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This is very good. One thing I have noticed with narcissists, they cannot tolerate someone else's problems, they are seen as an irritation, except when they can fake empathy to make themselves seem caring and giving. It seems that the more someone needs them the more they ignore or avoid them, until the hurting person no longer has the need.
everything said on this video is scary spot on… why is this pattern so marked on them?
Listening to these made me realize how bad my narcissism really is.
Do you see a pattern when narcissists get called out on their behavior? Here's what I've seen: the N. attacks someone, and if the attacked person protests "you attacked me! Now I'm hurt and offended and upset", the N. replies: "Well, I was just expressing my opinion." If you suggest the N. should watch what he says so as not to upset people, he acts as if that's a physical impossibility, like cold fusion or a perpetual motion machine. But the rest of the population views this as a basic social skill.
Thanks, Sam, for your helpful and informative videos! I had a N. father, and I'm still trying to figure it all out –
what if it your mom i need help with that
God, this describes my ex perfectly. One thing I would add is their incredible hypocrisy / holding others to impossible standards only to have them fail and thus feel vindicated.
Very good information:)Thank you
I have a narcissistic Dad and I'm 18 and a high school senior and he just signs me up for this big university when I told him I wanted to go to a small school and he just took it upon himself to sign me up ignoring what I wanted to do after High School
Thank you for the post.
Funny, my narcissist wife was bearing gifts and threatening to poison me with hemlock all the time. She said it was just a joke but I was very tired of hearing it by the time she hit me, tried to tear my clothes and passport and told authorities she was the victim then left me stranded a thousand miles from home.
I have watched a Narc subdue a very outgoing person, year after year, wearing her down, until she would not express herself without his permission and consent. He is now aiming to remove the love of her Father from the picture. The guy is revolting.
When one is subjected to a narc's brutal honesty long enough, is one prone to similar behaviour? I have always been honest to a fault, and tend not to sugar coat my thoughts/opinions. Occasionally, I filter myself, when I see a person isn't able to handle my bluntness. My narc is able to dish it out, but not receive it. Your thoughts?
De=S.i.r.E
This is about video 10 or 12 that sounds exactly like my brother. He is a convicted pedophile who will now spend the rest of his life in prison for the possession and distribution of child pornography. What clued me in on the idea that he may be a narcissist was typing a question into google about the most prominent feature that he absolutely reeks of. That question was, "what kind of person has a grandiose sense of entitlement"? The results show nothing but narcissism on the first page.
The one thing I know without an official diagnosis is that he is a dangerous nut-case. He has no remorse, no empathy, is vindictive, flies into rages, boasts that he has a B.A. degree from a community college that does not issue anything than an Associates Degree, lies, cons, steals, loves to be the center of attention, isolates himself, sulks, calculates, manipulates, makes everybody around him miserable when he is, raised children by himself who are ridden with severe psychological impairments, projects himself onto others, does everything you just mentioned in this video, and with good reason – perceives me as a threat. I could go on, and on, and on. He has destroyed just about every life he has ever touched and I (along with a few others) have been the object of his rage many times.
My best guess about how he can do what he did, and why he did what he did, is that he must be something like a psychopathic, narcissistic, pedophile. With our parents dead, my other siblings have been looking to me for an explanation about him. This is the best I could come up with. For my not being a clinician, would you consider this a fair guess? I suspect the real diagnosis is much worse.
Cuz I was always feel drained big time beyond hell! The worst experience no one would ever want
One more thing! Is it like a "SSRI" affect? The brain is cut off the stomach for to re uptake the chemistry to fiction normal? Strange! By far! Or is it the "SVRI". The selective victim re uptake inhibitors?
A Narcissist will hurt you, will force you to act against your own better judgement and thereby make a fool of yourself, he might even destroy your life, just to tell you what an idiot you are, and how you are the only one to blame for it all.
As children and young adults we are always told by everyone around us how to always be positive, optimistic, "good", forgiving, honest and it's true in most contexts, what most of us are almost never taught is how to set and maintain personal boundaries and how to identify and protect ourselves from sources of psychological abuse and manipulation.
Narcs are always so concerned and helpful, but always for the purpose of scoring points against you. It's always some form of insult that is couched in helpfulness or mere honesty. That way the narcissist creates an image of brave, brutal honesty, of the kind of sincerity all those other hypocrites shun; he also comes across as helpful and caring; and you end up feeling like somebody defecated all over you.
