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14 thoughts on “Narcissist’s Constant Midlife Crisis

  1. my ex girlfriend had been in a long relationship and then after her husband had walked out she embarked on this idea of having constant attention from other men, this was definitely a cycle, i never realized completely this had been the case, her attitude was very much wanting attention, portraying a glamorous persona, she was trying to paper over the cracks in her life as she was getting no younger and wanting to cram in as much before her looks fade, never being content, having this prince charming fantasy outlook, there's something better just round the corner, was she scared of ageing? getting old, not being able to have or do everything she didn't get the chance to whilst married… the constant turnover of men in her life give her that energy, for her false self to feed from, adoration and attention until the source becomes depleted..

  2. the narcissists i know are actually very scared of ageing, even at 19 years of age was depressed how old he was getting, and always has a depressed/gloomy small minded view of life, and imposes this on others and me, truly an annoying cow

  3. Sam continues to describe my ex-wife to a T.

  4. Sam, your very informative videos are such a huge help, thank you!!!

  5. NARCISSISTS crave ADULATION ! (constant adulation, attention etc…..)

    Estrogen and the pill can affect the estrogen level which in turn has an impact on women !

    Workaholicism, Escapism, Abandonment, Alcoholism !

  6. Thank you for your concern. I left my ex narc. because of his behavior so not looking for a 'chance' and nor do I believe that it was my fault other than the fact that I was dependent in the relationship (interaction). Sam's information is helping immensely in understanding what has happened, I appreciate your comments … 🙂

  7. Mmm! The rollercoaster … I was just one segment of his!

  8. beautifully said, learning is everything. I, Like you, have learned this now. and feel so much better now that I Know what is happening. good luck. stay strong.

  9. cheating , lying , alcohol abuse, manipulative user control and mind games thats just my ex boyfriend!

  10. cont below…..forgiving myself and others is realeasing me from the burden of self hate ,This I am doing slowly over time by embracing the teaching and love of my Lord Jesus Christ .And realising that I am evil by inclanation ,and understanding and admiting that only God is to be worshiped ,not man !!! So I submit that there is hope for the poor narcissist ,when he /she comes to realise that the darkness in his heart can be filled with the love of GOD not of man .

  11. I am something of a narcissist .I have sought to live in my own fantasy world waiting and hoping for my big break .where I would eventually avenge all who have hurt and humiliated me in my past ,hoping to prove myself right and everyone else wrong shaping and preparing myself for victory and revenge.Occasionaly comming up for air and breathing the truth ie…I am nothing specal ,superiour ,or better than others .I have come to learn that it,s ok to be myself forgiving myself and others .

  12. Build or destroy, it only takes one heartbeat to change one's true course toward more purpose in life. Thank you for working on your English accent! More love!

  13. npd SURE HELPS IN THIS WORLD, YOU CAN DESTROY AND MOVE ON, FUNNY THING ,I WENT TO THERAPY AND THE THERAPIST SAID JUST FORGET THE PAST AND MOVE ON ,i SAID THAT IS WHAT THE npd gUILTY PARTY SAID, THEN THE THERAPIST SAID THEIOR IS MORE TO MARRAGE THEN TRUST TRUTH AND LOVE,LOL I CANT WIN CAN I., !!!

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