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As Americans we know that some conspiracy theories are true, but beyond that , npd is a real disorder that people go through. Sure people wants to feel good about themselves but some narcs feed off people's joy and incorporate that in their own world.
what if u were never involved with the Narracest but knew each other and an issue became the involvement not myself just the issue. it's worst than being involved he doesnt stop harrasing me for the issue in for years Sam . It's different than any video u have had out.Had anyone ever had that problem thanku Dorothy Kitzinger
all of us decompensated narcs. should form a support group where we constantly stroke eachother's egos! :')
Don't people act like this after severe heartbreak too?
Do narcissists define narcissistic supply that way? Do they actually think of it as supply? Or is this a term that we have given to describe the behavior? Do they know what they are doing?
so true!
how much is enough?
ok, I have my answer now this describes my narc husband
This is NO JOKE. I denied my ex the supply she was so expecting and required… she IMMEDIATELY proceeded to go NUTS signing up to every dating site and logging in and out all day. NUTS I tell you.. exactly like me if I cannot score weed. I even discovered her using a couch surfing friendly website for travelers to meet people to get supply since I've left her.. she's 42! I cannot believe what I've witnessed since I went low-contact with her! It isn't even about sex, its just people she can talk to without having to reveal herself with the fear of one day getting caught. This girl kills her soul. She loved it when I was confused. The sex was all day and great. I thought it was our glue! But as soon as I figured her out and wasn't affected by her crazy-making but confronting her with her pointless lies, she devalued and now shuns me. She has so many people that she keeps at arms length, close but not too close, it is insanity. It has been incredible. Much more entertaining than my parents who destroyed me for so long. This ex had only six months, and single for so long… she is a sexy lone wolf predator of the cerebral kind. .. very hard to figure out for men. I will give her one thing… she admitted her 'socializing' was my marijuana. Oh, when I denied my parents their expected supply, my father drove down (he never has before) and proceeded to smash on my apartment door like a mad man without warning! Another drug addict who doesn't do drugs!
Hello, I can see some of the simptoms in my father. How can break the suply and still feel safe. I can predict some of the simptoms but not the actions. I fell into a trap once again (i took the money from my parents and started to do their chores and wishes). I don't have any money and am waiting for a job soon. How can I make this less painfull and staying normal. Social services didn't help me so I'm on my own. I can get help in going to psychotherapy as an co-dependant but the real steps in breaking this mashed up relationship is very confusing. It means i have to be completelly shut off of their communication and needs (we are in the same household). I'm trying to brake free for a good 2 months now and I keep falling back into the subtle abuse. (it can hardly be noticed in the process, only when you start helping them or just trying to be nice: which is in human nature) Should I ignore my instincts and listen to intuition? I feel a really bad energy again and don't know how to defend. Also, panic atacks come like crazy at home! (not outside in social places with other people) Thank you in advance! Please help.
I NARC MAGNET=wanted by NARCISSIST: SUPPLY Source. .
Very well said…thank you Dr. V for all your wisdom, testimony & videos
Oh how I pity my MNH…..from a great distance I might add. I'm not an aggressive person, but Sam says they will self destruct??? Let me pass him that remote!
Yup, this is the type of narcissist I witnessed when I withdrew my supply altogether (without realising there was a name for him/his behaviour) to end the relationship. It resulted in the zombie appearing, then the enraged narc, then the police stepped in and through having a Protection Order, no contact has been much easier to maintain.
Once again, thank you sam. I think your saving a lot peoples lives, by creating awareness of these mental illnesses.
This happened to me at college this past semester all of my circles from the past semester were ripped away from me and I kept trying and trying to form new ones or rekindle old ones but nothing would work. And even worse was the fact that I was receiving negative input from my roomates which drained me even more I never went as far as suicidal thoughts but I did fall into deep depression and withdrew within myself. My grades fell and I lost all my scholarships. I stopped doing all of my hobbies and I don't even know if I've gotten better because there is no one near where I live this summer. I just eat, sleep, play games, watch YouTube, and fantasize about grandure. Don't even have good internet. Life sucks.
At 3:39 Sam Vanking uses the concept schizoid mode, as in having no interest in social interaction.
this video I will watch more than twice, excellent
Sam, perhaps the Self loathes the Ego. Thinking in Jungian terms this could easily be possible. Stars and Black holes both exist in the universe. Why would they not exist in terms of emotional reality.
3:39 would you please tell me what word you used and the meaning?
so how do i fix it
thanks for all your contribution to this subject it has helped me alot
most of america is like this. either eating or being eaten or retreating and self-destructing. seattle is a perfect example. seattle sucks the joy from kind people, assholes love it, addicts hole up and die there. it has the meanest people in the world.
Perhaps. But the issue that I cannot seem to find a definitive solution to is the inability to maintain self-awareness. For the same reason that psychologists cannot diagnose themselves, it takes more than one to "judge" oneself. And as narcissists….we tend to neglect others's opinion to say the least. Perhaps a good balance of remaining humble, and a scientific, calm, rational approach to analyzing one's self may do from time to time….but the occasionnal slip is unavoidable. Thank you!
Being a well balanced, benign narc can be a very charming and pleasant experience for others. It's the sick narcs, who wish harm on others, the unbalanced, paranoid, maligned, who are the problem. Being aware of being narcissistic is very good, as one can work on being a benign one. Malignent ones either wont recognize themselves as such, or love being evil too much. I agree that any activity where you can shine, get attention, is a good choice if you need that. Perhaps also ask yourself why?
They try to make you function – aka get back into their slavery and stop being a free human being. That's exactly how they look at it. It's me who should be "fixed", get therapy so I will go back and do anything they tell me to do, so I wont have to endure their ridicule or rage again. They are the delusional ones. I'm not a little child anymore – I'm a granny and they are parasites I don't need.