Ross Rosenberg’s video blog installment about Malignant Narcissism. These narcissist are paranoid, dangerously harmful, and narcissistic. They are the most …
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Malignant Narcissist Are Dangerous! Loving the Destroyer. Narcissism Expert R. Rosenberg
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thank you so much for the good work. My ex boyfriend was exellent to play on my goodness and trusting people. I felt sorry for him and helped him with money which I know he will never payback. Lesson learned…I will be much more alert and openminded in future.
sounds like autism
Wow !!! Thank you !!
IAM A BORDERLINE MARRIED TO AN ABUSIVE NARCISSIST I NEED ADVICE IM TRYING TO DIVORCE HIM
At the end of the day all narcissists are dangerous! They all fake empathy to get what they want. All narcissists whatever labels they fall under… Covert, malignant or whatever it may be sociopath and psychopath at the end of the day under the sun and moon all narcissists are dangerous because non of them have empathy. They are all programmed vampire zombies who destroy humans. The bottom line is they are all psychology emotionally abuse people. They are energy draining vampire zombies that suck the life out of humans. All narcissists are blocked and have no connection with empathy and they are all pathological liars. Only people who have gone through narcissistic abuse truly understand this. It is a behaviour pattern that runs on repeat forever non stop. All narcissists are dangerous!
It would have been good to mention the worst of all 'malignant narcissist', i.e. the religious fanatic who's victim complex develops into a martyr complex where his megalomaniac tendencies find a reward stimulus in the idea that they are serving a higher power and that they have acquired a divine status. I believe these people do have a sense of 'honor' in the sense that they serve principles and have a concept of 'ideal self', the actions that result from this is often perceived as 'good intention' when in real fact it's just the result of doctrinal behavior and the malignant narcissist perceives it as sacrifice that stimulates their grandiose perception. Interesting stuff for those who advocate the 'Pauline deception'.
Thank you Ross – you are one of the very few who make sense of my shambolic family – the malignant narc. is my 4th stepfather. ive not seen him or my Mother for 15months now. at least the horrid gossip stoped but my Mum is now fully co-dependant. and just as nasty to me as he is. sad but free.
what is the name of piano track in the video?
Harry Mann Thank you
the threshold to psychopathy
Oh my god, is Donald Trump a malignant narcissist, and why has nobody stopped him, if that is the case?
Castro? Give me a break. He has done more to free the oppressed than almost anyone in history.
Im 27 , a widow, and i have ptsd , i was only able to connect the dots of my broken heart when a veteran convinced me to get a service dog. There was so much relief i would cry from the sensation of having a companion who could pull me from crying into laughing. My own mother stole my daughters, im isolated from them (my daughter star emotionally drained , not the happy baby she was because she knows whats going on and its cold) and she has been relentlessly determined to deteriorate my reputation. i once won custody of my youngest daughter but through frivolous litigations concealed by ignoring jurisdiction laws she manipulated her way into getting fulll custody and i get no visitation, from north ga my family , are allmost aristocrats so the sweep things under the rug , … but iv recorded phone call and saved court papers and my artwork,as a talented artist (that i feel is caused by the abuse a degrading mother and emotional vacuumed shell my stepfather became ,seeking to catch the ''problem child'' in wrongdoing for admiration,after he lost his eyesight!(((i dont blame him , its insanely childish, but going blind and suddenly losing your independence is horrible and my mom played us against each other so he was a victim too)))! .. as for the recordings , it may never be admissible in court , but I have been refused the right to defend myself, they even got custody by running an add in there local paper, counted as notification by the kangaroo court, a loophole to get custody before i knew that legal action was taken,,'' because it was the 2nd time she tryed to take the same child , and i hitchhike across the 4 states they drove to kidnap her, and fought 6 mo to win, … iv been fighting alone here and i need help , hopefully I can touch someone's heart enough to save us, or even just have one of her minions see her black heart … i recorded some horrifying conversations and most of her lies are insanely stupid,uhhh '''''' i couldn't leave him because of you … you have ptsd? Star (my daughter) has ptsd to from you neglecting her , but i saved her, i try to talk to you about it but you yell and scream at me''' if i got a judge or anyone unbiased to look into whats going on they would see the truth , she ever put that i had left my husband and stayed in a battered woman shelter as a reason why i was an unfit mother ….
