Is your mom or dad a narcissist? Find out if you’re the black sheep of the family by taking the BLACK SHEEP TEST. Family life in the narcissistic nest hurts like …
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‘Heartbreaking’ 8 Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist (so sad but so true)
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I got got all of them.. Being with a mother like that makes you feel completely worthless and it does make you want to take your own life especially when your whole family believe your mothers lies.. It hurts deep to the core of your own being.. Not even sure if the pain will ever go away! My mother even went as far as turning my gran n kids everyone against me but that wasn't enough she had to rob my belongings even ones she had brought me through out my life! I don't ever want to see my mother as long as i live she's rotten to the core!
Im the black sheep because i look like my father, and im the only one that looks like my father, and my mother has resentment towards him which fuels he disliking towards me. I am the black sheep.
Idk if the definition of narcissistic could fit my parents but I've always had alcohol ruin past marriages and relationships my mother has had. My father (an abusive alcoholic, would be abusive to me and my mother) well she eventually she divorced him. Well same with her next boy friend. She eventually married a man that would cause many mental breakdowns from me aging from 10-15. He would mentally and sometimes physically abuse me and my siblings for almost no reason. This has effected me tremendously like I said but with this last relationship my mother also picked up drinking from this profound man. And as the years progress if gets worse. Recently it's an every night thing to get shit-faced and argue or mess with me or my siblings while we sleep. It's so bad to the point of I can't even have a conversation without having my parents lie or getting into an argument. Whenever I confront them too I get scowled for it. My grandparents are completely against this behavior because of..
I'm definitely the black sheep of the family. all of it is accurate especially I'm dealing with/ dealt with the finger of blame whenever things go wrong, being useless and the memory lane put downs is a major one. over the years I've dealt with all of that and I'd have to say I've had bitterness, anger, sadness in my heart which I don't want to have that in my heart. 🙁 at times I don't know what to do and wish I could disappear.
OMG, This simple little cartoon was so hard for me to watch, i joined the military at 17 to get away from my mother, i havent seen her for over 30 yrs,but my brothers and sisters love her ! Fuck,,, this shit hurts, and im nearly 60. what the hell did i do wrong?!!!
Yes, no contact is my best choice.
I really appreciate the humor of these videos!
I always thought my mom had BPD… Because of her extreme moodswings. And things like; Don't you set a foot in my kitchen Rosalisa! And then to visitors; Rosalisa never helpes me in the kitchen. And then the visitors would be like; Aw you are such a good mom, you don't deserve a daughter like Rosalisa.
all but like 3
My mother was an avoidant narc.
I was the black sheep and it screwed me up big time.
Now at 51 I think Ive turned into one myself. I totally try to avoid responsibility more and more every day. And I think my husband could have worked harder because we still rent at this age. I know I enabled him to not work.
Holy shit I think I might be a narc myself and didn't know it.
How can I stop this ?
Why isn't there a practical way to legally, sensibly, and humanely place these people in permanent quarantine somewhere where they will be safe, but out of reach of causing harm to others, especially to their children of any age.
this is some white folks shit but yea this is my mother 100%
It's really difficult growing up with a mother like this. Never being able to do anything right, being kicked down at every opportunity, being tarnished as a liar and good for nothing. She can be as cold as ice, not talking to me for weeks on end which makes for a horrible home atmosphere for everyone, but that's my fault. She would go through all of my stuff, dictate which friends I could or couldn't have, same with boyfriends. Always ready to share a story with whoever is happens to be there, normally about the time 'I freaked out' on holiday for 20 minutes (I had a sudden panic attack and generally couldn't suck in any air, it happened once only) she pays no attention to my children (I'm quite thankful for this) and is quick to tell me about all the times ever messed up. She bullies, she emotionally blackmails and she mentally breaks you down. She is critical of everything and if she smiles at any good fortune I have, it's through gritted teeth. I made to adulthood. I am strong.
I was the black sheep as a kid my sister was the golden girl.Now it's switched my sister is the black sheep and I'm looked at more favourably .Its basically whichever child she can put up as a shining example of what a good mother she is.
sign seven seems to be very true to me :'( other signs hit me to but sign number 7 made a strike to my heart :(
T__T that's really sad… my mother always tell the neighbours and relatives that I'm clever but good for nothing, cant even clean dishes and she has to teach me many years that i can do it . WTF WTF WTF WTF i thought my mother was a kind caring mother :((((((((
You just described my life exactly
Need to do a stint of Narcissistic children. It's in the genes…if you have a kid with a narc, look out. Especially if you spend your time raising the child alone and do everything you can for their security and contentment. The sense of entitlement is astonishing considering the child was raised by you alone and was the envy of other parents i.e. "Can I have your son for my two kids? He's so polite and blah. blah, blah…". Warning, don't give your kids the master bedroom and clothes from the malls and spend more than a couple hundred on birthdays and holidays…it will and does backfire when they get older as the other half of the child will come out even stronger if you attempt to make up for the lack of the absent parent.
