There is no logical, rational explanation for the malignant narcissist’s hatred. As David wrote in Psalm 69, these are men who hate without cause.
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A Hatred without Cause – The Saga of the Malignant Narcissist
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Narc= Lucifer Empath (who gave his life for our redemption)= Jesus
You truly don't know how much you are being used by God…Blessings.
Smakintosh I've been watching you for months I went no contact with what I'm guessing is a covert narcissist mother and a malignant narcissist father 3 months ago and it was your channel and others that helped me finally get brave enough to walk away just turned 50 I figured I would take my life back and it amazed me just how easy it was for them to let go too it made me realize I really never meant anything to them they hate me without cause. My sister also went no contact so I feel validated because she's the golden I'm the scapegoat so that's says alot! Thank you and your wife (hugs)
Truth .
Beautifully said.
My first abusers were my parents when I was an infant. As I got older things got worse then it was ok but it still was a roller coaster journey in my young life. It certainly was hard to take because I never knew when the next abusive verbal attacks and physical attacks would come in my presence.
But we're supposed to forgive them, right?
That's all I ever hear.
you are spot on. I'm very spiritual aware. I meditate and I speak in tongues. but my current narc husband who is physically verbally and emotionally abuse makes my life a living hell. he thinks the bible should be revised. hates the pastor. hates me. could he hates the kids we have together,? can he commit incest to my daughter?
I remember during a fight with my malignant narc husband last month. he grabbed my throat and started screaming that he hates me. I asked why? and he said he doesn't know why but admitted to hating me. I was scared to my bones. " I just hate you" he said. after 1 week he said he doesn't mean it. planning my exit without notifying him
I don't know if you have mentioned 2 Timothy chapter 3 in any of your videos, but the apostle Paul describes this "narcissism." Beginning in verse 1, it says "This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!" These are seriously heartless people and need to turn away from them.
My mom's bio mom died when she was 5. Her step mom was a narcissist. My mom picked at everything I did as a child, belittled efforts to achieve but wanted her to be acknowledged for my art & writing. As a teen my mom would poke at my ribs saying how bony I was. As an adult she still picks on my weight or anything. If I don't follow her advice I am yelled at. I am interrupted on the phone.
My ex narc relationships spewed hatred to accuse & abuse.
They are living in darkness.
No logic behind hatred. Thank you!
And because of this deep hatred they have rooted in their character, what they say will always contradict how they behave. For instance, they could say and feel that "rape is disgusting" (when committed by others) and yet willfully perpetrate date rape (and not see it as that) because they cannot take no for an answer. It's completely delusional and impossible to make sense of. Psychopaths are known to contradict themselves. This is probably because they are spiritually blind – by choice.
Excellent, Excellent, Excellent video. Thank you very much for your articulate assessment of Hatred without a Cause.
Youre good. Youve got it down good!!!! Great work.
I'm married to one
I finally escaped him
I took the abuse for years
couldn't take any more
although I love him
I pray God removed my feelings for him
so I won't greive so much
God has helped me a lot
thank u for video
Im crying
their spirit hates the good spirit
they have demonic spirits
:(
I tried to understand
impossible
:(
i lived this for years
I cry when I watched this
u speak the truth
You are such a comfort. I believe everything you are saying is true. My heart was broken for my family because they all behave as if life has been cruel to them, and they complain about real abuse that happened to them, but then they do go and behave abusively towards others. I thought I could show them something different, but I think they just hated me more and it got to the point that they were really harming me, so I had to get away from them. It tore my heart because God has literally helped me and shown me so many beautiful things, I thought why does God do all this for me and not for them? I felt so guilty for all that I had, as if they deserved more too. And I thought perhaps if I could show them something then they would believe, and they would feel better, and they would be kinder. But instead they ended up making me think I was insane, I felt insane for my belief, and I got really ill, and they hated me and even hated me as I shared everything I had with them. Literally when I didn't have any money left, they resented me for ? not giving them more even though they had more than me…
It was such a revelation to really learn that THEY WERE EXERCISING THEIR FREE WILL to turn away from God, blessings, appreciation, light, kindness, second third and fourth chances and that they actually had good things, but they just HATED everything so much that they didn't even appreciate the money in their own pockets And I was not richer than they, I just felt more abundant and more generous!
Heres a crazy true story for you. By the time I was "broke" this guy witnessed me telling my son I could not buy him an ice-cream cone, so from his generosity he gave me a dollar, it was a nice moment. Later, I recounted what happened to my narc sister, and she literally lamented, "how come no one ever gave me a dollar when I was out with my kids".
I thought, aww, then I remembered, a couple of years ago, someone she met over the internet and never met in Real Life actually paid her rent for a couple of months. ? And shes mad someone gave me a dollar. You know I was happy for her when they guy paid her bills. But she couldn't be happy for me I got a dollar? She was distressed that people are kind to me and supposedly Not Kind to Her. Are you kidding? These people are insane with their jealousy, resentment, hatred, and perception of what they deserve and who's doing what to them.
My mom is only strong when messing with me. Everyone else, she's a coward. She used to use me to defend her then she'll make up with them then I'm the bad guy for defending her. She let her own mother die of starvation at the age of 91 because she didn't have the balls to use her authority being the oldest child to go against her younger sister. Talk about a messed up family. If they didn't care about their own mother, I know I don't stand a chance. Jesus, Have MERCY!
P.S. Not to mention my brother balled his fist up and hit me in my face in 2009 because he caught his whore with another man. This happened over our parents house. He reached over his whores head to hit me in my eye. I wasn't even saying anything. He was mad because he wanted me to leave our parents house. He hit me so hard that I had Eye Socket Trauma. Those stars the cartoon characters see when they get hurt are real. I never seen so many stars. Guess what happened after that? Everyone began having family dinners over there on Sundays where my brother was the host. I lost a lot of weight. I was wearing a size 12/14 in clothes and I dropped down to a size 0/1. Fuck em all. I wear a size 7/8 now. I'm good.
My mom blames me for being born. She got pregnant with me at 16 and didn't finish school. She said that I took her shape away & her freedom. I gave birth to my son after I GRADUATED and got MARRIED at the age of 34. My son is an honor roll student, in the 7th grade testing on a 12th grade level My brother, her son, quit school at 16, washed up dope dealer with criminal history and currently on heroin. I don't know why they don't love me. I guess it's because I don't take shit from any of them. My dad used to be on my side but they have won him over. I let my parents use my deceased husband's truck for a year. They wrecked it, started getting pulled over by the police in it and after I asked them to park it, they continued driving it around after I got my keys back. I never gave them permission to get keys made. It's sad I had to call the police in order to let them know I won't tolerate ANY MORE ABUSE FROM ANY OF THEM EVER AGAIN. I'm tired of bull shit. Now, they have nothing but lies to say about me. I don't care what they say because looking at them and me, real people know I'm loving, kind and caring. I speak my mind and put all of them in their places. Forgive me Jesus in advanced but SCREW THEM. I'M GOOD!!!!!!
It's like a NIGHTMARE I can't wake up from! Both my parents AND both my husbands! Everyone – my whole life! I guess no one actually ever loved me, what a sad thought.