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38 thoughts on “How To Become A Narcissist Repellent

  1. I love the authenticity with Tiggy :)

  2. This is awesome. This is like a pep talk. Had a bit of a difficult day and this cheered me up. If I had focused more on the negatives and on the encounter with a narcissist that happened today, it would have blown up. But I'm thankful to learn how to preserve myself.

  3. After being the victim of a sociopath I think it's very important to learn how to avoid these people at all cost http://matijaturkaljabusexperience.blogspot.com

  4. Absolutely Spot On Critical Information for Co Dependents EVERYWHERE !!!!!!!
    GOD Bless you Melanie

  5. you're wonderful. thank you for all of the complimentary advice and experience you are willing to share with the masses. much much love to you.

  6. The only thing I'd add is, When people first become aware of what's going on, the first empowering stage is to LEARN all about exactly what narcissism is. This is 'contrast', an important stage not to hurry through but to embrace. To push through it before you've learned more about it can leave the target in a state of ignorance…. Learn exactly what you don't want in your life, then put all your energy into what you DO want.

  7. Glad you make an exception for CATS! Srsly, got here thru Dr. Northrup's show and totally divine timing for myself and others I share with, THANK YOU! =^..^=

  8. OH, WOW!! This is powerful and good food for the soul! Thank you. You spoke pure truth to me today. I am so glad you took the time to articulate this!

  9. This is huge! Huge revelation! Ive dimmed my life to avoid narcs being jealous, how stupid I was. I live my life authentically now with happiness. You are all worthy to stand your ground. Live your life free from fear. Don't fear death. Live to the fullest. Be brave.

  10. I'm going to venture a guess that people who act and do as they please without concern for what others are thinking, are very difficult to manipulate, including emotional manipulation.

  11. you don't really explain what you mean by saying "going into the body". Just read one of your blogs, also couldn't find an explanation how to get rid of the subconscious programs, in order to repel Narcissists. Do you get people to focus where in the body they feel those bad feelings? Do you get them to do Yoga? Yogic Breathing exercises?

  12. My brother humiliated and degraded me. Didn't matter how low his abuse made me feel, to him I was vain, silly didn't work hard while in fact I did without, studied and worked hard and learned that anything but quietly dodging his abuse would result in violent and painful consequences. He literally made me feel this way and I don't know how to get out of the feeling.

  13. wow, you know your stuff… thank you

  14. I am a Narc repellent however, most of my friends are not and feed the narc. The narc has pushed her way right into the center of my circle of friends and has already managed to turn a couple of my friends against me slightly by twisting things I told her in confidence before I wised up to her. I am now having to play her at her own game which goes against my true no nonsense nature.
    Narc feeding repulses me.

  15. thank you so much. this is my fourth time "seeing the light" and leaving. it's been over a month now. but i have a brand new baby with this man and I'm holding onto such anger that he begged me for this child and it seems as though it was just to trap me. he says he hates our baby and that he wants to punch him 🙁 he never said this about his step daughter. i wish i knew what to do. do i let him see our child, I'm scared for my son's safety. does this process change when you have a child with the narcissist? because how can i possibly integrate a proper no contact…?
    i really can't exaggerate how much of a wonderful person you are for taking the time to help people who are still in this. you are a beautiful soul x

  16. Part of GRAYROCKING is STFU!

  17. Who really realllly realllllly found her grating?

  18. I love it! I got free this year, so stinking awesome to know the truth.

  19. be nice if you did one on the narcissists behavior towards a step parent and of course the control of a week mother parent as when they still in the pre teen to late teen state

  20. I just told my sister yesterday…"And why have I been broke for 16 years? So I am not quite so tempting. Now isn't that ridiculous?" We had a good laugh.
    The bit about "how do you kill a vampire?" really moved me. Love your work, Madame.

  21. What the hell were the words in the first 14 seconds?

  22. I so needed this video. I realized how he is, worked to accept that the trauma wasn't me who did wrong but that it would happen to me for who he is. I went in protection now and realized it is changing my personality to become like him. Now I know it is just that I need to take the next step in to loving and full authenticity of myself. It all is so much steps and growth you as co-defendant going threw. It scares me to realize I am out growing my narsacist and still love him as we have 5 kids. He is seeing me growing and have acknowledged he is emotionally detached and are jealous of me seeing all these things he can't. He says that he never got to express himself as child and it all was a way to cope growing up. Such a big struggle for us at this point. I am not where I want to be in my life at this point but I know I will get there.

  23. I once dealt with a narcissist who threatened to cut off my health insurance if I told anyone about his affairs. That made me realize what kind of sick person I was dealing with and turned me into a very strong and resourceful woman. I no longer attract any dysfunctional men.  Problem solved…..

  24. Hahahaaaaa @14:00 "Tiggy!! …see, I was authentic…I threw the cushion at the cat…" Ohhhaahaha I am on the floor laughing! Love it keep it up xxx

  25. There was more good stuff in this video than I could absorb in one viewing, so I'm going to watch this a few times until I can really internalize the wisdom which I recognize as truth with my mind and want to get with my heart. thank you, Melanie

  26. When does this New Age bs with a Aussie female accent STFU?!

  27. You're awesomely authentic

  28. I moved into my moms house 3 weeks ago because I have ovarian cancer…..I started watching this video because I was wondering if I should leave….I just realized she has me in a position where her friend is against me, her attorney is using g extortion on me, and she is willing to do anything to make me look bad….. but your video made me realize she would be exposed in a different environment thank you

  29. You're amazing! Extremely HELPFUL!!!!!

  30. This is one of the best I have watched about the subject. Thank you! I need to watch it over many times and this will make me stop attracting them.

  31. LOL 14:03 I always love your videos anyway, but you throwing the pillow at your cat made me laugh and gave you bonus points from me. I grew up in a house with a cat (and a dog), and I'm a guy who likes them. Thanks for the good info on narcissism and thanks for the laugh. Tell "Tigy" to stay out of trouble.

  32. I feel like as soon as I heal from one thing, another things pops up, endlessly. I feel like there is always a way someone will hurt me that I jsut don't know about yet

  33. Haven't finished yet but really want to say thank you for talking about the vampire myths as being parables for narcissistic abuse. I've thought that since I was a little kid but other people acted like I was crazy (they were narcissists I realize now). Extremely helpful & validating, thank you :)

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