Reflecting on how a Narcissist / Cluster B Personality Disordered Person will turn everything around on other people, especially people closest to them, in order …
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How The Narcissist Will Turn Everything Around On You Regardless of Reality
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YOU'LL NEVER GET BLOOD FROM A STONE.
SO SAD THAT THESE DICKHEADS EXIST. THEY SHOULD PUT THEM ALL TOGETHER ON AN ISLAND.
Geez, this is kind of creepy… You sound just like the histrionic I dated. She would ALWAYS tell me about how all of her boyfriends would never visit with her on Valentines day or her birthday… Who is the Narc? You or Him/Her? Confused… Anyways, I dumped her, went no contact, and get this, Didn't show up for her birthday. She was awful… She would always make passive aggressive remarks to me, she would hit on other guys in front of me, she was constantly on her cellphone ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Anytime I would start talking to her, she would go straight back the cellphone. That and she would constantly talk about the sexual experiences she had with other people. Sex with her was mechanical, and I felt "detached" or rather she was "detached." She would lay there like a dead fish, it was weird… It got old REAL fast.
Honestly though, if my girlfriend let a guy kiss her, and grab her ass and she did nothing to stop it because it was a "joke" I would of dumped her on the spot. Stick up for you? Oh right, because you "accidently" let it happen. What kind of drugs are you smoking? In all honesty, who is supposed to take responsibility for that type of sketchy behavior? In his regard, what did you expect him to do? Beat the guy up? You let it happen, and I wouldn't approve of my girl doing that kind of stuff even if it was supposed to be a "joke." In fact, I wouldn't THINK of doing something like that to my girl, especially under the guise of it being a "joke." But you have a Narc Significant other, so I suppose thats your "excuse." Maybe you were shit testing him, but I personally don't see you as a victim in that regard. Maybe he was abusive, in that regard you have my condolences.
I'm only about 1/2 way through this video and I am shocked at how much it mirrors my ex and I. I'm almost done with the divorce and am so grateful to have found this video and the sense of validation that it has given me. Dead on. Thank you!
to sit hear and listen to these videos help me more then anyone can believe. I lived the same thing, not only with one man for twenty something years but to have another one find me and was with him a year and a half. my gut has told me many different things about both men. but the second one is probably the most evil and I do not use that word lightly. the sad thing is that I do still love him but I'm starting to see or believe that is trauma bonding. it's been aprox 17 months since I last spoke to him. I seen things through out the relationship that my gut told me that things weren't right but it was the last day that I was at his house that I left and figured what did i have to lose, I went and talked to his ex wife. after all he just threatened to shoot me between the eyes. but only thing it did was get her to go back to him. when I talked to her and told her the things he said to me and told me and asked if he did the same thing to her, she said she has no idea what I was talking about and that he never acted or said those types of things to her. I do know that when she first saw me she said, so your the secret. who knows maybe they both are narcissistic psychopaths. but after he threatened to kill me and blame me for his ex wife trying to off her self he had the nerve to text me late that night aprox 5 days later and said if I truly cared to call. So being I did still love him because when you love someone you just don't quit loving them that day. but he apologized for the things he said to me and was grateful that I still would talk to him. and after 3 to 4 hours of talking and was supposed to meet that Saturday just for him to send me a text saying- she is going to be ok, we're still in love, we're going to try and make it work. I will no longer contact younagain. goodbye. yes that is all I got and haven't heard from him since. except for Aug 14th 2015 he called me and I was trying to decide if I was going to answer it or not but I did and said, I believe you dialed the wrong number. he stayed on the phone for aprox 13 minutes before he hung up. I know it wasn't a butt dial because my number wouldn't be in his recent calls let a lone in his phone. especially if his ex wife was to find out I'm sure that wouldn't go over to well. but I still want to believe he was a good man that had some problems that I thought I could help him but these videos makes it so clear as to who and what he truly is. I just need to keep watching these to help my heart heal and and get this idea of him being a good person that needs someone to help him. you can't help these people and as soon as I can get my self to believe he is one of these evil people the faster I will be able to heal. they can really screw someone who is normal up big time. thank you for making these videos. they help more then you know. God bless.
I feel like you are talking about me and my relationship. I hope I can leave like you did one day.
Exactly ! The better you are the more good you do the more amazing your patience is the more horrible these garbage get . you will half kill yourself trying to please this filth and it'll hate you more and more and more . I'm glad you figured it all out . I'm glad I'm finally figuring it all out . I extremely know how you feel . extremely
Wow .
