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25 thoughts on “Is my girlfriend or wife a Narcissist?

  1. your whatever or enemy, im tossica. narcotics anarchist. trust, i know whst abuse n use is. go love yaself.. i fucking forgot or realised if i know love. i care. n … narcissist just as bad as the blame . u deserve eachotha

  2. I really like your channel, it's absolutely educational and probably the best advice I have ever heard on this topic. Many thank's

  3. I am worried that I may be a narcissist after listening to some of these videos. Cause I do blow up when I feel like I have been disrespected or not heard…. I have come back after blowing up and have calm down and say sorry and try not to demonize someone actions cause we all make mistakes. idk. I thought I was with a narcissist… but also see some areas where I had some traits as well.. but I also never really had those traits in other relationships. Just trying not to make the same mistakes again.

  4. thanks for the vid appreciate it…but that computer genrerated voice though…!! l and is there anyway to help such a person because deep down no one is bad? and coz you actually love them and want to help them because deep down also you know they are suffering? or is there nothing that can be done…

  5. Or to put it in a nutshell, follow your instincts for self-preservation, and don't be suckered by someone who talks and acts like a corporate lobbyist, whether they're male or female.

  6. WALK AWAY – Do NOT put up with the BULLSHIT. Better to walk away and be wrong than to stick around and question them, yourself and your sanity. WALK AWAY!!

  7. Why do you talking through cartoon? I find it easier to understand the human voice. I'm guessing other people would agree with me.

  8. HAHA! Kelli B 100%. Right Joey?

  9. I avoided a psychopath/Narcissist female. I ran and I didn't look back.

  10. a Kia advert appeared on this one, might be trying to negate your criticism of the
    Kia Forte Hot Bot adverts

  11. A great set of informative video`s…keep up the good work James…people out there are beginning to sit up??

  12. Just remember guys once you marry the first 3months are the best then after the bliss is gone..she'll turn into a fullblown Baracuda Bitch…and all hell breaks loose for years to come
    In other words ….Stay single my friends 

  13. There were a few auto correction errors in that's last comment 

  14. Have you seen some of the people on tv!?!! "Oh I'm gonna go out and pretend to be poor and then go home to my fuckin' mansion the end of the day!" Eh hem!! Tyra. All of that was a means to talk about herself! And these rich people on tv like that bachelor show with the roses to fight women and men with their chilling sincerity when they say "I love you" to get the persons wealth! 

  15. Stealing money out of my wallet when I shower! Blame others for their problems! Cut there own family lose blame them for being mean to them!

  16. I can't tell you how confusing life was until I heard your videos. This one in particular hits home as we have been to counsellors but each time frustrating bc my wife would play the victim, alter reality and by playing the victim and utilizing the "men are the insensitive ones women are the victims" the counselor would think I was crazy when I simply would give illustrations of reality; situations I had encountered with my wife. My wife would do things that were exasperating and mean spirited until I showed frustration and in all situations she would tell the counselor, she would just jump to "he's irrational" while totally ignoring the hours or even countless times I had tried to work with her, even offering to give her what she wanted. In every instance she would gas light – I didn't even know what that was until I watched your videos. It was really psychologically abusive what she was doing in the event and then in the counseling sessions.
    I really appreciate what you're doing here on YouTube. I don't know how you got passionate about doing this , but it really brought me up out of the abyss. 

  17. James, what program are you using now to make your videos?  Thanks.  My spouse convinced my therapist he is the victim!  Sweet-mean cycle for sure.
      Glad you back.  Appreciate your insight.

  18. if you are unhappy with your mate then watch this

  19. It's one of the typical traits that they can con everyone into believing THEY are the victim. Most people hate being "victims", but really malignant liars love to take that part and put all the blame on the one they are tormenting – the one who do not want to be a victim, only stand up for themselves, be treated fairly and honestly. There is no bigger hurt then being blamed for things another person 100% has done. Not even getting 50% of the blame feels good, as you did nothing at all. For instance, you are walking down the street with your girlfriend. A psychopath comes up and punch you. Then you are blamed 50% for this, as he says you said something "bad" to him, which upset him. While you did nothing, said nothing, but got your face punched. That is a typical psychopath blame-shifting taken from real life. 

  20. Not necessarilly a narcissist trait, but it trips me how these women sit up here IN MY FACE or in messaging convincing me how I should accept and take their bullcrap. How insulting.

  21. I got out of a relationship with a woman like this and it took me two months to do it. Believe me guys you are stronger and worth more than you think you are. She will move onto the next man she can manipulate without a second thought about you. Really and honestly she doesn't give a damn about anyone but herself.

    Remember she has the problem NOT you. You deserve much better and one day if you are patient you will find the right girl like i have now and the difference is night and day.

    Peace

  22. So glad to see you back James.  Getting the word out on NPD is so needed in today's world.  Thank you for all you have done.  Those of us who have been on this crazy roller coaster ride gain so much from you efforts.  You are so right…..Knowledge Is Power.  

  23. Thank-you!
    I am glad I didn't let gender difference stop me from cruising your channel!!

  24. My therapist for 13 long years has
    Been saying exactly this….I cannot wait to play for him & tell
    Him ….I finally "get it". 

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