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38 thoughts on “A Narcissist’s Love Letter

  1. Sickening, beautifully written and oh so accurate. I'm currently ignoring a narcissist who is now a former lover and friend. He's sixty years old and is in a relationship with a twenty year old who has emotional issues. He's also seeing a crazy woman, and going after a nineteen year old. The more I ignore him he's been going into meltdown mode. He's disgusting.

  2. Sounds like my narc, scary as hell, man I really gotta get out of this!

  3. Hey Richard.. heres my last letter to my narc ex of 11/2 years of abuse. Enjoy..

  4. Reminds me of something that came out of a "Criminal Minds" episode….now I see what he was " saying" by watching all these TV shows and movies with psycho themes. Good riddance!

  5. Wow! This is so creepy but so true. I feel I finally got my closure after devastating break up. Thank you!

  6. this vid made me laugh for some reason )

  7. Whoa, super scary and creepy..and vampirey

  8. HOLY SH*T this was a good one! That's my mother right there. This helps me remember and understand alot of her "tells". Thank you John Howell and Richard.

  9. ewwwwww, he did want to be my drug he said that

  10. that is some deeeeeeep shit.

  11. Love it,I know someone who fits this so well,they are hot and cold.They are only around to see just if I'm not over them.

  12. omg, at first, the letter seemed to resonate with me. Even your voice/those words melded with 'his', and again I was smitten ~ if only for a moment. Then 'his' voice and words illustrated our choppy, horrific ending. My self-esteem was broken, I had offered (w/o realizing) my own self as a prop for his narcissism! This was 2 yrs ago, my trust levels are gone. Thank you for your series here. it's already dusting off what looks like a final ray of hope in repairing, by understanding and recognizing where, why and how much we differed. Thank you very much!

  13. But I feel a lot better about things now…

  14. Some people don't really exist in the first place…. Metaphorically speaking

  15. Definitely, an intense person wrote that

  16. how freaking frightening!

  17. Please, God – tell me that letter is not real!!!!!

  18. Boy, that's a classic. Thanks for sharing… I think, lol. Kinda spooky.

  19. Powerfully accurate and frightening! And yet therapeutic to hear!

  20. What a romantic love letter. And you recorded this on February 13. For Valentines Day. So sweet.

  21. holy shit ive been with some bizarre women and had to run. that letter gave me cold chills. i wouldnt be able to fall asleep around that girl. ill be damned if i serve three tours and survive multiple engagements to come home and be poisoned. tragic. that woman has no sense of self. a simple i love you and you make me feel good. i think your really awesome and fun would have sufficed. she took those points to a crazy level.

  22. This is an excellent and sizes up how a Narcissist feels the world revolves around them, an object.

  23. That's terrible. Sounds like the American version of romance.

  24. OMG!!! Ihave listened to this like 50x and can,t stop. how can i turn this around and have him read this from me instead?

  25. It's so Easy to spot a Narc once you've been broken by one. THE tiniest little red flag and i go to town when' a girlfriend says she had an argument with this guy, her boyfriend. I ask what and it's AlWAYS, no it's probably nothing I'm making a big deal out of nothin really..

    Tell me!! (Because I've already spotted SHES MAKING EXCUSES for him, abc putting herself down. That he was right. IT SMELLS LUKE A NARC she's dating, SHES doubting herself then before she tells me, she's made justifications. Of WHICH I point out. Then the story about her NOT answering immediately he calls. FFS she works in a boutique in Chapel Street. BOY do I tell her. I called them CONTROL FREAKS.. after reading much & watching you vids they ARE what I thought but the Medical Term IS Narc. HOW IS IT they are cut from the same cloth? It's THE SAME modus operandi.

  26. Oh. Good. Lord… That was sickening, revolting and utterly disgusting. I feel like I've just been punched in the pit of my stomach. I'm scared me to death :(

  27. Every line, a painfully accurate description of the year I just had. I left. "Non serviam".

  28. USA is narcissistic and evil.

  29. OMG this hit so close sounds like my ex

  30. Wow. That could have been written by me ex-narc.

  31. i love it, people who don't get it never will…. it is a metaphore

  32. Would you be willing to read actual mixed messaged letters from my ex? It may seem on odd request, but it may just help.

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