Subtle Ignoring – How to spot a Narcissist 101 http://www.menwhoareabused.com.
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Subtle Ignoring – How to spot a Narcissist 101
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"Men are taught from an early age that this behavior is normal, but it's not normal, it's toxic.". I am a man, how are we supposed to reconcile this? The very idea, "this is the way most women act but it's not normal it makes them an evil narcissist.". it doesn't hold up to a common sense test. Either it's disordered behavior or MOST women behave this way. wtf?
A lot of narcissists I've known can appear to be phenomenal listeners as a way to compare themselves to you so they can then find a way to devalue you.
The same holds true for socially awkward people who are bad at making eye contacting/ or are just awkward in conversation all around. (Interrupting at inappropriate times
Because it feels weird)
Some of the predatory narcissists are excellent listeners, they are the patient predators, it all depends on what image the narcissist is creating for him/herself. Having the appearance and reputation of a caring and altruistic person provides an excellent cover for plotting crimes and it deepens the connection between predator and victim and that itself is narcissistic supply. The best way to see if someone is a narcissist is to see if they have normal friends and if they are able to successfully work under a boss.
I have a test. It worked tonight. If I sense a need for empathy about those who are suffering, it is a turn off. I don't get past the test if he flunks. That won't change. I have empathy and I want to be equally "yoked" with someone who has compassion. I think empathy goes with the territory if you say you follow Christ. Following His example leads us to empathy so if a person doesn't get there, I have to wonder who they are following.
Thank you for the tip I really appreciate it.
we all like to talk about yourself but when there is never any giving back and forth ever on both sides and always about other person then you have come across a very self centered person or narcissist
Usually most of the managers at work environment like that and most of adults caring out a superficial conversation and caring out own interests.
LMMFAO, YOU DESCRIBED MY EX!!!! THAT BITCH NEEDS HELP!!!!
they are not smart that much to decide or understand ,they also under control,we all in the list ,the difference in between us ,is just the date.
Wow, amazing, unique info. Wish I had known this years ago.
That voice dosent really work. Should be easy to change it.
i feel like it is so hard to pay attention to other people, i try so hard. it isn't a devalue thing as much as its my ADD…its easier when i relate with similar experience but i wish there were a way to be more connected
fuck you dont categorized us ill crush you
This might be harder to spot at the beginning of a relationship. Some narcissists put quite an effort into making you think that they're into you.
People maybe ADD and change topics and low zinc people may not look at you. It is not a trait just of Narcissists. You can't lump ADD and N together.
i start to explain how im feeling and i will be cut off by the 3rd word and he'll use my own words back on me …
The videos are interesting, thank you for doing that but the artificial voice make them very painful to watch.
+begood4000 Is "making up stories" a symptom of narcissism?
From my recollection of past events I have experienced this a few times – I just put it down to me being a boring conversationist! Sometimes because I prefer to talk about old cars over the recent soccer results!
This is so true of every narcissist in my life 🙁 Idky I put up w this shit for so long
This was exactly how it started. When I called her on it she described her disinterest in the same subjects that were our original interests. The silent treatments usually happened in public and I never knew what instigated it.
what's my name
The robot voice is REALLY annoying. What are you scared of?
why are you using this robotic voice? are you worried the CIA is going to track you down and murder you because you made this video?
this must b tje reach of conscious deliberate tendencies of behaviour pattern . hence not volontary. so…. response to obsession cumpulsion
Thank you! Mine would never allow me to speak without interrupting me. He's a judge by profession and, so at first I thought it was that instead of narcissistic abuse. it only took him ten days to meet someone else and four days later ask them to marry him. That was done to punish me for I told him in the beginning that the last man I was with moved in with his ex two weeks later and that really had hurt me.. He trumped it by proposing to her and having her move in.. I'm trying to educate myself on this..
Sounds like everyone is a little narcissist then.
Pretty much most of the people in my life are like this. I have cut them out except my family members that are like this. Cut off and get out if you can! It only took me until I was in my late thirties to understand this type of behaviour. Don't care about their feelings they don't care about yours and if you notice these behaviours you will see the only time they cry is over themselves no one else! It is all about them.
Is it ever too late to leave? I've only realised my spouse is narcissistic after so many years, their self-victimizing behavior and "me, me.me-ness" doesn't change, and now this. He doesn't seem to care or realise how his behavior affects my health and well being. Fool for me for hoping he'd change, only to realize that he is exactly what you describe. He doubts my abilities to make it on my own, yet I am the breadwinner here. Is it ever too late to leave? Thanks for such eye-opening videos.
Some people talk too much, and some people even have boring conversations.
This is one of your best vids yet. Wish i had been told this years and years ago!