At least 7 of these are true for me…and WOW! My mother doesn't tell me I was switched at birth; as a matter of fact, she gloats in the fact that I look just like her (unfortunately), but she's always told me "I must have dropped you on your head as a baby" and is always suggesting something is wrong with me.
6!!! 31 years old already and only just now overcoming the effects of it all…
my dad is almost exactly like this, he thinks i'm the one who's ruining the family (he blatantly says "keep pulling this family apart, see what happens"), every time my mom gets angry at him over something HE did he'd blame ME for making her upset, he always tells me that I"M the one who should be nicer to my brothers but never says anything about my brothers needing to be nicer to me (my brothers and i have been getting along, he just doesn't want to see it), he blames his lymphoma for EVERYTHING he's ever done and NEVER takes responsibility for his own actions, whenever someone gives an idea he pretends he's the one who had the idea in the first place ( once i told my mom that i wanted to have a bake sale during her garage sale so i can raise money for a convention, hours later my dad talked about the same bake sake but he said HE made up the idea first… he forced me to split the money i earned with him because of it), whenever we're in an argument he never listens and he always interrupted/never listened or claimed he didn't get a chance to talk even though he'd been talking the whole time.
Holy crap….8!!! No wonder.
My mother always says things like she loves me… But I'm always the root of the damn problem to her. It's always me. Always my fault. But since my dad was lucky enough not to spread more than me into her, she had to rely on comparing me to other people's kids.
She pretty much thinks she's entitled to everyone to care for her while not having to return any of it emotionally. It doesn't matter how many times you cook for someone. If you attach a demand for emotional worship from someone then you've ruined the need for any thanks. Like my mother telling lies that I never say thank you or rarely to the pint she might as well be worshiped like Jesus Christ.
well i got about 7 of those to relate to my mother
All 8. I know now why I was so sad and angry. My npd mother has been dead for 17yrs I wished I'd never attended her funeral. My so called family glared at me and ignored me like I didn't even exist. I am at peace that I don't have to put up with her poisonous character yay. : )
maybe narcissism is just the natural response to a honest child that preferes to speak the truth rather than make a good IMPRESSION. :)
Top Score!!!!!
I have never heard an accent as annoying as this one
I am a mom of eight children. I would rather kill myself than ever ever degrade, demean, devalue, criticize, any of my children. I only guide them if I am asked as they are now adults. I never liked parents who had bumper stickers: My son is on the honor roll, or similar bummer stickers as if their children's achievements were their achievements. My adult children call me, I do not call them except after texting them to ask if it is a good time to do so. I was never supported as a child most of the issues came from being a child of immigrant parenting.
From the day your child is born, the umbilical cord is cut, that is a symbol of your job beginning and dependency of the child ending. It is up to us to teach guide pass on our culture and value systems to our children. We should inspire engage listen and help our kids.
Thank you for posting your video
All 8.
All 8—on both parents, AND my older brother!
chinese is good. how is that an insult? hah hah…
8
my mom said i tormented her from my cradle–omg.
I live this everyday have for my whole life.
so my mom and so noone believes me, so true almost funny much as it hurts 🙁 i went to niagara one time for funeral of my only auntie that whole part of my family was in mourning before i found out about it all i came forward to let my mom know about the sexual abuse i had from her father as a child, very bad move much did i know when tending that funeral i would be walking into a hornets nest of some calling me a liar as she went flailing up there while they were mourning to dump er thoughts and trying o get pity for something she had no rights to even tell she is ten steps ahead of me in life doing that till this day! told her marriage problems were my fault so left home at 9 then they had noone to hurt other than each other their relationship broke u withing year n half without me!! hmm GB
O,O i hate the death stares ><
I myself am a narcissist with a narcissistic mother and it's terrible. She wants total control over me but I hate being submissive. I want her to die but if she did i'd be poor… Jk. But, she insist we are goo together because she's a libra and i'm a pisces. I hate her mood swings.
sorry brother to know your pain 🙁
Do you live in Castle Dolington ?
this is very true! my mother is the textbook example of a covert narcissistic mother and this sounds exactly like her! they cause huge problems in the family!
Well…I'm 8 for 8. I expected that though. I have not spoken to her since 2004. Life is good :-).
CAN U PLEASE DO ONE ON COVERT NARCISIST MOTHERS CAUSE THEY ARE 100 TIMES MORE EVIL… Thanks
This woman's accent. Sheesh.
my mother , nothing like good . She is mean , today i got a choir but i want to do later and the window no need to be open ! BUT SHE HIT MY HEAD ! owww now its coming out BLOOD .
My dad is
My mother accused me of smoking behind her back once when I came home smelling like cigarette smoke and couldn't explain it the thing is I've never smoked a cigarette in my life and she accused me of lying to my face and I hear shit she says about my to her "friends" on the phone when she thinks I'm not listening she is a horrible women.
My mom had none of these traits