How to know if you are or were dating narcissist and how to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior so you can leave the relationship with your sense of self, …
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I Dated A Narcissist
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quite scary that you exactly described my last relationship, this video actually helped me move on a tiny bit
i find narcissists can sometimes be so egoistic to instead of love, hate themselves and being stuck in the self centered feelings and that becomes a too big part of the relationship
This is like you've read my situation ! i love your energy though hahaha it made my mood lighter yet still talking about this issue and giving me some piece of mind. ..well mine is more like a cycle.. when we reach stage three like you mentioned, i decide to give up and walk away which is when he'll reel me back in with stage one, showing all his good sides and how much he loves me.
Thank you bro
Me too 😀 nope I did not got emotionally in touch the more narcissist a guy becomes on me the easier I fall out an move on to another better relationship that deserves more of my seriousness and independent personality in relationships 🙂 I LOVE HOW YOU HIGHLIGHTED EVERYTHING THIS IS All VERY HELPFUL AND ACCURATE 🙂 Thank you so much.
Guys, another thing to look out for is if most of her friends are guys. Not all the time, but 90% of the time if she's at least a 9 and has little to no girl friends, there's a very high chance she has narcissistic traits and characteristics.
It's an incredibly unhealthy relationship to be in. I dated a girl who was gorgeous and most of her friends were guys (beta males that put her on a pedestal). In the beginning, she was all over me, even displaying tendencies of someone who wanted a relationship after 2 weeks. But it's always a losing battle with these people going forward. They're almost impossible to get them to pursue you later on because they've been conditioned so much from their guys friends that kiss her arse.
So then you end up pursuing more, and obviously that never ends well either. It's a vicious circle that makes both people unhappy. I know she is gorgeous, but guys, run like the fucking wind. These type of people will drain your soul and make you feel worthless.
corey…I just found your videos last night…and I think you may have just saved my life…I need to get your book! I was with one for over 6 years…and now I see it…is honestly thought it was my fault…cause I did make mistakes in the beginning…but I tries so hard to fix things..
cause she said I was the love of her life…yet she would talk to guys…give her number out…even if things were going good…a few weeks would go by…and she would be talking to guys…making me out to be the bad one…bringing the kids into it so I would be the bad one…and so that's pretty much what I became…an asshole cause I knew what was going on…I just really didn't and thought maybe I deserved…I mean…maybe I did push her to be like this…I don't think I'll ever know the truth…all I can do now is forgive…be happy…and move on…biggest step of my life…but I think im finally ready to do it…and that's only a fraction of the 6 years…like a small fraction…I was such a fool…but I learned something…thanx to you corey!!!
I recently came out of a short but intense relationship with an adorable woman who would always go on about what a narcissist her ex was – after only a couple of months I realised that she was making everything about her, but by then I was head over heels and turning into both a pleaser and her therapist.
At first I was on a pedestal, then I was criticised and accused of having "issues" (because I told her I missed her while she was on holiday) and finally she shut me out for what seemed like no reason.
There was more to this; I knew her for ten years and knew her ex without spotting the signs, and because of the attention she gave me I let my ego run riot and believed she was "the one".
I wish I'd discovered this and some of your other material before I even went there. I went in emotionally available and came out ruined! Ha!
Damn dude. I needed to hear this. All of what you said hit the nail on the head with my now ex girlfriend. I gave it 4 1/2 years though and let all the red flags slide because she was beautiful and I loved her. She broke it off with me randomly and gave me that cold shoulder silent treatment. I've known she has had narcissistic traits but I "forgave" them because I loved her. I needed to hear this exactly the way you put it with the f-bombs and all! I needed to hear things exactly the way you put them with a real down to earth authenticity. Thank you for that!
-There were so many times where she would just lose it with me for no reason what so ever, it was like walking on egg shells, made me entirely unhappy, I never knew what would happen next from her. When she was in this mindset, it was the most horrible surroundings you could imagine. I just wanted to leave her house as fast as possible but never did. she distanced herself from me many years ago and always had to find faults in me to justify our relationship. She focused on all the negative stuff instead of trying to find solutions to make our relationship work, oh yeah she would say I should try harder, got us nowhere.
-The time I came back from Las Vegas, bought her a beautiful jacket, all I got was take this thing out of my house it makes me look like an old lady. Before that, she was texting me the ring she wanted or idea's, and I was almost ready to buy her one. So I took the jacket home, left her house, her daughter called me and said you were under no obligation to buy my mom anything. A few weeks later she asks me can I bring her the jacket I bought her. she at times was and is a very fucked up woman, she will never change, I am so glad I will never have to worry about her bull shit and moods let some other man put up with what I had to deal with.
Only advice I have for anyone dating a narcissist is running like hell and never look back.
the stages of narcissism almost sounds like the stages of cancer.
Me too.. He dumped me 2 months ago
.. Luckyly i ve learned Who he really was and i hope to move on sane
Hi Coach Corey! not sure if you'll get this or not but your name came up in our support group (support for narcissist abuse) last night. We love your videos!
Great video. This is the first NPD video I ever laughed during.
Same exact things you are describing were the exact behaviors
I dated an narc that was trying to use me for 1500 dollars
A good movie to watch is The Last Seduction is a great example of the Narcissistic BITCH in action. A must see.
I am going with this same thing right now. I'm in stage three… It hurts so bad. 🙁 But I'm glad I seen this because I didn't know he was a narcissist until just now. I was sitting here blaming myself for things falling apart. One of the reasons he said he was leaving me is because I forget my wallet when we go out sometimes… He broke off our engagement of almost 2 years because I forget my wallet… … … I love him so much. I'm so glad I seen this. I can let go now with peace! Thank you so so so much. You will be getting a donation from me for sure. Thank you thank you thank you…
I dated a narcissist too and I'd like to thank Coach Corey Wayne for my phone coaching session today where he not only pointed out where I was showing up too, and wrong at that, but also making the correlation between why she "selected" me with regard to the way I was brought up and treated as a child. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Corey and I very much look forward to our next session.
For you skeptics out there, this guy knows what the fuck he's talking about. Even if you think he's nothing but a shaved-head douchebag, just apply what he teaches, make it a part of you and own it and you'll see that it fucking works! He's the real deal!
It's so fun watching this videos, because I thought I was the Queen and that he was the one 🙂 now this makes me laughs so hard because I am in stage three 😀 things make so much sense now, looking down on my success, anger when not in the center of attention…wow… years beside someone I don't even know .. hilarious 😀 life is so much fun. Like soap opera.
i m dating a sociopath/NV narcissist in the Philippines. not ever could you meet a worse person under the circumstances in such a country. no outreach at all
Narcissistic Sadist Socio-Phycopath. Yup yup.
Coach I have read your book 25 times. I actually wanted to get my ex back but later I figured out she is a Narcissist so never wanted her back in my life. But she keeps calling me once a week. If I didn't answer the phone she keeps sending me messages as in I miss you and stuff. What am I suppose to do coach ?
What if your ex Narcissist keeps calling you after you break up ?
damn this is the best video on you tube! unfortunately the elevation level continued as he put a ring on it and to the altar. after 8 years of de elevation i finally kicked him to the curb. my messed up in the head. i now know i married a narcissist who was very insecure and hopefully never make that mistake again.