THESE PEOPLE ARE capable of murder . I think they're too stupid to understand that the police won't believe them the way everyone else does .. that makes these trash pretty dangerous when you think about it
I've noticed that .. why are we so much more likely to be abused since we're so attractive …. Realizing that is awesome though !!!!
Wow .. yeah … God damn them and their aversion to truth . they lie when they don't even need to . just to hurt you . and everything they did to you is a reason to be mad with you . they should be jailed . for sure .
Not only will they abandon you in your darkest hours they'll KICK YOU WHEN YOU'RE DOWN as well
There's nothing lower than these trash they're like child molesters and should be JAILED
A LONG TIME
These pieces of shit should be jailed for a long time
Just trying to point out how absurd they're behavior … I never ever got a gift or if I did it was lame late lacking or a letdown…. They did not ever care is right!!!! But fake what they did to use a person in every way a narc possibly could… (I kinna stole that line from Rose in Titanic)but switched it up a bit to fit exactly what they are "freaks of nature"
Been there. You are so amazing, sissy! On one hand, these guys are diseased- dis ease means imbalance. On another hand, it's becoming a universal problem because we chose to disconnect from the Collective Consciousness. Truth is, after I left these rogues, they continued their dysfunction whether alone or moved on, but most chose to stay alone. For alone they had to fend for themselves before age of 1, and alone they remain, isolation is comfort to them for that's all they ever knew!
we went from holding hands 24/7 to never. He often walked ahead of me, I seldom complained but in one occasion near the end( still ongoing) I complained and he accused me of being selfish and yelled at the top of his longs "you efing b.. It's all about you" So I just quietly cried all the one hour drive home in total silence. Just because I asked "why did you leave me behind to cross an entire parking lot at 1 am?" He said I was just a few 15 feet ahead whats the big deal? Horrible. The smaller I felt, the better he felt.
That mould is problematic, it can create thyroid problems or tiredness, venting air in the day helps & using a mild solution of hydrogen peroxide sprayed to damp or affected open areas, sometimes as toxic as a personality disordered flatmate.
Eddie T.F. Out
For myself there was never an ah ha moment and believe it or not I have an anticlinal mind. When one has never learn to write Chinese much less comprehend, how does one grasp all you were cannon fodder for the borderline personality disorder “waif”
female. Ladies I don’t mean any disrespect, however she was a lousy lay and horrible cook plus her three children did want to be part of her life. Sure I knew down deep something was wrong, but she played the victim card like a pro. The love bombing and care giver inside me superseded what zero knowledge of mental
disorder in the DSM-5. I had a botch-up childhood that trapped me in this drama relastionshit. Trying to research while going thru depression, PTSD, CPTSD, and chemical imbalance is dam near
impossible to acquire ownership. Drip by drip the water boarding subsided enough for myself to catch my breath, inch by inch I crawled out of the negative ill-treated cavern, (with no help!) I was placed in as a child. Once on firm ground I researched all I could find on cluster B to better define myself. I am better person now for going thru “it”, however I would not want my worsted enemy to experience what I have been through. I will not make the statement “except her” because from my research she is mentally sick and forever more suffer; I will heal “enough” to love again healthily. I did dropped her a note stating “I wish her a victories life”, that’s all I can mustard up. It’s a cheeky communication for my idea of victories far succeeds what she be able to achieve. It’s a way to express forgiveness which one must do to move forward while not letting her totally off the hook for lack of better words. And just for the record I have co-dependence issues that I can cope with now. I like to end this saga of events with two observation.
Betrayal is the hardest to deal with of all the emotions.Nobody understands what we have been though except us.
GAA is Irelands Hurling and Football leagues even though its not professional does not make it absurd to support it.
Holy Crap…that Friday's is right by my house!!!
Drama drama drama. Alanon, Alanon, Alanon!!!
You know now that you need to stick up for yourself, right?
I was listening for quite a while but grew frustrated by the circling around the point, tangential comments, and asides. I have listened to other partners of narcissist on youtube and this way of talking about the matter seems common. Again, this is frustrating to me because the knowledge has been helpful, but I also have other demands on my time. Maybe talking points via notes leaving room for more associative thoughts would help.
Thank you so much for putting yourself out there. i would love to connect with you. I have gone incognito on you tube because my Children are severe Narcassists as well as their Dad and I am protecting myself from further abuse. If you could look me up on facebook. I am under Nell Strandquist. I would love to connect and share my story. It's different when you have grown children that are so abusive.
Loved hearing your truths, all to familiar.