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How to Deal with Narcissists
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I understood that you better get away from a narcissist, period. Oviously you don't agree Vanessa? Can you elaborate?
That guy would be a terrible psychologist because he doesn't people talk.
She told us how to spot a narcissist not how to deal with one. Narcissists incredibly easy to spot and they are everywhere. American culture breeds them. I know that I'm on the middle of the spectrum, but I'm trying to fix it.
A female narcissist explaining narcissists
My neighbor is literally all of these. AT ALL TIMES.
there's at least 2.%. in my house alone …
seems like the internet plays on narcissism
I think this guy qualifies for the narcissistic scale…
NOOOOOOOO A BIG NO NOOO STAY AWAY FROM THESE MONSTERS
I know a high spectrum narcissist person and I can't bear him anymore. The problem is that this person does not show any calmer situation to discuss about. I'm fed up and I always say I don't care about you. :/
me explaining how all people are narcissistic and sociopathic, and their egoism determines their capability of producing love.
All Loves are of a Void, you seek To Fill your Heart of its Emptiness. Everyone is Selfish in Love, they give what they Have. Every single person is God (Full of Love, Divine) and the Devil (Full of Emptiness, Animal).
All people are the Center of their Love or Emptiness. So i guess i would say a true narcissist if their is one is just: Empty
but if you can empathize and fill yourself with love for everything inside of you and thus around you, then you are pretty normal
they fucked up ones are the Cold Cold Cold people, who just cant open their hearts to love, which flows eternally out of you, not Through some fucking Condition outside of you, like these fuckers think. Lol. You really think i would be an Unconditional Lover if the World around me, My Interactions, and Traits would create my Persona of Character, that Defined my Love? Nope.
So in conclusion, All people are Narcissists looking for Love, You even said yourself in this video
"A Narcissist is hiding a deep insecurity" doesnt that mean his Actions are to help himself feel more Loved, so in Fact he seeks Empathy from Others, by his Own Actions to Show Others
So yeah, they are lovers too
Reflect on things.
Heres my reasons
1. Life revolves around every person, they are the Conjurer of their own Emotion, regardless of external stimuli, a persons mind is tool for his thought, which creates emotions (This is cognitive behavior therapy, psychology has defined this)
2. People do not give attention to the negative, only the positive (unless you give love to the negative) but most disregard it
3. All thought is Self Centered (every external stimuli is dictated by an internal monologue) You literally communicate your mind to other minds, all empathy requires self understanding before you can empathize (how could i find a situation emotionally stimulating, unless i have experienced the emotion…i wouldnt be able to relate)
4. I guess this ones an opinion. People can downplay or up play your emotions, but its Ultimately your mind creating the perception(back to CBT).
5. Most people hate being Wrong, natural human trait, we correct what is Wrong, because we LOVE the right. Most people who you tell are wrong will become cold, you are Questioning their believe systems.
"How can someone else's personality disorder benefit you?" That's a bit of a narcissistic question lol
we are all tend to be narcisitic in some point of our lives It is our human nature and nobody con scape from it
two biggest criminals of 2016 (so far): Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama
this lady is beautiful
1% I think it's way more than that!
For those who say why bother with a narcissist (in the family): there's much more to a person than their disease. It takes an enormous amount of compassion to interact with them. But knowing that this person was profoundly hurt – usually when just a baby – is the motivation to get through it. Like a baby, in order to feel protected, everything needs to center around them. These adults don't just feel ignored or slighted, they feel like they are being threatened with death, annihilation. This is why they lash out. It's devastating to witness once you understand their pain. I have found that a quiet relationship with them can be beautiful, like taming / loving a tiger.
Lol.
Because it's diagnosed, now it has become a "thing".
Yet, there is still zero, null, no foundations at all concerning psychiatry at large. It's used as a tool of social engineering.
I want to ride that white van if you know what i mean
dudes i have a narcissist roommate and she's annoying and the only thing i wanted to do to her is not to change her, or god-knows-why to have empathy, but to slap her hard. in the face. 200km/h speed.
