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How Does a Narcissist Maintain Long-term Relationships
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I don't know where you get your information but your right on point. 10 plus years with a narcissistic husband, I can identify with everything your saying. #falsehope #deception #lies #falsepromises
this is deep
A successful parasite doesn't kill the host, because that would kill their source of energy and ultimately themselves.
Very helpful bro thank u bless you
I am at a point right now in my marriage where I believe that my wife is a covert narcissist and has been cheating. I have no solid proof, but a ton of signs, red flags, strange behavior, etc. I confronted her once with my concerns and she became defensive, dramatic, and nothing was solved. Deep down I know I am being manipulated and deceived. What now? Any advice is greatly appreciated. I am losing my mind…
just wow mindblown
They don't maintain long relationships, can't ever be alone, & run from relationship to relationship very fast!
YOU'RE ALWAYS ON POINT. MY DEAD EX HUSBAND TO THE T. THE MAN HAS BEEN DEAD 2 YEARS AND IM STILL DEALING WITH HIS CRAP TO THIS DAY!
And yes they only do the absolute bare minimum & do all kind of deceptive s behind your back. And yes their deception always comes to light
Accurate description of narcissistic 'love'. It's all about their ego and what you can do for them (including sex & looks) fake, shallow and selfish all the way through
In addition to (temporarily) altering their behavior, they are good bullshitters. They know how to spin their problematic behavior, make empty promises, fake-cry, promise you things in the future, etc. All of things things makes the partner postpone leaving, hoping that any of these things are true. The narc also makes their partner dependent upon them in some way so that it's difficult to leave.
If Narcissists don't really love people then why do they even bother with people at all? Why don't they just stop hanging around people and cut their family and friends off and just be with themselves and their own self-love? Why do they need to have people in their lives? This tells me that they are extremely Dependent on others for everything from approval and validation to everything else because they cannot provide themselves with the things that they think others can provide them with. Narcissists would stop depending on others for validation, approval, love and other stuff if they were shown how to provide themselves with these things.
Theoretically, true Narcs who hate people and only love themselves, have no reason to have people in their lives; they would want to be only around themselves and could care less what anyone else is doing or going through, no?
I think it might be a good idea to do a video on "Why do Narcissists need people?"
excellent content I love your Channel do you have any videos that speak on adult narcissist and how they relate to children and the preacher pimp Predator that's a narcissist
Narcs are incapable of love, they are inadequate of empathy. They are superb LIARS, Masters of Manipulation, they have no boundaries, and generally they are "cut throat" SOULESS SHALLOW BEINGS.
Your videos and explanations are dead on. They are vile creatures.
NARCS….ARE EVIL….
They only maintain relationships with other such people. If they can find someone who's almost as unhealthy as they are it seems like it's a perfect match. The only people they can't have relationships with, are healthy ones with clear boundaries.
I was so insecure abt the narcs ex because the talked everyday and were together 5 yrs. In the discard phase, he left me to go bck to her. She blocked my # frm his cell and he promised to not contact me. Well he did thru Tango. She found out and still stuck with him while thinking I'm chasing him. So to her, he is wanting her while trying to keep me away. Very strange
Most helpful.
The String of Hope was my Lady!
Yes that's what this last guy constantly said"I appreciate all that you do for me"..Well that ship has sailed!
So true my ex becomes everything his new victim is, for example I'm not into sports
So he wasn't into sports at all,
I don't eat pork so he didn't either, but after we broke up he his new victim likes church so he dress the part which I never seen him do, she eat pork he now eats pork, she's into sports now he's into sports he literally mirror everything his victim is. Sad smh I know this much about his new victim because we co parent and I have notice how he try to get a reaction out of me by telling me what he have going on in life now. But I laugh inside and say sad a person who have to conform themselves into what you are. Like changing personalities so unhealthy. But in the long run true colors come out sooner or later. Very hard for them to paint that picture too long, specially when they have found new supplies. The real them starts to show, and that's when you say to self who is this person. Almost a fact that the true them will show. My ex relationships last tops 4yrs.
Amazing conviction here…You didn't miss a beat here. Exactly what I have experienced, wish so much I was educated in this field 5 years ago, I could of saved all those years instead of wasting my life for absolutely nothin
Your videos really make me think. I've been watching your vids the past few days and have learned a lot. I THANK YOU, and almost want to cry. It's almost as if you're speaking to me, I can't describe it. Either way, I'm glad I stumbled across your channel and gave your vids a try… you're godsend and maybe God put you in my path for a reason. Your videos are on point. Outstanding, informative, and unbelievably accurate. You speak with intelligence, as well. Keep up the good work.
Thank you very much for uploading this video. I recently broke up with Narc and its hurting. But your videos are helping me to understand who he really was :(
I've found that the Narc changes the subjects when I tried to discuss something of vital importance.
Please explain what a full-blown Narcissist is!
he couldn't be nice longer than a week
then very abusive
how does he last with her?
13 months??
I don't get it
they find a way to be a saint around some people
and the wife gets beat up
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help
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good talk
I think I am more of a cerebral narc than somatic.
I love you !!! You explain everything so great, amazing!!!
How do you got to all these conclusions? I've been struggling with the idea if I'm just too sensitive about the many things my partner does to me or the kids per day or per hour: the looks he gives, the things he says, the way he treat us or the loving way or the attention he doesn't give. At this point I don't know if that is how relationships work or not, my reality is a mess, outsiders love him because he looks so charming and smiley that I have even consider that I could be the one who is too sensitive or emotional but then I consider that the outsiders do not have to please him at home or tolerate to be treated like stupid or slave. Then I see you talking so healed and clear, with your thoughts so in order about all this and I wonder if some day I could have your way of thinking and understanding of the situation. Thank you for sharing.
yes, its cooperation, only, that we get
This was really great thank you.
Good info and good channel!
This guy is amazing – he hits the nail on the head in every video he posts about narcs
all this type of stuff is very good
Narcs only love you if you can be an indentured servant to them.
is there anyway I can e mail you a recording?
I'd rly like your thoughts on this.
please I need help.
if you could reply with an e mail address I would really appreciate it.
thanks.
You've got good stuff to say, but your speech tempo is too slow. Jump right into the subject, and spend some time listening to fast-talkers and try to see why slow speech wont' work, no matter how good the content.
THIS IS SOOOO TRUE!!!
Sir, you said it perfectly! Thank you for your videos:-)
you are so right – my relationship with my soon to be x husband was so hurtful. it was always chaotic. i finally caught him and heard what he was saying to someone else about me – all the while pretending to be my husband.
I missed the show ,I will look at older shows. so proud if you .I need to be a guest .Classic Covert narcissist relationship for 4 years still trying to cut away planning on moving asap.
raised by a malignant narcissist mother .and passive aggressive grandmother. .so much to tell .and Lloyd I can say is this experience is making me better not bitter .ppl we have to work out why in the first place we were targeted and get help professional well trained life coach or therapist. understanding my crazy mother manipulated me all my life until recently I went no contact with her and my incestuous family ;this leads me to believe I was raised to look for love and crave validation from others and always begging for thier attention to please .NEVER NEVER again.
Regardless of what kind of a relationship a narc is in, Keep in mind that they always are searching and looking for a new supply. They already know that the current relationship has an expiration date.
The Cerebral Narcissist I know has never left his wife in the ten years they have been married. She has left twice, but both times has returned to him. She has a good job and they have no children. I just wonder why she keeps returning.