this is my story of how I went from a childhood of abuse with a sadistic malignant overt narcissist to an adulthood with a covert malignant narcissist. I tried to keep …
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Shocking. Even with what I know. Totally shocking.
Very similar I think. I was raised in an abusive toxic home and married in a toxic family. Early in my marriage I was scapegoated overtly and lied about by my inlaws. Fortunately my husband is not very close with them and we keep our distance. I try and temper things by having them over for dinner every six months and that's it. My father-in-law was slighted because my husband forgot to wish him a happy birthday and announced that we are off the will. I said, "Oh well". He's a piece of work.
Starting at 32:21…I so relate to this. In my case it was my father's behavior was acceptable and worthy of forgiveness and forgetting. But how dare I react, respond and be angry about it.
When he was terminally ill I actually got the same ultimatum from three (immediate) family members to step up and help care for him or walk away completely.
the reflexive operant conditioning is what we have to fight constantly. I am going to make a follow up video to this.
at least you have the support of your husband.
you write beautifully Kristy. It's a wonder we are all so eloquent, considering what we went through.