Why on earth is it so hard to move on from a narcissist when we know logically they are so bad for us? Being unable to answer this question can result in years …
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Q&A Show – Why Can’t I Move On From The Narcissist?
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Wow , i try to listen to her but she distracts me with her dazzle. Well, i will give it another go ,and try not to just see how beautiful she is . Hmm.
Thank You so much Melanie
Hands down the best way to view the confusion and hurt. I never comment but feel compelled to say THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your message is powerful without a reservation. It makes sense on a cosmic level. And at the very least it puts healing in my hands and not the hands of someone i cant control. Stop the mania of proving my intentions. Thank the N and know there was a loving universal reason. and thats to heal so i can spread the highest and purest vibration LOVE. Again thank you u changed my life direction today. Im truly grateful.
Hi Melanie, thank you for being so clear about this and to share our knowledge. Tons of respect, and hi from Berlin Germany!
Thank you – this is so helpful. So are you saying that it is enough to identify the original wound in the body – and then let it go? Is this enough for healing to take place?
This is really fascinating. Thank you for sharing :)
This is very helpful, thank you very much
Some of the most clear explanation i've ever heard.
no ı cant turn it around!! i am now 64 and ı still cant get my own place. ı have certainly got over HIMbut not over the financial devastation which will be with me for the rest of my life.
How do you cure a narcissist?
How do you begin to go into your subconscious and discover these things?
I am just starting to make the unconscious conscious, and already it's changing how I communicate and don't communicate with the narc in my life. The emotional pain is starting to lessen. Melanie, I am so grateful for your messages. Thank you.
Why is it that there is absolutely no information on the internet AT ALL about how to deal with the grief when a NPD dies ? Nothing at all ? Why ?
Thanks for sharing such strength, knowledge, and love.
Pete
To Silkbuttons. That’s NOT what Melanie is saying at all. It’s not like a narcissist will not hook you or abuse you, if you don’t have any deep-seated unconscious psychological issues, it’s more like they won’t even be in your reality. You won’t even notice them! Melanie is not blaming the victim, she’s exhorting us to not even see ourselves as a victim, but as a fully grown human being responsible for our own healing and thriving. The first step in taking that responsibility is taking a look at yourself, at YOU. Not in a self-blaming sort of way, but in a way that asks, “Why am I driven to look to someone or something outside of myself to feel loved, when that love has been inside me all along?"
Great information Melanie, In 2012 I kept going over your quanta healing video, and with your instructions was able move myself out of a situation with a narcissist. I was also able to learn so much about my own behaviors and heal…
So true and perfect answer. Thanks for doing this for people.
silkbuttons … I have worked with thousands of people who have gone down the psychology line (it is just to do with narcissists) and never broken free from the trauma or the addiction. You would see a ton of people mired in repeat in therapy – because that is the usual result. In stark contrast humbly and definitely people break through within days with my orientation in ways that they could never access previously (come into my Webinar Group and observe for yourself). I promise you on the Quantum Level there is always a reason inside us. This is not blaming a victim – it is empowering them to know they have the power to change something inside themselves to change their Life, rather than being hooked on abusers who they have NO power to change, adapt or work with. Please check out the testimonies, replies on my blogs and all my forums … the people who do work on this Quantum Level, and then go through Abuse Forums and see the absolute night and day distinction which is evident everywhere you look. The Thriver orientation has zero to do with blame / shame … the concept of blame and shame are old victim paradigms (of ourselves or others). None of us feel those or subscribe to those when we are in radical responsibility in our body evolving ourselves, we feel the exact opposite. x
I love you are out there for us, but I don't believe that narcissists hurting us is correlated with our childhood wounds necessarily. I am a psychologist and I disagree a bit. Narcissists are narcissists, as are empaths nice kind caring people so narcissists have them in their sites. It doesn't mean we need to cure childhood wounds and the. The narcissist won't hurt us. Narcissists hurt people. Period. It's almost as if you are saying that the narcissist will be a nice person and not hook you and abuse you if you don't have any deep seated unconscious psychological issues. If those issues affect your relationships then all your relationships could be dysfunctional with anyone. We are hooked in due to the narcissistic abusive behaviour. Don't blame the victim Melanie.
Thank you for this wonderful and powerful information…..
Thank you for this. You are the first person to tell me the "why" of my situation. It just makes sense, and I can't wait to hear the webinar!
thank you Mel. very empowering video. keep up all the good work, God be with you always xxx