Benjamin Netanyahu is the best example too,don't you Agree Ross Rosenberg?
wow scary…. thanks Mr. Rosenberg
Ross how come it hasn't been accepted in any medical manuals we know so much more then we did back then thank you Ross for this information
I take my babys father back after he was the cause of our breakup for cheating, he convinced me hes sorry and wont do it again. He spends the night and tells me how much he loves and needs me…I forgive him and we make love. Next morning hes gone and dissappears for about 1 or so and then reaches out to me as if it was ok not to know about him for so long. He says he loves me….I thought when you love someone you keep in touch or you miss that person or you find anyway you can to just hear their voice for a second or simply just send a text…What the heck is going on? Im lost!
I think im about convinced that indeed im a victim of narcissitic abuse. Thank you for this video, great info. However now I feel fear, I catch myself crying alot, and I seem to always be taking my 3 year olds daddy back after knowing hes hurt me so much. I cant do this no more, I keep saying he'll change. (He wont cheat anymore, no more lies, he does love me because he begs me to take him back even crying). Seriously is this part of an act? Do narcissists make themselves cry, and knowing it? I so confused. I love this guy and now he has prorposed for marriage. Meaning thats a way for me to believe in him and his love for me is real…. Does he really love me? I've been having nightmares about him and really bad ones that I wake up drenched in sweat. Friends tell me he doesnt love me because of the way he treats me but I find myself always covering up for him. Oh Lord, is this really true? 6 years of my life living with a lie? 🙁
I think I do need help…
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TRUMP!
Basically a malignant narcissist is someone like Caligula or Kim Jong Un. They need complete control and power, to be feared, and ridiculous amounts of admiration. They may even do things like be willing to execute someone who doesn't appear moved enough (actual thing in North Korea), and they're always paranoid because they know the consequences of their behavior can come crashing down on them at any time.
Ross Rosenberg and his team are amazing, caring pros….I can't say enough good things about what you, Katie and the rest do for people…thank you…
How do I get away from him.
I dont have paranoid personality disorder .but was deliberately misdiagnosed with it.the your in denial came up. i was mixed up with another patient who has paranoid schizophrenia.
I'm writing this message with immense pain and stress. I think my wife has most symptoms of Malignant Narcissism. She has put in me great trouble with the law by exaggerating on so many levels of a small argument, that lead to destruction of my career and social life. In the beginning of relation she was loving and caring, but now she hates me very much and has no empathy, extremely jealous and selfish, accusing, and yet part of me wants to be still with her, take care of her pregnancy and the baby future.i really appreciate your work, it has made me understand her personality.
Does this make me a codependent ? i don't know how to handle and come out of this situation. Please help!!
Thank you Ross, for sharing your research and understanding. I have been 'haunted' by my experience with someone who I just 'scratch my head' wondering, 'what in the world is going on with this person?" I have been able to heal a lot of trauma experienced from such a person you describe, through the teachings and sharing of spiritual wisdom from Teal Swan….How you describe the malignant narcissist is 'dead on' regarding what I have been feeling and experiencing around this person. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and understanding and for helping those who are 'scratching their heads' from being around such persons, that they are not alone…
Which is worse? A Narcissist or a Borderline Personality Disorder? Do BPDs know how to love? Do all of them have fidelity issues? I was with one for a year and was subjected to triangulation and emotional confusion right at the start of our relationship.Then just this January I found out that he's been living with another woman in another state that I didn't even know exist and was also seeing someone at the same time in the same city where I live. Right after the beginning of our relationship he started traingulating me with his Ex that he said he reconnected by chance but wasn't sure about its status and gave me the impression that it's not working. I later found out that he wanted to get back with his Ex but his Ex did not take him back. He's juggling four women at the same time. I was so angry at him because I am not this kind of person that would get into this kind of mess. I felt violated. It's beyond I imagined what this person can do. To think he's a high functioning adult, occupying a position of a Chief of a Department in a large firm. He was newly diagnosed as a BPD when he got to theraphy with his live-in partner. It was his live-in partner who caught him with his lies and contacted us his other girlfriends. I contacted the other woman in the same city where I live and told her about my existence. It seems that she doesn't know that I exists. Though the guy's live-in partner talked to her first, she did not mention to her about me which this guy was really still trying so hard to protect and conceal that we wouldn't find out about each other. Upon learning this, that really made me so angry that he still wants to continue his deception and lies. He got so afraid of my anger that I pushe him to tell me her name that he hesitantly gave up the name of the other woman thinking that I will lie for him. He's so wrong because this is against my principles. He deceived me into this situation without my consent and full knowledge, that I felt what I was going to do next was a matter of honoring and respecting myself. So against his will and wishes, I made contact with this woman, and