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What is a Narcissist’s Worst Fear?
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Someone i know, sex addict and alcoholic lately begun to say to me i hava an addictive personality. I only smoke, no other addictions….ha ha x
No man… their greatest fear is to be ignored & to feel powerless.
'Outing' them is only a point of contention for them to counter manipulate you, your relationships, & your reputation. This doubly serves them as it grants them a theater for attention & serves to make whom-so-ever it is they wish to malign appear to be whatever image they intend to cast upon them.
Thank you. Your videos are very interesting and helpful.
Loss of image control, dawg -
I like the length of your videos, & you get alot of info in each one. Excellent. Thanks very much.
Hi UN! Absolutely love the videos. Could you help me better-understand the last part of this vid where you are talking about the narc reflecting onto you, so that you can reflect it back. What is "it?" Certain emotions or? Thanks!
THAT IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "they deliberately position themselves in such a way that they can't be controlled or manipulated in the manner they control you"…..wowwwww you are so correct!!!!!! Thank you so much!!
What a nice person. Sounds like he knows what he's talking about, too; which is odd; how can he, an un-scarred individual, have such intimate understanding of this subject? I will examine my premises as I examine more of his work.
Spot on!!! So so so spot on.
i ahve had this happen to me… and i have been humiliated and undermined..and it has affected my work life and drive for school. even more so they were sen as popular and well liked. he is gone now and my life and image is in shambles because of them despite them having left
Yes, they imply, "I'm sooo great at whatever……and you're NOT."
Superlative Greatest Fear?
Answer: Not having a host to feed off of! They would die like a virus. They would run their course and commit suicide.
thanks for this, you are really an old soul
well put, narcs are so obviously child like, i never used to think that a grown man could be so childish, narcs are easily upset and if you upset them they will go away and spend days planning their next move on you, always remember, don't go by your maturity assuming that everyone else is the same, he (the narc) is so childish you won't believe that the simplest little thing can upset him, the narc i recently encountered is in the process of destroying himself yet cannot see or accept he is doing it, i like to sit back and watch these types
Honestly I do this too, I don't have an identity, i think im a narcissist.
made my day Scott! i thank you
One of my ex narc husband's favorite phrase was "if you think that you could eat me for lunch. I have already eaten you for breakfast" . After having almost destroyed me emotionally, financially etc I only now fully comprehend what was on his mind…
Never ask advice from one, because they can leave out crucial bits of info. They like doing that. Heaven help you if you work with one.
To look at himself on a mirror, and see their true self.
thanks for your help scott! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jH-DX4cyfUY
The ultimate end came when I called out my wife's Narcissism. The act was over. Unmasked, everything changed from there. Though the 16-year marriage had been a living purgatory, the following 2.5 years have been worse than imaginable. The underlying contempt and hatred she held for me was unleashed. Worse yet was when I subsequently confronted her on what I still believe to be the cause of her illness. If you hold a mirror up to a Narcissist, be prepared for the outcome.
He gets it.
In essence or in principle, it is as the proverb says, "The hypocrite with his mouth destroys his neighbor."
Their greatest fear should be me ripping off their f*** arm and beating them to death with it … Just saying…
Once I find out about the lies I document them, then shortly thereafter I show them my evidence and say you had best disappear or this will become very public information, works like a charm every time.
to be outed!! o my– this is so exactly it!! Amazing– he always broke me down– everything was wrong with me, everything– I had to be a totally different person– HELLO That is NOT going to WORK!! He had a list of reasons why no one would ever put up with me… A LIST!! We had not even seen each other for two weeks! I did out him– and I did write a letter which explained it was all the narc 's idea that I did what I did, and I did say what he suggested was CRAZY! — It was the letter with the address his friend wanted that pushed him ova the edge!!
being made to feel they don't exist and you don't talk to them
Are u sure your not one
nARCS project their own inadequacies onto others
Their greatest fear is actually having no victim, having no one to manipulate & abuse.
Not having choices. The ability to choose if they are or are not alone. If they are happy or not happy. Basically of running out of options.
Without listening to the video yet, I believe it's being found out by their peers.