhh lol this is why boundaries must be established and enforced with these kinds of people .
i have to agree here too!
I think most narcs have that so-to-speak blank look on their face. These people have very dark souls.
LOL, nothing like taking a walk and getting lost.
I do believe that in the modern world of psychology one day they (the psycho world) will identify Narcissistic traits ! presently it's up to the victims to share this understanding from our experiences… so yeah Sacha, I agree we know what we have seen and experienced.
As a Narc abuse recovery victim I thoroughly enjoyed this walk with you. I think I might have received the physical exercise as well.
They are fading into their other personality for a short time while you are taking. Their right side of the brain is suppressed…see the left eye…which is connected to the other side of the brain. Left side of face maybe different than the right side…connected to the opposite side of the brain. They are trying to hide this personality which is wanting to come out during the conversation. He was talking to me like a car sales man sometimes and other times as if I was a different woman he was mad at. No matter what I said it was wrong to him. He made no win situations.
Everyone picks up on different types or angles of abuse …you're right. It is so hard to believe that every moment was a lie. Again it defies gravity …like what…?! Apples are not supposed to float around in the air. O well maybe they do. Hang on, no they don't.
how to avoid narcs?
Be a narc!