Nothing about you is Important – Narcissist / Sociopath / Male BPD

Nothing about you is Important – Narcissist / Sociopath / Male BPD

Nothing about you is Important – Narcissist’s eloquently evil tidbit insult of the century to me. I can almost imagine that being needle pointed as a poison gift from a master villain. N O T H I N G    about     Y O U    is    I M P O R T A N T This from an alcoholic, gambling misogynist. When I was slapped with this attack, I responded in the most tepid manner. Since I didn’t dissolve into tears, Narc didn’t get his pound of flesh. Next…

American Horror Story: Gaslighted “Your life is Worthless” and other positive affirmations from your loving Narcissist Overlord

American Horror Story: Gaslighted “Your life is Worthless” and other positive affirmations from your loving Narcissist Overlord

The Narc stated mockingly that i have been a good girlfriend, but I’m a girlfriend he does not want to ever touch or have a conversation with or live with.     As the Narc’s economic control has only tightened, he is enjoying the double bind he has me in. The sociopath narcissist spends much energy “reminding me” that dating me has been a waste of  nearly a decade for him (we barely saw each other for the 1st 2 years long distance and even then it’s 7 years, but NPD…

Worst Gaslighting Example – Run Away Screaming Top Narcissistic / Sociopath Abuse Red Flag

Worst Gaslighting Example – Run Away Screaming Top Narcissistic / Sociopath Abuse Red Flag

Psychological murder can take many forms but the type I’m really referring to is of a covertly narcissistic and/or sociopathic nature. It may be too difficult for some people to be able to comprehend but it does happen and I’ve seen it happen.   No evidence of it is left behind and no-one has ever been convicted of it yet in reality, what I will term pernicious abuse is something which can and does have a devastating effect, not just on the victim, but also within society. Pernicious abuse can…

Pretend Guy Redux AKA The Man who Wasn’t EVER There

Pretend Guy Redux AKA The Man who Wasn’t EVER There

Pretend Guy Redux AKA The Man who Wasn’t EVER There  Pretend guy has been gone for several years now, really 6 years if we’re being honest. [Pretend Guy = http://alexandranouri.com/2011/03/13/missing-the-narcissist/ ] But thanks to post financial collapse of USA’s housing market coupled with that dating this fiend long distance, I am still trapped and mired in a soul sucking situation. Back to pretend guy AKA not the real guy, Mr Bizarro. Pretend guy was sweet, a true friend, an easy facade to maintain when your girlfriend lives far afield. Over many painful dissections…