told her everything that I know. The thing is that this other woman seems to be a codependent and an enabler that doesn't have a bone of self-respect and integrity in her being. When I exposed to her what this man was doing all along, instead of reaching out to me she reached out to him to be comforted and to tell him what I told her. I can almost laugh at how dissociated these people are with their reactions. This guy called me, berated me, blamed me that I hurt the other woman so deeply and that because of my actions he's also hurting. He thought he can disarm me with his accusations when I am the only one among the four of us who really can see what is really happening. He didn't expect that I could hold on my own and will not take any of his shit that he's attempting to throw against me. I made him see that from now on any wrong move he'll make he can be sure that something much worse will come to him that will unravel the false image he's built around himself. And he's understood that if he wants to save what's left of him, his false self image he's projecting outside, he better stay true and authentic to his pledge of continuing theraphy, making amends with his live-in partner even if he believes he doesn't see a prolonged future with her and he will soon move out, and stop contact with the other woman, the enabler. I told him you are still with your live-in partner, show the decency and respect and honor that she deserves the same way that she's allowed you into her home when you lost your job a few months ago. So this is my experience with a BPD. He's got the habit of jumping from one woman with automatic family to the next and take the role of the man of the house like a clockwork, a pattern. He's been like this all his life. He was once married but divorced i suppose because of fidelity issues. He lost his house to his divorce. He's an intelligent high-functioning adult. What I couldn't understand is that he doesn't own his home when his income is more than enough to buy him a house. There is a great disconnect with his choices and behavior that I do not quite understand. I told him how will you be able to feel secure about yourself when you don't allow yourself to have your own home? I am baffled by this.He had his outburst one time and tried to manipulate me with that with the intention of letting me know he calls the shots. He didn't know that I'm not easily intimidated and that I honor and respect myself and stand by my principles more than anything else. After my exposure of him which he didn't expect, he toned down. His old fears of what my anger could lead to when I'm agry became real for him. That kept him in his toes. Lately, I'm aware that he's aware he needs to control his reaction, his behavior toward me in order to get me to cooperate what is more manageable for him. He wanted me to stop stirring the pot and put the issue to rest. I also made it clear to him that as long as he keeps his pledge to continue theraphy, to change his behavior, to accept responsibility and be accountable for his past, present and future actions I will keep my word. He knows that continued lies, deception , and manipulation will set me off. But, I wonder. Do BPDs have the capability to keep their word? What I learn is that if people around them who holds something to make them toe the line and hold them accountable they make an effort or at least become amenable. But is it working to really change their behavior or are they just playing along?
I need help I don't know what to do. I've been close to death I can't get it out of my head I've told no one I can't do it any more
This makes me want to watch an episode of "The evil dead."
I think my ex may be a malignant narcissist. Thankfully, I never moved down to his city to live with him like he tried to convince me to do. The thought that I was in love with such a man terrifies me. I don't really know for sure. I can't quite wrap my brain around this horrible thought.
Ross,
I worked out the answer: obviously they have to be different otherwise you wouldn't make 2 separate videos, one on covert and the other on malignant. My narcissist's "friend" odds look worse than I thought, after I watched the covert video, I thought that that's what he had but I didn't know that there was this type also. He fits the above and extremely paranoid, how can you live with someone like this?
Dear Ross,
I'm a bit confused, could you please clarify whether Malignant is different from covert narcissism. Thanks
Is everybody a Narcissist on some Level, and some people are just Dangerously Narcissist?
if you want a person, you love the person, if they go, everyone has that reaction dont they? of not wanting to let that person go? i,m with a narc, well i wasnt sure really if he was narc, or psychopath, but maligant narc seems to fit more of the boxes
You've helped me so much, Ross! Thank you.
There's a blog called The Last Psychiatrist, and the author has been writing about this epidemic for a long time with biting satirical dark prose. Seriously, it is some of the best writing on the subject and I wouldn't be surprised if Rosenberg hadn't already heard of it. However, the articles are long and take aim at a lot of sacred cows so be warned. The insight and comments are definitely worth it imho.
Narc vs bully whats the difference.
As stupid as I feel for falling prey to this form of narcissist, yet, I was naive to the existence of such people…if nothing else it's opened my mind and made me realise why I have experienced a slow progression of worsening control…I am codependent 🙁 I asked my Mum, 20 years ago "What's wrong with me, why do I keep attracting this kind of man?" she said "There's nothing wrong with you!" to admit there was something wrong with me, meant, she had to admit there was something wrong with her………………I feel proud that I knew something was wrong, yet, sad that, again, I was ignored. All I want is to like myself, feel comfortable, that, what I believe and trust about myself is right for me and to stop asking for acceptance and respect from others…………………