She's sharp! knows her stuff
it is 80%percent in my family.4:5
only myself is not ,mu parents brother sister are all narcissists
Show empathy to a narcissist?? They will see you as a chump and destroy you.
deal with a narcissist by reinforcing their insecurity and behavior? this is ridiculous advice.
Im sorry but her advie is bogus. according to Sam Vaknin Narcissists are people who develop a false self to hide insecurities. this is cause when they are objectified as a child put on a pedestal. ie the child can do no wrong OR they can do no right according to a parent and they are not allowed to be flawed. according to sam vaknin the best way to find out if someone is very narcicistic is to ask them about things they would change about themselves or how they could improve severe narcissists will not be able to answer as they dont really see their own flaws (lack introspection) its not as simple as in text books but i have met a very nasty narcicist who projected their own flaws and criticised others for flaws he had himself a slippery childish person who mocked everyone else
So not true…..if taking selfies is a proof of narcissism. …than it is more than 1% of population who is narcissistic. Why? …..everybody wants to be the center of attention….just look at the popularity of things like twitter and facebook etcetera ….I am selfcenter…..but very confident. ..I do not have any hidden obscure disorder to hide. infact I am very compassionate with people who deserves my compassion. So..I do not agree with this explanation about narcissism.
This is really off the mark!!
What is funny! This is not a joke you sound so ignorant!
Two biggest narcissists of 2016 (so far): Nicole Arbour and Donald Trump.
Vanessa, you seem to be an expert on everything! From public speaking through how to dress, what to say, body language, and now narcissism – you name it. It doesn't make you very trustworthy, sorry.
This woman clearly has never been abused by a narc. Narcsissits aren't just people who "take selfies". This is such bullshit. Do your homework little girl, you're full of shit.
absolutely will make you deeply miserable with very little time spent in their company… I'm not sure how interest in the 'why' will serve the people who are, quite literally sometimes, afflicted by these personalities… they can be extremely destructive, especially to kids or adults in emotionally vulnerable situations that simply don't have the stamina or strength or training to deal with theses kind of knuckleheads… ime, because they also tend to be such cunning manipulators, they should be given ultimatums that will be carried out… either you go into long term therapy OR you leave; either you perform your work exactly as we've hired you do OR you don't come back to work tomorrow… that may have to live with the repercussions, they may not even feel the repercussions, but you will avoid being victimized by them and able to move on that much faster….
This was BAD BAD BAD advice. That chick was ridiculous. Narcissism is much more insidious than she implies. The person is a fake person. You do NOT care about you, though they give the impression. They will gobble up your empathy and compassion. THEY DO NOT CARE. Your empathy and compassion is STRICTLY narcissistic supply.
impossible people….run like hell!
Vanessa, you are so eager and energetic I can not help myself but thinking about you sucking my dick with that attitude… sorry, I just can not stop imagining that, you will surely understand, you are one compassionate person… :)
Remember: The narcissist never has a positive intent for you. Only for themselves. They only think for themselves. Others for them are means for their power gain and maybe financial gains. Nothing more. No less. They will never treat you like a real human being should be treated. Fuck them all.
I hate watching these type of news because the information is so watered down.
Empathize with them and compliment them–are you kidding? Don't you know how damaging these people can be? Don't you know that by empathizing or complimenting them, you are getting drawn into their web of control, victimization and/or destruction? They'll screw you over sooner or later, whether you're nice or stand up to them. It's a no win situation, and my advice is to protect your self-esteem till the day you can leave, rather than to put up with their abuse indefinitely. These people are bad news; predators and tormentors that will drive you to despair, nervous breakdowns and rage. And depending on how long you've been involved with them warrants a very strategic exit on your part because they can be very vindictive when scorned. They also tend to get everyone else on their side and make you look like the bad or crazy one. If these other people have known you longer and still side with the narcissist, they need to be left behind as well.