Raging fury filled insane violent lunatics are also narcissists
My sister, a true narc, told me once, when I was nursing my baby boy, "you need to stop that because he is getting too old and he is a boy." Classic comment for her. She failed at nursing her children, so she had to cut me down and make something dirty out of it. Luckily, I ignored her at the time. She has been doing this to me my entire life and I never understood it until I learned about NPD. Now I get it. I will never be around her again, as long as I have a choice.
It must be exhausting to be a narc. I hope she is suffering big time. I guess I have not forgiven her yet.
Be careful NOT to use your ex/partner's narcissistic behaviour as an excuse not to correct your own behaviour.
Don't assume, because the person who hurt you was a narcissist, it means that you are completely without fault!
Some people wrongly assume that whoever or whatever causes them pain is ALWAYS unjustified, (not always the case).
No human is above correction or personal character growth; no matter how challenging it may seem.
I wish you Peace & Love…….
so sad and sick…my mother has often spoken /degraded/abused me in this way. i always had a "gut-instinct" as a child, adolescent and through adulthood this behavior of hers towards me was not that of a true loving mother. one who loves unconditionally. your statements you made in this video is exactly, pretty much a carbon copy of words my mother has often said to me . thankyou for helping me awaken. for 54 years i tthought i was too sensitive and the crazy one. what i have also learned is to always trust my gut instincts. it may have taken me quite a long time however, when the abuser is a parent…it is not a quickie to realize. i am hoping my process of healing will not be another 54 years.
It takes 3.5 mins for my narcissist mask to slip from nice to ugly lol my narcissist , "wow your looking really good your eyes are all drawn in and dark " lol that's after I dinged the door to him for 3 months then he found out what gym i go to and guess what .
The NPD I escaped would shred his x-wives character and reputations, telling 'ALL' the things they did to him which in actuality turned out to be ALL the things he did to them! Typical mirroring,,,I hope they've found healing.
I became sick to the stomach listening to this. I grew up with a narcissistic father who treated me in the exact way the video describes.Narcissists should not be allowed to have children. They are such easy prey and they can do so much harm to them.
this is so true , he says he is joking but he has already gathered info on you from other people about you and about the smallest things, honestly really a venomous and mediocre person what a wanker and loser too
I'm interested in the relation of how much in one's persona consists of narcissistic traits in general. Even if put into simple data, ie. 20% of narcissistic in a person is still a "normal human being", but over 80% would be an almost totally absorbed narcissist. But presumably they don't interlay/mix at the same time, but kind of switch from a state to a state? Just speculating out of curiosity.
"….So, the narcissist's aggression wears many forms. […]
The narcissist's favourite sadistic cocktail is brutal honesty coupled with "helpful advice" and "concern" for the welfare of the person attacked. […]
Another favourite trick is to harp on the insecurities, fears, weaknesses, and deficiencies of the target of aggression. …"
Very important. Knowing their tricks helps.
Unrelenting torture is all they can give. All Narcs out there should be shot. period.
not one ounce of guilt,
when i said to him that the priest has no time to talk to me, he replied:"Maybe you should find another church, which is better for you".When I said to him i don't want to write my dead father's name on a reminder list to be prayed on, because i used to hate him,he replied:"Then you should write your name on the dead people's list"
You shouldn't hate yourself if you are a narcissist. You just have to learn to look in the mirror, realize that you're fucked up, and love/accept yourself for who you are.
This sounds a lot like American culture in general, any thoughts on that and how it relates to narcissism?
could be, or could be related to his past and way of disassociating from trauma, if he has had much trauma in his past, he might be unable to cope with anymore. but then most narcs are unable to show emotion..apart from anger or aggression, have you ever seen him crying or pretending to.. their attempts at this level of emotion are always very fake and often overly dramatic.. it is like you are watching a very bad actor.
I have a friend who I think is a narcissist but something strange. when confronted with something that should be emotionally upsetting or traumatic(personal attack, sudden dissapointment), the person actually becomes very cold and unemotional and unattached to the situation.Is this a NPD behaviour?
Now that I have left my N and I am in a happy and fulfilling relationship, I think he is livid. He is always trying to find a way to make trouble, but it is passive aggressive and not overt.
cunning and spiteful? I don't think I could do that, getting away, impossible right now. Thank you
get away or be cunning and spitefull.
doesn't like to pay taxes or deal with beauracracy?
omg! thank you, someone very close to me does this all the time, I thought I was just being sensitive . So what should I do? Any Ideas?
See the video on my channel about the Two Narcissists in a Couple.