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  1. Straight to the point just how I like it WAKE Up They are powerless

  2. James your videos are really good.

  3. How do they have such a towering ego when they claim to have no self esteem

  4. the scariest part is how good they are at hiding it from others… and have no remorse…… for any one… there is no more soul…. they are gone nothing left inside but the craving for someone to lure lie to.. stalk… manipulate hopefully deceive and destroy…. I wish there was more education and awareness.. of this frightening personality.. and that There could be mandatory mental health treatment for people like this even having or there was a law that could protect the victims of these people
    …….

  5. it's so hard to accept that there are human beings free to roam and operate in society legally and without any consequence…. living to hurt and destroy others… I do have to accept it or else not face this horrible truth so I don't end up a victim ……….again

  6. ha!!! i knew it…this education on narcissism has been very liberating to me…i wasted 4 years on this person…..not one more second!! great videos and thanks James!!!

  7. This is exactly correct.  There are one or two people who have seen how mean she is to me and certain  others, but most think she's the most wonderful person they ever met.  She has destroyed our whole family with her manipulations,  I won't have anything to do with her or the rest of them anymore.  She's convinced them that I'm cruel and heartless for not seeing her and they all believe her.  Narcissists really are demons and should be sterilized so they can't reproduce and locked away from the rest of the world.

  8. I have a serious question… I have seen quite a few videos from random you tube channels on the topic of Narcissism. Been watching them mostly to determine if I have any narcissist warning signs that i am unconscious of because I would not want to subject the people in my life to that negativity. Obviously I am not an expert or even a novice on the subject but I am wondering about all the insight the people producing these videos have. They seem to describe a narcissistic person in such detail, and always making them out to be in the wrong (not saying they are not), that it makes me wonder if the reason they have this insight is because they are seeing a mirror of their own narcissism in other people they are claiming to be a narcissist. I do not mean to offend. Also, are narcissist aware of the emotional damage they are causing? And is there a spectrum for narcissistic personality disorder? Because even if I have some tendencies on the weaker end of the spectrum, I want to purge myself of them.

  9. I'm a single parent. What now?

  10. my Ex is one of these emotional vampire!! but she plays the victim if people only knew how evil she really is.

  11. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 "3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2 For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, [a]haters of good, 4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of [b]godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these."

    God gives us permission and even commands us to get away from narcissists.

  12. I have to say that of all the videos of this subject I have seen on You Tube, this one is the best.  You summed up these demons better than anyone.  Especially in your description of the sweet/mean cycle. Perfect!

  13. Can you pleas include MOM. "No matter if the Narc is
    you MOM. Or dad. Or on and on"? Thank you :-). …

  14. Thank you James.  They are demons in human bodies.

  15. cluster B personality disordered people do not deserve to be in public or on the internet, in fact they should be locked in a special psychiatric facility where they could be controlled. their impulsive behaviors brings calamity to our world.. in my view they should be systematically incarcerated so we could make the world a better place free from these pathological and damaged specie.

  16. I dont think its wrong. There's nothing wrong with hurting people. In fact it's fun. It gives you fuckers something to talk about.

  17. Had a friend who was a narcissist, we ultimately ended up punching each other out, shit got nice and bloody too! And we broke a 1000$ coffee table in the process, these fuckers really don't like to be called on their bullshit I found that out first hand, yes we both got arrested at the end of the night too!! Basically what happened was I called him on a lot of his bullshit and he got enraged and wanted to fight because of it so we tore the whole place the fuck up and got blood everywhere, I fucking hate narcissistic people and wouldn't hesitate confront another one on it, after all they do put up a good fight I'll give them that!

  18. So freaky after my ex was gone she continued to make false allegations against me,. and the whole time she did them (2 and a half years) It felt like she was doing it, out of desperation to keep 1 foot in my door. I've told my lawyer this too. and what does James say,. they'll try to get a foot hold in your life, dude that is soooooooooooooooo true!!!  

  19. The reason it is so important for society to realize this behavior; that it is way more widespread than what people may think, is that there is little or no help at all to get out once a person is stuck.  I was offered two weeks in a women's shelter. They informed me that I had to put my cats to sleep; leave my residence; bring 1 suitcase of clothing, for two weeks.  If unemployed because of the narc, it is impossible to find a residence; a job, and get settled in two weeks.  That is why so many women, in particular, get stuck.  And, of course, they do not want you to have a job or any money or you will leave.  In my case I had a vending business with 120 accounts.  He was my partner.  When I determined to leave him, he took the keys, behind my back, emptied all of the money out of the machines, threw the machines in the back of hotels, etc., and I lost the entire business.  This is what they will do to you if you try to escape.  My spouse is ex-AF, (over 400 men) so he is good at commanding a performance from me, but never wants me to have any independence.  That is lesson #1; don't ever give up your independence!!!  NEVER!!!!

  20. The nice/mean scenario is what will start to wear you down.  At first you think you are crazy, but if you keep a journal, and if you finally realize all of the strange behaviors, and that there is a diagnosis, it will be shocking to read back on it and see that it was there right from the beginning, you just didn't know what you were dealing with.  It is really cruel, and it proves that they really don't care about anyone. 

  21. These people are nothing but assholes with nothing to offer you unless you are always telling them  hoe beautiful they are …Flat out they SUCK as human beings hahaha

  22. The sweet mean cycle is also their tool to stave off the reprocussion of their transgressions too…

  23. Absolutely true. All of it. In the dream of my narcissistic mate, he was a cold dragon with multiple layers of steel sheaths. As he approached I tried to stay him off but my lance could not penetrate the shields. In a final thrust to the viscera, he collapsed and the spinal column was mush, like that of a canned sardine.  

  24. Just listened again!!
    Yes! I choose Reality! No more tricks. You have in 3 minutes articulated my 30 years since meeting this Human.

  25. YES! WAKE-UP I DO!!! It is a process ..after all the brainwashing
    This is it ! Mean is harm that is NPD Perp" bottom line. Very tricky
    And ruthless my spouse of 27 years . 

  26. You loose all power and influence in your own life. You loose control and the NARC transforms you into an evil being that the NARC can expose to the world.
    I am going through divorse and it feels like I am going through hell
    I have lost everything including my children
    I did not see it coming
    A text message;" I want a divorse, I have told the kids, dont come home" from my "loving" wife

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