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  1. I was hoping that it will end with a sex scene.

  2. I made this stupid mistake .

  3. took me a while to figure out who is the narc….

  4. women who date jerks and assholes are oftentimes jerks and assholes themselves.

  5. narcissist husband wants to talk to me after a weekend of disappearance. what should I do. I'm thinking don't respond for the sane amount of time he took off.

  6. Never, ever lay all your cards on the table when a date asks you a question like this!

  7. What a tool.
    And what is she (not) wearing?

  8. You nailed it exactly.  Never a good idea to spill out all your stats at once.  Better to go slow.

  9. omgoodness! I love this ! Thank you for all your videos.

  10. I also noted in this video that she completed one sentence with the word "sweetheart" I know this sounds odd, but I have a suspicion that women who are forever using words like "sweetheart" and  "darling" are prime candidates as narcissists. I'm not sure, but I reckon these are red flag words.

  11. That would have to be the best way to really show something – quickly and easily. I learnt more in that short vid than I have learnt in all the others I have watched in total. Well done!

  12. My crazy ex tried to convince me that his hobby was my hobby, too, so that i'd help him fund it since you know, he didn't have any money. He convinced one guy to pay his cellphone bill and another paid his electric bill. He thought he was a master manipulator until I called him out on it. I cooked him dinner at his place because he didn't have a job, and when his electric bill came in, he said 'by me cooking him dinner and washing his dishes afterwards (which used hot water), it made his light bill go up so he thought I should pay it'. He was shooting squirrels and eating them before I came into the picture.

    He never even took me out on a date and here he was, telling me I should pay his bills when I had my own bills to pay. I may be somewhat codependent because I wanted to help 'fix' things and make life somewhat easier for him, but it was never enough. His ex cooked better than me, his ex could do THIS, I should do this the way his ex did it. He left his ex's paintings on the walls and would tell me how he created a special room for her just so she could paint. He'd show me gifts he bought for her. I felt like i'd never be good enough, yet tried harder and harder until it finally hit me "Where the hell is his ex?".  She got tired of his crap and left! So, yeah, I decided to 'be like her' and I left, too. I'm now in a healthy relationship where i'm constantly being told that i'm beautiful and worthwhile. His family also loves me and we meet up for lunch once a week. 🙂
     
    If you suspect you're dealing with a narcissist – always feeling like you're walking on eggshells or being built up just to be torn right back down again.. get out. It isn't you or anything you've done (or haven't done 'right').. it's them and YOU deserve so much more – You ARE worthwhile! <3

  13. there are men like this as well…my exfiance was like this…so many questions about my personal finances and wouldn't answer (or gave ambiguous answers) when I asked the same questions after answering his.

  14. THIS just seems like 90% of the women out there now!

  15. LOL. Love the end music where it seems the narcissist has just levelled up. By the way, I have just begun dating but I never really knew narcissist existed. Thank you for these preventive videos James!

  16. Oh my gosh! That's exactly what happened in my relationship. I shared very personal, hurtful things from my past (it seemed safe, my ex was sharing stuff) and then later in the relationship when we had an argument, my ex would bring up those things saying cruel, vicious things that had nothing to do with the subject, hurting me deeply. It would catch me off guard and I would be left speechless.

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  18. i'm also not male, but your videos are great. I'm personally disgusted by ANYONE regardless of gender, that manipulates,lies, abuses, or basically is TOXIC. it's sad that many men ARE victims of abuse, and, because of the stereotypes, and the whole, "macho-be a man" crap, they largely remain silent. sad too that going through these things with people who are SUPPOSED to be "loving/trusted"-tends to create jaded hearts and souls. these vids apply to either sex,& it's always good to inform people

  19. There are a lot of men who will do this to women as well. I know. I guess that where the saying, "It's a dog eat dog world" came from. I consider this behavior more Sociopathic/Psychopathic than narcissistic, although I believe the borderlines are blurred, not all Narcissists are out to get someone to support financially or take advantage in that way. Many of them just want deep, undying admiration and approval.

  20. The codependency aspect can't overstated.

  21. I even find it very hard to trust anyone with certain information about myself.

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