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Very very nice
Very very nice
Thankyou for your kind words.
Thank you so much, James. Like so many survivors of Narcissistic abuse, this is my story too; I needed to hear this, especially today.
This has been my life. I am 50 now and have been wondering how to rebuild my life. Heavy sigh.
Yes very true…then people think something is wrong you because you don't have friends.
This is so my story, wow!
davina wolf. your story sounds exactly like mine in as of right now the man is Rob's told me fall asleep at 3 me and Jail been confessed it now he has her in every family member against me will almost but definitely has been one hell of an emotional abuse apart me and my girls would he made my oldest daughter two would make you throw up contact me anytime people don't understand what a mother like that can do and I married a smarter version of exactly her
Thank you for pointing out that socially isolated people may have suffered from narcisstic abuse from a N parent. This gives me more compassion and empathy for myself and other persons who were scapegoated in their family of origin.
Thank you Amazing talk!
I am finding it so difficult to believe my father ruined my life deliberately. He still does it even though he is 93 and I am 69. Very embarrassing!! Every one thinks he is wonderful. I have no friends or support.
Amen & Thank you so much!
I understand my mother is more the victim from her NPD than anyone else.
The wisdom I can leave with others is this; learn to be alone; love you; God made you unique, don't allow anyone to take that away, and if you are a victim of a narc, you will need this skill more than any other. Being alone; being happy being alone, means you are secure within yourself. And, lets face it, you are probably all alone because you are involved with a narc. What gets me is even dying (me) the narc will still use the same tactics; they know no better. Ignoring you is part of the abuse. I have a terminal illness; I am handling it very, very well. The narc should also realize that some day I won't be there; but to this day I am ignored because the TV is on. So much for a relationship; relationships are "receiving" not giving, even when you are at your lowest point. Be strong; don't let it get you down; they are sick people, and when the last person is gone; the TV will be roaring!
Or sibling
when going through this process is tough too tell if has some ole friends if they working on behalf of the X partner with filling in of info or what, the trust for others is slim! so do we baware or find others?
I really must thank you "James Again". I really watch your posts and learn valuable Info every time.
The first time I heard someone on a morning tv show give the definition of a narcissist, I began looking for more info. That is when I stumbled across your videos.
I was relieved that I wasn't alone or going crazy. and because of your experiences and advise, I have begun to take the steps to change my life and try to get him out of my life.
THANK YOU GROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!
thank you
I observe when I feel lonely, it's because I feel insignificant, even thought it could be an anonymous narcissist on the internet drained my energy. But once I resolve that (e.g. say certain things/words), detach, then I don't feel lonely anymore (I am alone, but I don't feel lonely at all).
You describe exactly the way that I grew up and the way that I am now–alone. My mother continues to turn anyone that she can against me (she is 90) and I can see what she's up to even though I've been NC for 15 years and have lived 3,000 miles away for decades. Narcissists are cruel, scary people. This video helps me to see that my response to my crazy family is not so unusual and that I need to move onward. You are clearly a kind person and have been through the wringer too. Thanks!
amazing
Excellent and heart-felt…ty.
thank you James, Merry Christmas.
denise God bless you
James i really love ur content. It is absolutely incredible. But can u tone down this new voice? its too heavy in tone, too much depth, in auto-tune sometimes it gets tough to understand. english isnt my first language. ur past voice was really great, sounded very sympathetic and genuine. It had an effect. Can you please change the tone of this voice?
You are amazing, James, a robot with a big heart. Luv ya.
Amazing, you have described my childhood. my life. This is what my mother did. She made me into the scapegoat- friends, aunts and uncles and sadly, siblings too. Thank you for such a clear explanation of my own experience.
I am one of the lucky ones…. one of my best friends- who had disappeared like many others – found me after 13 years. It was only then that she told me that my mother had told her"she better stay away from me", My mother was so happy to see me without friends– she would then tell me that "of course there is something wrong with you, don't you see… you cannot keep a friend!"
So many stories, so difficult …. thank you. Thank you!
Love&Light
Namaste
Claudia
I want to thank you for your videos. I'm a daughter of narcissists and watch all the videos on YouTube, but yours always hit home to me. I can't listen to what I call the robotic voice, with anybody's videos but yours. Thank you so much for all you do.
Thankyou soo much for this video. I needed to hear this today. So validating and empowering. With my hand on my heart I thank you. Every word you said touched me. Bless you xxx
Is losing your whole family common? I'm just learning about this topic. I think my mother was/is a covert narcissistic. It ruined my life and caused me to have to be estranged from my whole family. It's a hurt that has a hard time healing. My poor kids don't know what it's like to have loving grandparents, auntees or uncles because of my mother.
Swimming in a sea of narcissism, our western culture stinks of it.
Very good video.
so true, thank you
great video!
Thank you thank you thank you, James. It took a move across the continent to free myself from the multiple narcissists of my past, to learn how to live happy in a new place. Am I lonely? Yes, but not nearly as lonely as I was when I was with the narcs. It's true, when I look at my family replete with the monsters (narcs) that I have no family now, but I never did because family (for me )–It was just an illusion, a mist, a wish. Yes, I'm very alone but not lonely. I am truly free. I feel educated. I feel light. I am not afraid to evaluate all with whom I come into contact and make a decision as to just how large a role I allow them to play in my life. I get to choose my "family" and you know what? I really like and love them! I am learning the beauty of real relationship! How exciting is that? How hopeful? I have found that narcissism is quite common, but so are good people. And they translate into new friends, real ones who are not the paper tigers, the monsters I was raised with. I have longtime friends of pure gold and live a truly blessed life. I hope this encourages your fans.
Fabulous. You have managed to explain why I have felt so lonely and alienated my whole life. I greatly appreciate your also adding steps to get us out of this place. Always want those. Thanks!
Thank You…
Thank you for all your help